Should say ghosted me but it won't allow me to edit the title.
Don't really understand what goes through people's minds sometimes..
I only worked at a place for a few months and left as I was deeply unhappy there, in a job I much prefer now.
Left 3 months ago, whilst there I briefly chatted to a woman who seemed nice, I wouldn't say we became friends but we had a few friendly chats and I thought she was nice and interesting.
On my last day she messaged wishing me the best of luck. I didn't expect to hear from her again based on previous experience, but 2 weeks ago she messaged asking how my new job was.
I was happy to hear from her and this sort of thing doesn't happen often for me. We messaged a bit and then she said we should meet for coffee. Started to make plans then on the very last msg I sent my availability.
She didn't reply, I thought ok she's maybe forgot, it happens. So after a week of no response I sent a friendly msg asking if she still fancied that coffee and suggested one or two days I was free.
That was 9 days ago and the msg hasn't been 'read' but has been delivered.
I'm just thinking why get in touch in the first place?
I'm sure someone will be along to tell me she has anxiety, ADHD or autism or possibly a combination of the 3.
Maybe she does, however sometimes maybe people are just flaky and shitty. Any possible explanation?
Obviously I won't message her again and I'll just leave it. It's tough enough making friends as it is, has this happened to anyone else?