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People are really mad about dogs and heat stroke?

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Brayndrayn · 30/06/2025 21:37

In Italy there are dogs out in the midday sun with no shade with their owners for bloody hours. Personally I walk my dogs very early in this heat but it is kicking OFF on the local FB page about dogs being out today. People shouting at those with dogs as they go past in a car etc. Nobody knows others’ circumstances or where they are going or for what reason. Yes I know about paws on hot pavements but by Christ those pavements/sand in Italy were boiling and the dogs didn’t seem to care. My dogs also ran out of the house onto my patio and wanted to stay there this afternoon. I’m not saying there is no risk but this country loses the plot over dogs to point of being really very rude to other people about it. Realise I’m probably going to get flamed…

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Ladamesansmerci · 30/06/2025 23:34

People go OTT. It should be common sense. If you need to walk them, do it early or late, or take them to somewhere shaded/with a stream. Don't walk in the hours of peak sun. Don't lock them in cars. Cool your car down first. Just don't be an idiot basically. It's the same logic as young children in the heat. If it's too warm for your 2 year old to play in the garden, it's too warm for your dog. And don't take out your elderly/frail dogs.

Sadly some people have no common sense.

Igotupagain · 30/06/2025 23:30

Depends on your dog breed and the dogs fitness level. I took mine out at 7pm, for a short walk. She took ages to stop panting when we arrived home. Was worrying

Chintzcardboard · 30/06/2025 23:26

Brayndrayn · 30/06/2025 21:37

In Italy there are dogs out in the midday sun with no shade with their owners for bloody hours. Personally I walk my dogs very early in this heat but it is kicking OFF on the local FB page about dogs being out today. People shouting at those with dogs as they go past in a car etc. Nobody knows others’ circumstances or where they are going or for what reason. Yes I know about paws on hot pavements but by Christ those pavements/sand in Italy were boiling and the dogs didn’t seem to care. My dogs also ran out of the house onto my patio and wanted to stay there this afternoon. I’m not saying there is no risk but this country loses the plot over dogs to point of being really very rude to other people about it. Realise I’m probably going to get flamed…

Agree, I get nutters trying to get my dog to drink from their water bottle. My dog is 100% thinking - I don’t know what’s been in your mouth, not sharing with you!!
I live so close by, my dog is hydrated. If he’s not drinking from all those water bowls outside the shops, he’s not thirsty. Dog & I used to live in place 32* every day, no dogs there died from hot streets.

The other new crazy human behavior, is think it’s cruel/ irresponsible/ abandoned/ theft risk, to tie a dog outside a shop. Not bringing a dog into Tesco, pharmacy, etc. Plus, there are shops my dog does not like to go into, he prefers to sit outside. Lunatics wait outside to berate me, or hear them talking “oh he’s abandoned… let’s have a selfie”

He is 10 yr old Labrador, neutered, with some joint issues. He is not financially attractive to a thief.

Ihateslugs · 30/06/2025 23:19

Cabinetbat23 · 30/06/2025 21:53

Not the point but am I in the only place in the country where it is not fucking boiling?

No you are not! It was warm here today but certainly not scorching and it was fairly cloudy. The forecast is for rain over the next two days before brightening up to abut 22°.

Anotherparkingthread · 30/06/2025 23:10

I had to rush my dog to the vets a few years ago and was without a car, I couldn't find a taxi driver willing to take him so I took him on the bus. It was a blistering hot day and the looks and comments I got off busy bodies was awful (too big of a dog to carry).

Equally I saw somebody walking a German shepherd puppy today at peak of 31c. I was only outside because I had an appointment I wouldn't have left the house otherwise and I did judge very very hard.

SapphireSeptember · 30/06/2025 23:08

QuaintJadeFox · 30/06/2025 22:39

Yes I agree completely, so patronising some people! I walked my dog this morning down to the river and he had a lovely time splashing around. Admittedly it was definitely too hot this afternoon but I think people love to get on their high horses! Also read something about not letting dogs run in grass because they may get bitten by an adder! Honestly feel like people will do what they’re doing with cats next and keep them permanently indoors!!!!

