I’m at a loss… my husband has been having a mid life crisis which I don’t believe was an actual thing till he started. Very distant just asking for space to sort out what he wanted, we’ve been together 30 years so I think he’s after passion and excitement where I’m just content.there’s been no friction just living as normal with the knowledge something not right Anyway he came home from work a couple of hours later than usual didn’t ring waltzed in and said I’ve been helping Claire do some work and drinking beer in my office as if I should have known and not worried. Then he went to do some chores on Saturday due back at 12.00 text at 1.15 I’ve gone to pub be back soon then turned up at 6.30 and stated he had met Claire for coffee because she was upset (so like 5 hours) and he didn’t tell me because he knew how I’d react. He said it’s as simple as that they not having an affair he likes her a lot and they good friends. I just can’t get past the time they sat chatting whilst I was as home waiting I’m obviously jealous and insecure because of his distance recently but he’s basically said so what do you want to do? I have spoken to him I just wish he had apologised or shown some regret of going because of how it’s made me feel I still have a knot 5 days on … should I just try and let it go? and if so how … I’m so angry