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AIBU?

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To think that most people only apply for jobs when things are going badly rather than proactively looking for better opportunities?

26 replies

SnugShaker · 25/06/2025 10:15

It seems like a lot of people only start job hunting when they’re miserable - whether that’s due to a toxic environment, a bad manager or feeling underpaid. But isn’t that the worst time to look? Wouldn’t it be better to apply when you’re in a strong position rather than when you’re desperate to escape? Or is it just human nature to only make a move when things become unbearable?

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Yuja · 25/06/2025 10:19

Push factors are a huge reason why people job hunt - why would you leave a job where you are happy with the work and the overall package? what’s the AIBU?