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Not enjoying this heat are you?

64 replies

CoolPlayer · 30/06/2025 15:48

Usually I love the sun / heat.. get out in it loads, get tanned easy, never need a fan at the house ect ect but this year I’m struggling with the heat massively! Not enjoying it feeling way too hot, I can hardly sit outside! I started taking sertraline last august could it be this? Or is perimenopause to blame? Or is it just so muggy atm I’m not only one finding it unbearable? Or can you just change and no longer enjoy it 😅I hate cold weather so I can’t also be a moaner about the heat which I’ve always loved 😂😂 (I know this is a no worry worry just curious for answers)

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Hedgesfullofbirds · 30/06/2025 19:39

Where are all you lucky people who are experiencing lower temperatures and have had rain - the land is parched, dessicated and resembles late August, rather than early summer. My rain gauge has recorded a cumulative total of less than an inch since late February and I am praying for at least a week of steady, proper rain, precious life giving stuff that it is, to rebalance the soil moisture deficit. And, as an outdoor worker, professional grower and horticulturalist, no, I am not enjoying the relentless heat and unnatural lack of precipitation we are experiencing this year!

KilkennyCats · 30/06/2025 19:26

Amethystanddiamonds · 30/06/2025 15:57

It's a high of 23C here and then forecast a high of 17C and rain for the rest of the week. Wish everyone would stop gloating about how glorious the weather is!

Where are you? Envy

PassingStranger · 30/06/2025 19:24

We have this every year.

Yes I love it.

PomegranateVase · 30/06/2025 19:08

It’s fucking awful! Every orifice sweats and feels damp and uncomfortable, and I feel extra fat.

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 30/06/2025 19:02

I love sunshine but this is "too warm", it's not even been that sunny this weekend, just muggy and hot. I think on holiday you get air con and you're allowed to lie about. I'm so tired of not sleeping and not getting a break from it, it's not even actual July yet, so I also don't quite feel ready for it.

TrickorTreacle · 30/06/2025 18:42

Vse500 · 30/06/2025 18:14

Define North. I’m in Yorkshire and it’s 31 here.

Going by Mumsnet, anywhere North of London is North.

Definitely suffering here at 31C in the Midlands, I mean in the North.

DrDisrespect · 30/06/2025 18:38

Its unbearable. The thermostat in my bedroom (front of the house where the sun sets) is currently reading 28.7 🥵🥵🥵🥵

user1476613140 · 30/06/2025 18:35

Dangermoo · 30/06/2025 16:00

It's too much.

This sums it up.

DangerousAlchemy · 30/06/2025 18:35

Also a side effect of HRT medications can be photo sensitivity. I burn more easily now even with suncream plus being in full sun gives me a huge headache/mini migraine. I can't tolerate hot weather as much now I'm 50 🤷‍♀️

user1476613140 · 30/06/2025 18:18

I am suffering badly and live in Scotland. Its too hot.

NixieDust · 30/06/2025 18:18

I used to be the same but now I feel genuinely unwell in the heat! It started after I became really poorly and was put on amitriptyline (which has taken me 2 years to wean down to much smaller dose and I can’t shift the final one without awful side effects) I honestly always thought it was just because I now have a medical condition to deal with but I now believe it’s the amitriptyline!

Creamteasandbumblebees · 30/06/2025 18:18

I'm currently in Greece, it's been 38°/39° all week, its glorious. Its a dry heat so doesn't make you sticky, car and apartment have beautiful air con. In and out of the pool/sea all day. Sleep like a baby due to air con.
Back in the UK I struggle, it always seems so oppressive and muggy when it gets really hot. Everyone's tempers get frayed and its hard to sleep. Have another week in Greece, I'm hoping the hot weather has passed by the time we get home!

Michele09 · 30/06/2025 18:16

Vse500 · 30/06/2025 18:14

Define North. I’m in Yorkshire and it’s 31 here.

