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Paid nursery inset days

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Zombiefluff · 27/06/2025 16:40

So yesterday our private nursery announced 6 inset days in their calendar from 1st of September. This is a paid, private full time nursery, not linked to a school.

I currently pay about 2k for a 1 year old with 15 hours and 1k for a 3 year old with 30.
Bank holidays are obviously paid for and now 6 additional inset days out of nowhere.
AIBU it is this nuts?
If I wanted to deal with inset days and random time off I would do a school nursery!!

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TwoFeralKids · 29/06/2025 20:51

Lioncub2020 · 28/06/2025 07:38

That's true. The funded hours are properly funded. The parents who just take the "funded hours" are a drain on the nursery as a whole. Nurseries should be able to choose whether or not they offer it.

That would mean children of poor parents being denied nursery.

slidingsideways · 29/06/2025 00:33

Thehop · 28/06/2025 18:51

I own a private nursery. We don't charge bank holidays or Christmas closure and we certainly wouldn't charge for training days. If we're not available, parents don't pay. Full stop.

sooooooo where is your nursery and do you have any places, please??! Sounds amazing, lucky parents near you!

slidingsideways · 29/06/2025 00:28

stichguru · 28/06/2025 17:47

Haha 4pm - you really want training outside nursery times - well that means a morning session that finishes at 7am or at evening session that starts at 7pm. You really think workers should do a more that 12 hour shift to do their training? Plus stuff like H+S training or deep cleaning often take several hours so 7-10pm or 4-7am?

so how are staff holidays and other planned staff absences covered? They have a rota and have enough hours planned in to cover it. I don’t see how and why staff training shouldn’t be the same? And if it’s important to do it altogether could they all have an extra half a day off during the week and do an evening training, for example. I’m not saying people shouldn’t be paid for their time, far from it, but there must be a way to manage it that works for the staff, business AND parents. Given that not all nurseries use inset days, it must be possible. Other businesses in other sectors don’t just stop because they need to do training.

the thing with the inset days is that you feel like you’re paying twice - once for a service you can’t use and once to cover the gap, whether that’s by taking annual leave, unpaid leave or finding other arrangements. I get that having staff to cover the training will result in higher costs but honestly given how much we pay anyway I’d rather just pay a bit more on top and not have the inconvenience of trying to sort it out.

And yes maybe it was in the t&c’s for OP and anyone else in the same boat, but that doesn’t mean it was crystal clear exactly what was involved, and so many parents have a difficult time finding a childcare place in the first place they feel like even if they had objections then it’s just tough.

Thehop · 28/06/2025 18:51

I own a private nursery. We don't charge bank holidays or Christmas closure and we certainly wouldn't charge for training days. If we're not available, parents don't pay. Full stop.

stichguru · 28/06/2025 18:47

Zombiefluff · 28/06/2025 18:12

Also isn’t basic training required for the job just the bare minimum? Isn’t it weird to expect the customer to directly pay for the required qualifications?
Ive never encountered another sector where the view seems to be “pay for my basic training requirements and then pay me for my service”.

There is NO business that won't train staff. There is no business that will be able to train staff with no money. Businesses who don't charge for training sessions will charge more for other things. Maybe they should just charge a few pounds more each day...

Lmnop22 · 28/06/2025 18:34

Zombiefluff · 28/06/2025 18:12

Also isn’t basic training required for the job just the bare minimum? Isn’t it weird to expect the customer to directly pay for the required qualifications?
Ive never encountered another sector where the view seems to be “pay for my basic training requirements and then pay me for my service”.

Everyone at my DDs nursery is training for some level of early childcare certification and it mostly seems to be based on practical thingns they can show they’ve done with the children - my DD’s key worker asked permission to use examples of things she’s done with my DD for her portfolio for example.

So it seems to me a lot of the “training” is hands on practical training done with the children when they’re in!

Radra · 28/06/2025 18:22

I have never heard of a private nursery doing this!

Zombiefluff · 28/06/2025 18:12

Lmnop22 · 28/06/2025 18:00

But quite obviously most nurseries are managing it somehow because I don’t know any other nursery that has inset days and they’re still clean with trained staff.

Not sure how you think they manage!

Also isn’t basic training required for the job just the bare minimum? Isn’t it weird to expect the customer to directly pay for the required qualifications?
Ive never encountered another sector where the view seems to be “pay for my basic training requirements and then pay me for my service”.

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legoplaybook · 28/06/2025 18:11

Lmnop22 · 28/06/2025 18:00

But quite obviously most nurseries are managing it somehow because I don’t know any other nursery that has inset days and they’re still clean with trained staff.

Not sure how you think they manage!

Mostly they do it by exploiting the staff as much as they can get away with!
Proper inset days will be very attractive to staff - most nurseries are massively struggling with staff recruitment and retention at the moment, especially level 3 qualified staff.

@Zombiefluff realistically do you have any other childcare options locally?

