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Lifestyle Choices impacting on the NHS -Boiling my piss!!!!

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Lardychops · 27/06/2025 00:40

DH is currently on an NHS orthopaedics ward with around 7/8 other men.
He played 5 aside around 3 weeks ago , got bashed on the thigh and the bruise has spread and become hard and hot and painful, now infected and he needs it operated on due to risk of sepsis.

On the ward are 4 men 60 plus who have been involved in motorcycle accidents with legs in pins and have undergone several operations and been in hospital weeks ( 1 for months) as well as a young lad who was brought in yesterday following a cycling collision with another cyclist with his upper left side shattered. One other man was on a sponsored 3 peak running challenge (with a one man band scenario or such like ) and has shattered his ankle. Looking at an op tomo and a very long recuperation. yesterday a man left who had been in for three months after a skking accident with a broken hip that would not heal properly.

Am I unreasonable in thinking that with the NHS in the state it is at this current time that personal responsibility for lifestyle choices should be more of a consideration for all of us with the tax payer footing the bill for feckless and irresponsible behaviours.
It’s all avoidable surely , making better, healthier choices that do not willingly impact on limited resources.

Sports such as football, skiing, cycling, motorcross as well as mountaineering are risky to one’s health and people need to take personal responsibility.

Am I being unreasonable tax payers?

OP posts:
Moomdingou · 27/06/2025 00:50

But you could the same with patients who are having treatment due to smoking, alcohol, drugs, having kids is a lifestyle choice, heart attacks due lifestyle choices, lung transplants due to smoking, what about women with cervical cancer? Or men with penile cancer or anyone who has throat cancer which are all caused due to HPV? Or people with HIV or AIDS due unprotected sex or shared needles? Should these people be allowed treatment? YABU.

Haggisfish3 · 27/06/2025 00:50

Yabvu to choose those examples. These ar people living life to the full. You overlook the people who smoke and drink and eat unhealthily and don’t exercise who cost the nhs far far more.

Eastendboysandwestendgirls · 27/06/2025 00:49

So is your husband going to go private because his injury was a lifestyle choice?

RedNine · 27/06/2025 00:49

Criiiiiinge.

FrothyCothy · 27/06/2025 00:49

Are you including your husband in that OP?

BIWI · 27/06/2025 00:47

Don’t be daft.