Birthday gift trip - city chosen sounds dangerous!

Brussels is a lovely city and quite underrated, IMO. I'd go back in a heartbeat.

However I've never taken a small child on a city break, we always did pool/seaside holidays when they were little. I think you will enjoy it a lot more if someone can have DC for the weekend!

Sorry, I can’t edit my post but just wanted to add that if I were you I would graciously accept the present and not try to change the destination. Your partner has tried to do a lovely thing. So what if he didn’t get it 100% right? If my husband said thanks but I want to go elsewhere, I’d feel gutted. I’d also be reluctant to arrange further surprise trips in the future.

Honestly, Brussels really is safe. And though it’s dull, you are only going for a weekend. It has a couple of good art galleries with decent permanent collections, some nice restaurants and is a pretty enough city to walk around and enjoy the walk. Will it change your life? No. Will you want to return? Probably not. But you can still have a perfectly lovely weekend. I would look into things you might find interesting, book into nice restaurants and enjoy it for what it is. I wouldn’t bother with a day trip if you are only there for 2/3 days.

Brussels! Lol! It's fine, you'll have a lovely time. It's not exactly Kabul.

I do think Brussels was boring but is no more unsafe that any other major European city. Would you feel uncomfortable going to London? I found I felt safer in Brussels than London and I would travel to either city without fear. If you are comfortable with Amsterdam then I can’t see why you wouldn’t go to Brussels.

This, what have I read. How sheltered to think that Brussels is dangerous 🤣🤣

I think Brussels is safe - we had a great long weekend there recently. We also went to Ghent for the day (so pretty!) and that's a great option if you don't want to spend all your time in the city.

All of the UK is currently on a terror threat 3. Brussels is bound to be safer than London, it's about as risky as going to Edinburgh (she says unscientifically).

Brussels is no more dangerous than any other big city. You could read the same about London, Paris, Madrid, Amsterdam etc.
If you worry about every possible dangerous situation you would never leave your house.

There are some areas that have significant problems, more related to terror threats. But this is an ongoing issue for intel not for visitors. As anywhere, Inc London, there could be an attack and If so follow the advice to get away safely.

Watch out for the usual problems around tourist areas and the main station. I personally feel these are at a much lower level than in Paris. Used to work regularly in both. Grand Place and surrounding restaurants are amazing. Get out to Ghent for a day. Enjoy trying waffles.

Rotterdam may be a much cheaper option than Amsterdam. You can always train in. If you want to be close to Amsterdam and don’t mind not having the local atmosphere there are cheap hotels around the airport and you can quickly train in.

I just looked up the FCO travel advice for Brussels and also France and Spain - they're all the same. There's the danger of a terrorist attack in any big city but what are you going to do? Never leave your own town or village ever again?

I agree with PPs - go, look up what touristy things there are to do. Be vigilant, just as you would in any big city. Don't go waving your phone or purse in public, keep out of the way of pickpockets.

Here you go OP. Sounds like the algorithms got you.

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Is this a joke? Do you live under a rock?

Brussels a dangerous city?? OP, are you anxious about things in general? This is a very odd take on a weekend trip to Brussels.

Blimey, not exactly Beirut! 🙄

Oh my god, get a grip.

Brussels? Ooh yeah, watch out in case someone gives you too much chocolate on your waffle.

Brussels is absolutely lovely, I've been a few times and never felt unsafe at all

Go, sit in a big square, eat mussels, visit chocolate/biscuit shops, buy lace or embroidery, drink weird flavoured beers, have fun.. nothing particularly terrifying is likely to happen.

People mention the existence of dodgy areas or suburburbs, that is correct just like absolutely EVERY city. The point is that you are not going to visit any dodgy areas or suburbs. You are a tourist going to visit the beautiful heart of the city.

I think you are being way over the top, it will be the same in any city and I think it would be ridiculous to cancel it but as an alternative you could get a train to Bruges which is lovely and much smaller and safer.

Brussels is a great city, DH and I have been several times. You should visit the Grand Place, it's very impressive. Plus, there are lots of lovely chocolate shops!

This is what I want to be when I grow up.

I travel to Brussels regularly for work and enjoy the city centre and sights on each trip. It is safe and full of delights for tourists, particularly in the summer, of course.

Presumably, what you have read is coloured by problems in some dodgier suburbs or neighbourhoods that are not near where tourists are visiting, or by the standard risk of pickpocketing, etc. that is present in any city.

Seeing as you don't know Brussels and now have these negative misconceptions, you should definitely not avoid it, rather you should go and thoroughly enjoy it with your daughter and husband. That way, you can right this wrong and not miss out on a great opportunity.

My parents have just come back from 5 days in Brussels. They are 85 and 87. They took the Eurostar and had a great time. Brussels is a safe as any major city.

I thought it would be something like this too!