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Please help - UTI advice - I’m desperate

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KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 13:20

Hi all,

Since April I’ve had issues down below. Started to get a pinching pain around my vagina, urge to pee more. Took a 3 day course of antibiotics and they helped. But symptoms came back.

Mix of pain, aching, burning all over.

Examined internally by nurse, urine sample dipped, swabs taken and all ok.

Still persisted. Saw GP and was prescribed oestrogen cream. It’s been torture. I’ve had some pain free days which I think might be related to my cycle.

I suffer from health anxiety and at the moment with these ongoing symptoms it has spiralled. I’m back on anti anxiety meds, which I started last week.

At some points I’ve felt my bladder isn’t quite right, slight more urgency at times but not consistent. Sunday and Monday I had this but it was contacts for a few hours at a time. I did breathing exercises and managed to sleep well.

Saw GP yesterday and there is blood and protein in urine so they’ve sent it away to the lab and started me on antibiotics.

Since the GP I’ve not stopped needing to pee. And I mean not stopped. I constantly feel bursting. And very little comes out. I was up all night.

I took my first AB last night at 5.45pm. I assumed they would have started to work by now?

Im absolutely demented. Please any advice about how to stop this constant urge would be welcome, I don’t know what to do with myself.

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GenerousGardener · 25/06/2025 19:24

Twiglets1 · 25/06/2025 17:54

It’s classic cystitis symptoms.

I was thinking this too. Sounds like classic cystitis. OP you can buy powders for this in the chemist. You don’t need a prescription. I’ve suffered long term with UTI’s, so much so that I’m on low dose antibiotics every night. It’s keeps them
at bay.

NewbieSM · 25/06/2025 19:11

Oh OP I really sympathise with you, I too have suffered with chronic recurring UTIs and it’s truly awful. I would ask for cephalexin as that’s the only oral antibiotic that would shift it for me except IV antibiotics. Also try the cranberry supplements, a good woman’s probiotic (to avoid any yeast infection from the anti-bs) and really up your fluid intake. Stop drinking any fizzy drink or caffeine and avoid spicy foods. I also find a heating pad or hot water bottles on the lower tummy or between your legs really helps with the aching and urgency. Good luck OP it’s really shit I know

Twiglets1 · 25/06/2025 17:54

KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 17:41

As soon as I do a pee, I need another immediately after. Literally bursting straight away. Surely to god this isn’t normal?

It’s classic cystitis symptoms.

KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 17:41

As soon as I do a pee, I need another immediately after. Literally bursting straight away. Surely to god this isn’t normal?

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KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 17:15

I started vaginal oestrogen 4.5 weeks ago.

also been given an HRT script but yet to start it

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Twiglets1 · 25/06/2025 17:02

Keep taking the antibiotics @KatiesbigsisterSue

Sounds like you have cystitis.

I had antibiotics for 3 days it wasn’t enough. I think a lot of women need a course for 5 days. Weirdly my husband got a urine infection and he got prescribed antibiotics for 7 days so I don’t know why they routinely prescribe 3 days worth for women.

GoldDuster · 25/06/2025 16:45

Not sure on your age but drop in estrogen can wreak literal havoc with your pelvic region, if you'd be up for HRT, or haven't seen a private clinic to get a decent prescription I would do that without delay.

KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 16:35

I was out getting acupuncture to try and relax me and have come home and had d mannose too. The one I got also has cranberry and vitamin C in it, hoping that’s ok

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KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 16:34

I’ve stuck with the Nitro - just took second tablet there, first this morning. Started the other ones last night at teatime.

Im truly miserable. I think in the past antibiotics have worked quicker for me but maybe I’m being impatient.

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EligibleTern · 25/06/2025 14:57

I found nitrofurantoin much more effective! I hope it starts easing off soon!

KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 14:55

Ok I will start D Mannose today.

I just can’t cope with this constant urge. It’s really getting to me.

