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Nadiya Hussain responds to critics

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PruthePrune · 29/06/2025 09:24

Nadiya Hussain responds to critics

I can understand her being upset that her shows have been axed, apparently ratings were falling, However, I find it hugely disappointing that she has brought race/religion into it. No one is entitled to a BBC show and I think she has had a bloody good run. AIBU?

Nadiya Hussain says she ‘won’t be grateful’ following BBC cooking show axe

Nadiya Hussain has spoken out following the cancellation of her BBC cooking show, delivering a powerful response to critics who told her to be “grateful”. The Great British Bake Off winner has enjoyed a 10-year relationship with the broadcaster followi...

https://www.independent.co.uk/tv/lifestyle/bake-off-nadiya-hussain-cooking-show-axe-b2778744.html

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PhilippaGeorgiou · 29/06/2025 12:13

dietmonkey · 29/06/2025 12:04

Gah, I absolutely hate it when people blame their race/religion, for failure. How must your brain work, if you reduce everything to that? You must never acknowledge any failure on your own part, or take any responsibility for ANYTHING. And yet, quite often the same people are given an advantage in job applications and in their careers, in the name of "inclusion". Oh, the irony.

You clearly read none of the comments, didn't read the article or watch the video. Because that is not what was said. And if she is a failure, then I want to be a failure too. But why let facts get in the way of a racist rant?

crumblingschools · 29/06/2025 12:13

Bake Off brought Mary Berry back into the limelight, only people of a certain age or people who bought her books would have known who she was before then.

Doteycat · 29/06/2025 12:12

I absolutely do not get this thing that people dont have to be grateful.
She should be grateful, We should all be more grateful if you ask me.
Grateful she got an opportunity, grateful she was able to work that to her advantage, grateful people watched her, grateful its improved her life and her famillies. And now its over, or changing. Thats life.
So many people these days arent bloody grateful enough and always want more. When are we going to be happy with enough?
You can be disappointed that its over, but grateful you had it.
I do not think thats a bad thing.
Fuckall to do with race colour or creed.

crumblingschools · 29/06/2025 12:06

@bridgetreilly scraps that have helped her earn her millions. I’d like scraps like that!

dietmonkey · 29/06/2025 12:04

Gah, I absolutely hate it when people blame their race/religion, for failure. How must your brain work, if you reduce everything to that? You must never acknowledge any failure on your own part, or take any responsibility for ANYTHING. And yet, quite often the same people are given an advantage in job applications and in their careers, in the name of "inclusion". Oh, the irony.

bridgetreilly · 29/06/2025 12:03

She is exactly right. She shouldn’t have to act as if they did her a massive favour: the BBC used her for their own benefit, and now it’s no longer good for them they dropped her. That’s okay, that’s how businesses work. But she doesn’t have to be pathetically grateful for the scraps they deigned to throw her.

EasternStandard · 29/06/2025 12:01

If people ‘responded to critics’ that are not seen and just in comments not statements we’d be in a cycle of grievance all the time. Some do do this as part of their message, I can think of a couple on IG who do, but it’s so relentless for anyone that it’d fill up papers to cover it.

bluegreygreen · 29/06/2025 11:59

Alltheprettyseahorses · 29/06/2025 11:38

Expectations for her to be grateful (and dignified) are based purely on British cultural norms. It would be the same for anyone.

I agree with this - and also with

She can be as disappointed as she wants - privately. Publicly she should be professional and gracious if she wants to carry on with a media career.

Not many Bake Off winners achieve a single TV series, let alone 10 years. If she wants her TV career to continue, she should be professional in public and in private sit with her agent, analyse why her ratings were falling and work out the next steps.

LolaLemons · 29/06/2025 11:59

Hasn't she done well for having a cooking show on telly for 10yrs!

She maybe needs to access counselling to help work through some of the negative attitudes that her family forced on her as a child. She seems to be projecting massively here.

inamarina · 29/06/2025 11:57

Alltheprettyseahorses · 29/06/2025 11:38

Expectations for her to be grateful (and dignified) are based purely on British cultural norms. It would be the same for anyone.

That’s an interesting point.
I‘m an immigrant in the UK and I‘ve been noticing people saying things like „we‘re lucky enough to be able to do X/ we‘re grateful for the opportunity to do Y“ quite frequently.

HonoraBridge · 29/06/2025 11:56

I don’t know much about her. The only thing I recall is the dreadful, lopsided cake that she made for the Queen’s last Jubilee.

afaloren · 29/06/2025 11:55

I absolutely love Nadiya and I agree with her. I shall continue to support her whatever she does next. God forbid a brown Muslim woman should have opinions!

ItsUpToYou · 29/06/2025 11:54

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/06/2025 11:48

Precisely

I've no doubt there are a few who are nasty enough to think she's just an ungrateful immigrant, but there'll always be ugly views around and that hardly taints those who see this as simply an idea who's time has expired

Well clearly it’s those “few” that she’s addressing. (I’d argue that it’s likely a lot more than a “few” but, as someone with brown skin, I’m also more likely to notice how many people are like this than someone who doesn’t have to deal with it every day would be.)

