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AIBU to think I have no liability here? (diagram attached)

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WiggyClawsThe2nd · 30/06/2025 12:46

I think I'm fairly sure on this but can't stop panicking so I thought I'd ask on here.
Friday night I had a car accident. It was a real shock and it's only now that I've stopped to think about it that I'm feeling really really cross.
In the diagram I'm the blue line, the other driver is the green line. The thick lines show where we went, the thin lines indicate where you would have expected us to be going. Given that the lady tried to tell me she'd been going straight on when obviously she didn't makes me wonder if she had a mad moment!
Anyway, this particular roundabout leads onto a bridge over a dual carriageway. On the other side of this bridge you can go left onto a local road, or right to join the dual carriageway.
When we joined the roundabout, the other car was to my left. Neither of us indicated before joining the roundabout, however I did indicate left after I passed the 1st left exit as I was planning to go over the bridge and turn right to join the duel carriageway. As I was about to leave the roundabout the lady turned in front of me to head back round the roundabout and I hit her in the side of the car. Slow speed, maybe 15 mph.
It turns out that we have the same insurance company just to complicate matters.
I'm pretty sure that she is liable for this accident, what do you all think?

YABU: you are liable
YANBU: you are not liable

AIBU to think I have no liability here? (diagram attached)
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SillyMillieMops · 30/06/2025 12:55

Rule of thumb is if you’re exiting after ‘12 o’clock’ you should be in the right hand lane.

WiggyClawsThe2nd · 30/06/2025 12:55

MyMilchick · 30/06/2025 12:54

Actually what the hell was she doing? the third exit isn't even an exit so she would be going back the way she'd come from

Doesn't make sense does it?!!

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Okdaisy · 30/06/2025 12:54

She is completely at fault. Hope you are ok.
Great diagram!

WiggyClawsThe2nd · 30/06/2025 12:54

MyMilchick · 30/06/2025 12:52

She's completely in the wrong, you can't take the third exit and be in the left hand lane

That's exactly what I thought.
I'm baffled by her telling me after the crash that she was going straight on. If she had, all would have been fine. I wonder if she actually lost control now. She was a lovely lady, dealt with me having hysterics very kindly!

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MyMilchick · 30/06/2025 12:54

Actually what the hell was she doing? the third exit isn't even an exit so she would be going back the way she'd come from

MyMilchick · 30/06/2025 12:52

She's completely in the wrong, you can't take the third exit and be in the left hand lane

WiggyClawsThe2nd · 30/06/2025 12:50

Oh, and my car is apparently uneconomic to repair, so a write off 🤦

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