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ColdLittleHeart · 25/06/2025 14:10

Another vote for D Mannose! I suffered persistently with UTIs. Visits to the GP and tests..too many to count. Total game changer. I haven’t had another infection since I started taking it a year ago. Hope you feel better soon OP, they used to cause me such misery

ToClimb · 25/06/2025 13:53

Gosh I've been there OP. It's so upsetting. I think the antibiotics may take up to 48 hours to work so you need to give them a chance. If the GP has sent cultures off then they will likely tell him which antibiotics work best. When I was pregnant I had this for 6 months. I was so distressed by it, but the only antibiotics it reacted to were ones I couldn't take when pregnant.

marchmash · 25/06/2025 13:52

another tip a doctor friend gave me is, sometimes urine pools in small pocket in your bladder, So when weeing just take the time to make sure last drops are squeezed out. For me I just lean back very slightly. And drink plenty!!

marchmash · 25/06/2025 13:51

I recommend the pure powder but of course tablets should work too. I mix half a teaspoon in a pint of water and down it. Repeat an hour later then as needed

Sayithowiseeit · 25/06/2025 13:50

This sounds like me, I have detrusor underactivity which means my bladder doesn't fully empty. And because of this I was getting recurrent infections. I have had episodes of retention, especially with any infection. Needing to push, force a wee, stop/start in flow, long drainage times are all symptoms. Might be work looking at to see if you have symptoms.

marchmash · 25/06/2025 13:50

Please try D Mannose. I had recurrent agonising UTI and for me it completely cleared it up. I buy the pure powder on amazon but you can get different mixes of it probably in Boots and co. For me it saved my life, I can't believe it's not more widely known.

HairyMaclaryInTheDairy · 25/06/2025 13:50

Sorry to hear, OP.

It's very important that your doctor has sent the sample away as otherwise it's mostly guesswork with the antibiotics. So do follow up with them if you feel you're not improving after a couple of days.

My UTI's have been 'cured' by 7 days of amoxicillin or another time 5 days of cefalexin. This was prescribed after the lab tests were done.

I hope you feel much better soon.

KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 13:48

I’m actually not in a great deal of pain - it’s just the constant urge to pee.

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KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 13:48

Ok I will start the D mannnose.

Should I give these antibiotics more time? I started last night at 6pm, so not even 24 hours ago.

I have a probiotic which I’ve started to take.

I saw a pelvic floor physio on Friday and she gave me a thorough examination - was really helpful. She said I have tight muscles. I’ve been doing exercises and my vaginal symptoms are better.

The constant urge to pee is getting me down.

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Coconutter24 · 25/06/2025 13:42

KatiesbigsisterSue · 25/06/2025 13:33

I don’t get them a lot - this is since April I’ve had all of these symptoms. Most of which have been around my vagina and vulva. Some urethral irritation.

Urine was dipped in April and May and was clear.

I have d mannose in the cupboard, should I be taking them too?

I took d manose 2 tablets every 2 hours last time I had a uti, it really helped with the symptoms. I also think drinking plenty of water helps with symptoms, yes it makes you wee but actual wee comes out which makes going less painful I find

Kamek · 25/06/2025 13:41

You could have an overactive pelvic floor where the muscles become really tight and it can mimic a UTI. There are physios who specialise in pelvic issues and I think it would be worth seeing one of them to find out if that might be your problem

LikeABat · 25/06/2025 13:41

Take paracetamol for the pain if you haven't already. Drink water, but not to excess, as it will dilute the antibiotics. Buy some probiotics aimed women with a UTI and include fermented foods such as kefir and kimchi. Take D-mannose as a preventative and go back to doctor if symptoms persist as you may need a longer course or different antibiotic.
Hopefully the bacteria hasn't embedded as it can take a long time to resolve.
Consider a prepayment certificate for your prescriptions.

tootiredtobeinspired · 25/06/2025 13:40

Could you have Thrush? I sometimes get UTI symptoms with thrush and it clears up after fluconazole treatment.
I also had interstitial cystitis in the past and my bladder is ridiculously sensitive to too much caffeine or stress. I also need different antibiotics than the first line options.
In terms of relief today, I find drinking a lot of water (so at least there is something there to pee out and it's dilutes any irritants) plus paracetamol and a warm bath helps. Also try to distract yourself if you can as the stress/ anxiety of it makes it worse.
Huge sympathy from me as cystitis is absolutely horrible.

sweetpeaorchestra · 25/06/2025 13:38

I’d request cephalexin if not improving. Also you can get thrush from the antibiotics which adds to the discomfort! But if ithe urge to urinate is still so strong you might be resistant to current course/need stronger antibiotic