Samiloff · 29/06/2025 11:53

I agree there’s no need for her to feel grateful. But that doesn’t mean it’s right, necessarily, for her to feel she’s been treated unfairly. If the ratings weren’t good, why should the show be continued?

ItsUpToYou · 29/06/2025 11:52

CurlewKate · 29/06/2025 11:41

I’m white and British born. I understand as much as I can because I can think, listen,learn and empathise….

Maybe if more white Brits were like you, the world would be a marginally better place.

godmum56 · 29/06/2025 11:52

actually and more broadly I think "Be grateful for what you have/have had" is a shit thing to say to anybody. For Nadiya, hearing it like the background music of her life must be particularly triggering but even without the race and gender overlay I remember wanting to KILL the person who, when my husband died, said "you have to be grateful for the years you had together"

Screamingabdabz · 29/06/2025 11:51

I love her and I think she has great screen presence. But it’s so ill advised to put yourself on camera looking whiny when there are a thousand and one ways her agent could get work for her. Jeez if some of the deadhead talentless Gordie/Chelsea/Essex Shore lot can still be working on TV doing gogglebox and amateur reportage stuff, I’m sure she can!

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/06/2025 11:48

Alltheprettyseahorses · 29/06/2025 11:38

Expectations for her to be grateful (and dignified) are based purely on British cultural norms. It would be the same for anyone.

Precisely

I've no doubt there are a few who are nasty enough to think she's just an ungrateful immigrant, but there'll always be ugly views around and that hardly taints those who see this as simply an idea who's time has expired

Weepixie · 29/06/2025 11:47

@85reasons Masterchef?

She was never in Masterchef.

justasking111 · 29/06/2025 11:47

Loose Women is in turmoil. Viewing has changed so much.

Drfosters · 29/06/2025 11:46

Interesting about the grateful comment. I am white and I was headhunted into an amazing part time consulting role a while ago. The role grew and grew and eventually they needed someone full time so I passed over to someone new. I am extremely grateful for that opportunity. I will always be very thankful I got a good role, the hours I wanted on good pay. I am sad it is over but onwards and upwards. What is wrong with being grateful for an amazing opportunity?

butterpuffed · 29/06/2025 11:45

Leo800 · 29/06/2025 10:43

Her ratings were falling. I don’t know anyone who watched her programmes any more. That’s TV for you. Nothing personal. She’s coming across as entitled & unpleasant.

Yes, it's nearly always to do with falling ratings . After ten years , it's not a surprise .

I like her, always have , and watch her programmes now and again . I think she should have said she was sad to leave the programme , other things are irrelevant .

85reasons · 29/06/2025 11:43

She’s had way more fortune than most people who won * edit * Bake Off - I imagine she puts all her good fortune down to talent, but any bad fortune down to race.

It is really quite entitled to think that you deserve a show which is losing ratings to continue to be commissioned. Just ask any of the thousands of currently unemployed TV freelancers who are in the same predicament. The industry is on its knees - and unscripted shows like these are the ones suffering most.

inamarina · 29/06/2025 11:43

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/06/2025 11:29

The quote on the BBC is this, EasternStandard:

'Hussain spoke of her experiences growing up in an immigrant household:'
'“Gratitude became something that I was expected to wear like a uniform. Anytime I voiced frustration or sadness or wanted more, I could feel the invisible pressure”'
'“I am allowed to feel more than just thankful. I am a human being, and I am allowed to feel angry when I’m treated unfairly”'

It's not at all clear to me whether the underlying resentment at being expected to feel grateful and being treated unfairly arose from family circumstances or more external pressures, though predictably folk will now insist it's the latter and insist it's all down to racism

In any case it's perfectly true to say a 10 year run's pretty good for a winner of an earlier show, so while I accept that any suggestion of thankfulnesss may have unfortunate connotations for Nadiya I'm not sure that changes the simple truth

FWIW I loved her show and will miss it, but if the ratings aren't there any more what's the alternative ... keep her on for ever just in case ending it results in hurt feelings?

I also find the quote ambiguous.
Fwiw, my own family were immigrants and although I wasn’t told to never voice any frustration, it was actually my mum who told me to be grateful for the opportunities our host country was offering us.

CurlewKate · 29/06/2025 11:41

ItsUpToYou · 29/06/2025 09:30

She’s bringing race into it because it’s relevant. You won’t understand if you’re white, especially if you’re white and British-born, but others are forever being told to be “grateful” to Britain in a way that you will never be. It’s exhausting and I’m glad she’s telling everyone to fuck off in the politest way possible.

(ETA I also wouldn’t care if she said it in the most impolite way, but I imagine that would have created even more of an outrage…)

Edited

I’m white and British born. I understand as much as I can because I can think, listen,learn and empathise….