Cumbria

Vse500 · 30/06/2025 18:14

Michele09 · 30/06/2025 15:55

Move to the North, it's not hot here.

Define North. I’m in Yorkshire and it’s 31 here.

RampantIvy · 30/06/2025 17:57

Hatty65 · 30/06/2025 17:37

Interesting about the sertraline. I like the heat usually, and am happy to lie baking in it, but this year I've decided that although I like it, I don't care if I get a tan - what I really need to be, in my Goldilocks fashion, is just the right temperature.

So I'm enjoying the heat by sitting in the garden in the shade. Or indoors, with the door open.

Me too. I just want to be warm and wear my summer clothes which I don't get much wear out of.

I bought this linen blend top from Uniqlo earlier this year and it is perfect for this weather

https://www.uniqlo.com/uk/en/products/E479966-000/00?colorDisplayCode=01&sizeDisplayCode=003

UNIQLO

https://www.uniqlo.com/uk/en/products/E479966-000/00?colorDisplayCode=01&sizeDisplayCode=003

user764329056 · 30/06/2025 17:38

Much prefer this to months of grey which is what we have for majority of year

Hatty65 · 30/06/2025 17:37

Interesting about the sertraline. I like the heat usually, and am happy to lie baking in it, but this year I've decided that although I like it, I don't care if I get a tan - what I really need to be, in my Goldilocks fashion, is just the right temperature.

So I'm enjoying the heat by sitting in the garden in the shade. Or indoors, with the door open.

TeenLifeMum · 30/06/2025 17:33

I love the heat but dh thinks I’m part lizard.

Livpool · 30/06/2025 17:31

I love it! It has been about 26 degrees here. We don’t get much of a summer so o try to enjoy it as much as possible

Eight8eight · 30/06/2025 16:19

I usually hate the heat but an AC unit has been a game changer for us.

TwinklyFawn · 30/06/2025 16:16

I am not on any medication and i really hate this heat. It is far too warm to sit in the garden. I am exhausted too as i am finding it hard to sleep. I do have a fan on in the bedroom. The problem is that my neighbours make a din on a night when it is warm.

Imaybeoldbutstillrandy · 30/06/2025 16:03

I love the hot weather & the sunshine.

However it doesn't like me.....

I have rosacea & need to stay out of the sun as UV makes it worse.

My DH has a heart condition & asthma - the hot weather makes him at risk.

We have an elderly dog &, again, the hot weather means that we spend our time making sure that she's comfortable, spraying her body with water, trying to make sure she's in coolest part of the house, no walks in the heat of the day etc. She also has a paddling pool, but is too tired with the heat to want to go outside & I'm not going to make her (obviously).

Not only that, it's bloody hot & uncomfortable. Not looking forward to going to bed in an oven of a room tonight & then expected to be able to work tomorrow after about 5 hour's sleep.

We have a fan on a stand placed in front of an open window (as recommended) - making no real difference.

We're thinking about installing A/C into living & main bedroom, but it's expensive, will take up space & wondering if it's really worth the cost. Today I'd say 'yes' but come October I'll be saying 'no' as I'll be worrying about heating bills. 😂

Devilsmommy · 30/06/2025 16:02

BingoWasHisNameOo · 30/06/2025 15:53

I usually love the heat too, but I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant and really really struggling!

Can totally empathise with this. In 2022 when it got to 35°C I was 9 months pregnant and I honestly felt like I was dying. Never felt so uncomfortable in my life. Hope you manage to stay cool😊

OriginalUsername2 · 30/06/2025 16:02

ninjahamster · 30/06/2025 15:51

Yes it will be the sertraline. I’m on it too, the heat really affects me now.

This is eye opening. I’ve been really suffering in summers for years - to the point where I feel weak and throw up, can’t sit in the garden, spend all day just coping - and have been on sertraline for years… I never knew that was a side effect!!

Dangermoo · 30/06/2025 16:00

It's too much.