Lmnop22 · 28/06/2025 18:00

stichguru · 28/06/2025 17:47

Haha 4pm - you really want training outside nursery times - well that means a morning session that finishes at 7am or at evening session that starts at 7pm. You really think workers should do a more that 12 hour shift to do their training? Plus stuff like H+S training or deep cleaning often take several hours so 7-10pm or 4-7am?

But quite obviously most nurseries are managing it somehow because I don’t know any other nursery that has inset days and they’re still clean with trained staff.

Not sure how you think they manage!

stichguru · 28/06/2025 17:47

topcat2014 · 28/06/2025 11:41

Weekends, evenings,

The economy doesn't stop at 4pm

Haha 4pm - you really want training outside nursery times - well that means a morning session that finishes at 7am or at evening session that starts at 7pm. You really think workers should do a more that 12 hour shift to do their training? Plus stuff like H+S training or deep cleaning often take several hours so 7-10pm or 4-7am?

topcat2014 · 28/06/2025 11:41

saltinesandcoffeecups · 27/06/2025 16:42

So exactly when are they supposed to training, deep cleans, heavy maintenance, planning, etc.?

Weekends, evenings,

The economy doesn't stop at 4pm

Zombiefluff · 28/06/2025 11:38

TY78910 · 28/06/2025 08:53

It’s normal and would have been outlined in your contract with the nursery. Not the specific dates, but that they happen.

Doesn’t actually seem to be all that normal based on the comments!

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TY78910 · 28/06/2025 08:53

Zombiefluff · 27/06/2025 16:45

Well they could have announced this change before school nursery applications shut. They’ve done it later which really ties parents hand leaving them with no choices.

It’s normal and would have been outlined in your contract with the nursery. Not the specific dates, but that they happen.

mamabeeboo · 28/06/2025 08:48

The nurseries are hardly struggling like some posters here seem to think.

I personally know two separate people who own nurseries and they both have huge houses in North London, both drive Teslas and their kids go to prestigious private schools,and they are on luxury holidays 5 times a year. They are also looking at purchasing more nurseries because it's so lucrative and the profit margins are great.

There is a common sense correlation between very high nursery costs that many people struggle to afford and profit.

Do you seriously think that the minimum wage workers and wholesale purchased food and same old toys and paid off site mortgage costs £100 per day per child? Nope.

Lioncub2020 · 28/06/2025 07:38

Zombiefluff · 27/06/2025 22:07

It’s telling I’ve used the nursery for 3 years and it’s never been a thing, but that it’s starting when the “funded” hours are extending. It’s just further proof that parents are the main ones being f’d over by these free hours. Our hourly fee has already gone up 45% in 3 years, plus all these additional costs now. I truly believe with the amount I’m now paying outside of the funded hours that the nursery is actually making a profit vs if the funded hours hadn’t been extended.

That's true. The funded hours are properly funded. The parents who just take the "funded hours" are a drain on the nursery as a whole. Nurseries should be able to choose whether or not they offer it.

Lioncub2020 · 28/06/2025 07:35

Yes this is nuts. Most nurseries train their staff in non-contact time by rotating staff, not closing the whole nursery.

Pottedpalm · 28/06/2025 07:30

I hope they at least spread the training days over the week with none on Mondays. Monday users are in many nurseries already unfairly treated by having to pay for bank holidays when no care is given.

sciaticafanatica · 28/06/2025 07:14

I work in a private nursery.
all training is done after work or on a Saturday.
it’s awful for the staff as sometimes we are there for 14 hours.
But 6 inset days is crazy and an absolute rip off

Londonrach1 · 28/06/2025 07:01

Fetaface · 27/06/2025 21:52

Some nurseries ask staff to train unpaid on their days off so the staff there will may be doing it over the weekend and then back in on the Monday.

That's awful.

IwasDueANameChange · 27/06/2025 23:05

Oh and how they train staff is they need to have enough staff to rota in training days without closing the whole nursery at once, if they are running as a business and want to offer the service customers need.

IwasDueANameChange · 27/06/2025 23:05

Childminders follow exactly the same EYFS as nurseries & they seem to manage without inset days.

In reality its probably to help their own staff manage childcare when their own children in local schools have inset days.

If you are on a funded term time only 30 hour place i think the funding paid matches school terms so typically assumes there are inset days.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 27/06/2025 22:52

reversegear · 27/06/2025 21:58

Evenings and weekends, they are running a business.

Or they could do it in an inset day and not piss off their employees 🤷‍♀️

Tiredofallthis101 · 27/06/2025 22:27

My kids go to two nurseries rated outstanding. Neither has ever had any inset days yet managed to be rated as outstanding. I'd look for another setting if I were you - or gather a group of fellow parents to request they change back to the previous approach.

YourJoyousDenimExpert · 27/06/2025 22:19

I do feel the OP has had a bit of a hard time here. My children are grown up now but I never had a situation when they were at nursery/ preschool when the setting was closed for training. I know this happens in schools - but have not encountered it in nurseries at all. Had to pay for child minder holidays - but never inset days. I’d be looking for another setting as that is a lot of leave to lose if you need to cover the days.