Some people do. My upstairs neighbours have two dogs (and a cat) and only the big dog ever goes out (for all of five minutes.) It's a Labrador as well. The little one I have never seen (although I hear it all the time) and I've lived here for nine and a half months.

WhereDoBrokenHeartsGo · 30/06/2025 23:06

I’m in Italy with my dog at the moment. She loves the warmer temperatures but we have to be really careful with her overheating while the local dogs seem completely at ease with a 15km hike up a mountain. It’s been almost two months and my dog hasn’t acclimatised in any way!

Stripyduckwak · 30/06/2025 23:06

Honestly couldn't agree more. We are farmers and have sheep, cattle and numerous dogs. The sheep and the cattle just get on with it in the same way the dogs do. Yes it's hot but make sure they've got access to water and shade and ours will still choose to be out with us even when given the option to stay. Our Collies even still try to work sheep and get extremely distressed if they hear the quad leaving without them. Unfortunately we don't get to stop working because it's hot! We only don't work the dogs if it's very, very hot, otherwise it's business as usual and the dogs wouldn't have it any other way and have never come to any harm (neither do the poor sheep with their thick wooly fleeces!!). I find it so weird when people go on as if a dog can't stand hot weather.... we've got 6 dogs at the moment (4 collies and 2 spaniels) and have had working dogs for generations, not once has the hot weather ever been an issue. We can't move sheep without the dogs and we can't just stop working when the Mercury climbs.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 30/06/2025 23:06

I was on holiday near Sorrento on e May and the hotel had a beautiful golden spaniel. One afternoon when I got back, they’d had him clipped short all over except a tuft on his tail. This was to help him stay cool.

Katiehod · 30/06/2025 23:05

ComtesseDeSpair · 30/06/2025 22:02

I think the vehemence some people show around this is OTT. Lengthily walking your dog in the heat of the sun, obviously to be avoided. But my parents have been too afraid to take their dog (who won’t toilet in their garden or on the street) a few hundred metres up the road to the park since somebody accosted them angrily last year to berate them for having their dog out. Not good for poor dog.

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We had this issue with our rescue dog when we first got him. Really inconvenient at times! Our trainer told us to take one of our dogs poo's home and pop it in the garden. It worked!

DBSFstupid · 30/06/2025 23:04

Gambola · 30/06/2025 22:20

'Yer but how ya gonna show ya bully off if you're not parading it round town??'

There was a total and utter stupid bitch of a woman at a fun fair I went to on Saturday. Had a bulldog there, mid afternoon, about 27c. The poor thing was really struggling. It's chest was heaving trying to breathe. Stupid, stupid bitch. She looked utterly gormless. Had a child with her as well so sadly looks to have passed on her useless prick genes.

These people should be sterilised for the benefit of everything that has to breathe the same air as them.

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I agree with you. Strongly.

MumWifeOther · 30/06/2025 23:02

The way dogs are treated in this country is honestly bonkers 😂 obviously excercise common sense, but also 🤪

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 30/06/2025 23:00

Cabinetbat23 · 30/06/2025 21:53

Not the point but am I in the only place in the country where it is not fucking boiling?

No, we've had to put the heating on today for a bit.

OneSpoonyGreyWasp · 30/06/2025 22:56

Yes it doesn’t fail down here at night. I’ve just gotten back from Morocco where it is very hot.
But the sun sets earlier and it cools right down around 3am until 6am. You could actually use a blanket. Here? No

DBSFstupid · 30/06/2025 22:55

Divebar2021 · 30/06/2025 22:02

I’ve only had a dog for 18 months so I’m not incredibly experienced. What do you consider a good cut off temperature? We went out at 08.30 and it was about 20 degrees. Went to the local park and I kept her under the trees for 70% of the time and did not do tons of running off lead. We took water with us which she drank and we were back by 09.30. Does that sound reasonable. ( she’s a 3 year old mutt)

@Divebar2021 That sounds absolutelyy spot on and really caring💗

PixieTales · 30/06/2025 22:54

YANBU
People love passing judgement on dog owners. No one loves that dog more than their owner so the idea that they would
do something to cause harm to them is ridiculous.

Let’s all go around shouting at parents to put a sun hat on their child, make sure they have a bottle of water and wear factor 50. Except that doesn’t happen because we aren’t all self righteous idiots.

