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To still feel so hurt

28 replies

Whiruntheworld · 26/06/2025 16:01

i ended my LTR relationship around 8 months ago, we have 2 wonderful children together and I can’t help but think I have failed. I had very good reasons for ending the relationship, he immediately got into a relationship with the woman I shouldn’t have been worried about as it was just his best friends sister. They seem to be having a great life, monthly holidays, nights out etc, i
am still here carrying on our old life and looking after the kids. It just doesn’t seem fair but would I swap lives with him…no? Why does it hurt so much?

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Whiruntheworld · 26/06/2025 16:11

I am back at my parents and feeling like such a failure, I’m due on my period so I don’t think that helps. Money is tight so I have applied for a council property but I just don’t see how my life will end up better

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Whiruntheworld · 26/06/2025 16:08

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 26/06/2025 16:07

Wounds hurt when they are healing Flowers

It’s just really hard that he gets to carry on with his life like nothing happened.

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EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 26/06/2025 16:07

Wounds hurt when they are healing Flowers