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To feel very weirded out by this encounter

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Barefootfreak · 25/06/2025 12:13

I go out walking every day to try to keep fit. I walk along quite a quiet road where there's very few people. Some days I don't see anyone.

Anyway, this morning on my way back home along this road, I saw a man walking towards me, a bit off in the distance.

I had my noise cancelling headphones on, baseball cap on and head down just focused on my podcast and my walk. When the guy got up close to me I realised he had a dog and had it on a non retractable lead.

He then let his dog walk right up to me and bury it's head right into my groin. Didn't pull it away. I had to push the dog away with my thigh. I looked at the guy with a 'what the actual fuck' look on my face and he just had this big grin on his face like he thought it was funny or cute.

Now I'm thinking that it was a bit weird that he just let his dog come up to me like that and did absolutely nothing to stop it. He didn't pull the dog away at any point, even when I looked at him. Honestly, I felt a bit violated by it. Did he know his dog would do this and maybe gets some sort of kick out of it?!

Am I right to feel a bit weird about this encounter or am I making a big deal about nothing?

OP posts:
Barefootfreak · 25/06/2025 16:46

@CKN I didn't say anything at the time as I was blindsided. Didn't expect it and was a bit shocked. But as I carried on walking I just got angrier and angrier about it. If I see them again I'll definitely give them a wide berth!

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StPancreasPiano · 25/06/2025 16:35

Any decent person would be embarrassed at their dog shoving their nose into someone's groin and would try and prevent it in the first place. The fact that he grinned when you gave him a look says it all. Dirty bastard.

Those who think it's not a big deal - would it be okay if it was a child's groin? Some people have issues that that would have been extremely painful for them, is that okay? Why should people be expected to interact with a dog in a way they don't want to?

vodkaredbullgirl · 25/06/2025 16:24

He was an arse.

Eldermileniummam · 25/06/2025 16:23

I would feel the same as you OP

MyMilchick · 25/06/2025 16:21

He probably just thinks everyone should love his dog, you should have said something to him

MidnightPatrol · 25/06/2025 16:18

I think you’re overthinking it tbh

CKN · 25/06/2025 16:17

Surely you must have said something when it happened instead of just staring?

jaggededger · 25/06/2025 16:15

He’s probably some perv who’s dog has form for doing it so he lets it happen. Nothing surprises me about men these days.

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