Dappy777 · 30/06/2025 22:54

Biginnin · 30/06/2025 22:44

I think until you’ve been on the receiving end of this you don’t realise how unpleasant it is. If you are trying to do your best by your dog and get shouted at and called an “ignorant bitch” and told you don’t care about your dog, it is really nasty. You can explain that you are only out for 10 minutes and they need a wee, and you’re in the shade or have a cooling coat on them-but the person being nasty doesn’t want to hear it.

I certainly wouldn’t defend that kind of behaviour. You obviously love and care for your dog, and such people are out of order - especially when they don’t even know you. But in general I do understand the concern for dogs in hot weather. And if people are getting angry about this issue, it’s no bad thing. At least it shows they care.

salcombebabe · 30/06/2025 22:52

I took my elderly neighbour out for a drive at lunchtime today and had to have the aircon on as it was 32degs. Whilst we were out I saw two elderly couples walking their dog in the hottest sunshine! I was so cross with them and I think they could see that from my face as I stared at them 🥵😡

wastingtimeonhere · 30/06/2025 22:51

Mad dogs and English Men out in the midday sun. Dogs in hot countries tend to find shade and snooze the hottest part of the day. Tyson being dragged round the park during lunchtime does not get that .

lyinginthebathpondering · 30/06/2025 22:46

Cabinetbat23 · 30/06/2025 21:53

Not the point but am I in the only place in the country where it is not fucking boiling?

I don’t know, but I’d love to be wherever you are.

JIMER202 · 30/06/2025 22:45

I live abroad (frequently in the 40s) and it’s rare to see dogs out in the heat unless they are going ac car into ac building. Walking them in the day is not the norm and would be heavily judged. We have constant messaging about this and children being left in hot cars anytime the temps get over the 20s.

Brayndrayn · 30/06/2025 22:44

Dappy777 · 30/06/2025 22:40

One of the things I like about this country is the affection for dogs and the hatred of cruelty to animals. It can’t be a bad thing that people worry about dogs suffering in the heat. I’m sceptical of the idea that dogs in Spain or Italy are more used to heatwaves that dogs in the U.K. Surely a spaniel suffers in 90 degrees no matter where he lives.

Hatred of cruelty to animals? Let’s not start on animal welfare when it comes to the industrial meat/egg industry then…

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Biginnin · 30/06/2025 22:44

Dappy777 · 30/06/2025 22:40

One of the things I like about this country is the affection for dogs and the hatred of cruelty to animals. It can’t be a bad thing that people worry about dogs suffering in the heat. I’m sceptical of the idea that dogs in Spain or Italy are more used to heatwaves that dogs in the U.K. Surely a spaniel suffers in 90 degrees no matter where he lives.

I think until you’ve been on the receiving end of this you don’t realise how unpleasant it is. If you are trying to do your best by your dog and get shouted at and called an “ignorant bitch” and told you don’t care about your dog, it is really nasty. You can explain that you are only out for 10 minutes and they need a wee, and you’re in the shade or have a cooling coat on them-but the person being nasty doesn’t want to hear it.

tsmainsqueeze · 30/06/2025 22:43

I'm a veterinary nurse and have had the very sad experience of dealing with heatstroke cases and it is horrific and a traumatic death if we can't save them, obviously totally avoidable when commonsense is used.
I saw a struggling overweight bulldog out yesterday in a public place ,idiot owners like this never cease to amaze me, absolutely no excuse other than sheer stupidity and selfishness .
Most of the dogs that came into our practice today were clearly miserable even with air con.
I think our country is correct in losing the plot over this, uk dogs have very little experience of this heat unlike dogs in hotter countries.
I will completely judge an owner taking their dog out in this heat regardless of why they did it as there is simply no excuse and enough information out there in the public domain about how dogs -and other pets are affected by heat .

Dappy777 · 30/06/2025 22:40

One of the things I like about this country is the affection for dogs and the hatred of cruelty to animals. It can’t be a bad thing that people worry about dogs suffering in the heat. I’m sceptical of the idea that dogs in Spain or Italy are more used to heatwaves that dogs in the U.K. Surely a spaniel suffers in 90 degrees no matter where he lives.

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