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DP has just broke my dryer

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Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:11

I asked DP to move the dryer whilst I clean under it as I spilt something, he couldn’t move it far enough so got annoyed and pulled it, which has now completely snapped the plug. I’m so angry. My dad says we can just change it ourselves, would you call an electrician?

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goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 02:28

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:26

Nope, not buying that.

My house/home, ok. But "my dryer" definitely indicates ownership of the laundry duties.

I now own my household appliances because I live alone, use them alone and pay for them. But when I was married it was "The" washer, dryer, whatever. Because it was simply a household item.

As you wish.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:26

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 02:09

I call my home my home, even though two of us live here and I didn't buy it. It's a figure of speech.

Nope, not buying that.

My house/home, ok. But "my dryer" definitely indicates ownership of the laundry duties.

I now own my household appliances because I live alone, use them alone and pay for them. But when I was married it was "The" washer, dryer, whatever. Because it was simply a household item.

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 02:09

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:06

@Pinkdreams have to say that my biggest issue is that you called it "my" dryer.

I assumed you meant hair dryer. But a tumble dryer is co-owned surely? If its yours then how so? Doesnt he do laundry?
If it needs cleaning under, why is it just you doing the cleaning?

I guess that you have been brought up with "blue" jobs and "pink" jobs? YOur name being a bit of a giveaway.

ETA that the only time I clean under any kitchen appliance is when the knackered one goes out of the house and I do a quick scrub before the next one goes in!

Edited

I call my home my home, even though two of us live here and I didn't buy it. It's a figure of speech.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:06

@Pinkdreams have to say that my biggest issue is that you called it "my" dryer.

I assumed you meant hair dryer. But a tumble dryer is co-owned surely? If its yours then how so? Doesnt he do laundry?
If it needs cleaning under, why is it just you doing the cleaning?

I guess that you have been brought up with "blue" jobs and "pink" jobs? YOur name being a bit of a giveaway.

ETA that the only time I clean under any kitchen appliance is when the knackered one goes out of the house and I do a quick scrub before the next one goes in!

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 01:53

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:52

@goingroundthebendatthisrate fascinating, I had no idea!

Thank you.

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:52

@goingroundthebendatthisrate fascinating, I had no idea!

Hereforthekicks · 25/06/2025 01:50

Glad you got some good advice OP. Its the same as most things - only easy if you know. Don't let other people's rudeness put you off

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 01:34

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:13

I'm with you OP, I have never ever heard of anyone rewiring their own plugs, and i would've thought it was an electrician job.
I'm not in the UK though, if that makes a difference.

That makes a huge difference historically, as it was pretty much only the UK who ever had appliances sold without plugs as standard. There were two reasons for this, one being a consequence of another.

Initially, the UK had no standardization of plugs and wall sockets - until the 1940s, there were 2 different types of 2-pin plug and 3 different types of 3-pin plug, all of them round-pin, unfused, and each requiring their own size of socket. There was also another type of plug which allowed appliances to be connected to a light socket. Most homes had a mixture of all types of socket, but not always in the same room.

Therefore, any plug fitted to a new appliance by the manufacturer had a very good chance of not fitting into the socket of the customer, and added to which, even if it worked in one room, it may not have fitted the socket in another. Adaptors to overcome this (and to allow multiple appliances to be plugged in all at once) were everywhere.

In the 1940s, standardization began, with the arrival of the 3-pin fused plug, which had rectangular pins and a range of standards within the design which made it safer than ever. However, the plug itself was not inexpensive, and the culture of selling appliances without plugs continued, as it saved a lot of money on the cost of the plug and the labour fitting it, reducing the retail price of the appliance.

During the 1970s, it became increasingly popular for large appliances (such as kitchen appliances) to be supplied with plugs attached, similarly for high-end appliances such as vacuum cleaners from Miele and Vax (who initially sold a very expensive carpet cleaning system, unlike the cheap crap they peddle today). Also appliances that were exclusive to the Electricity Board showrooms had plugs, and some retailers who thought they were a cut above would too - I know Marks & Spencer table lamps had plugs fitted to them while British Home Stores didn't (although like so many retailers, they'd cheerfully sell you a new plug).

All this changed in 1995, after it was considered too many people were blowing themselves up when fitting plugs in a haphazard way, and from thereon in, all new appliances had to have factory fitted plugs as standard.

Cassieskinsismad · 25/06/2025 01:33

StMarie4me · 24/06/2025 23:14

You…. You don’t know how to change a plug? Your buy new for a broken plug?

Good grief.

It used to be taught in school, but for decades now every new appliance has been sold with a plug attached after they changed the law to make it so. It's not surprising people don't know how to change a plug or even that it's possible.

Funnywonder · 25/06/2025 01:30

Pringlesfordinner · 25/06/2025 00:45

Well I read this as a Scottish person where “tube” is an insult 😅

“Just change the plug, you tube!”

That made me laugh! I’m in NI and we always insulted each other as kids with ‘ya tube’🤣🤣 Haven’t heard it in years.

Noshadelamp · 25/06/2025 01:26

Wow why so rude and snotty especially @StMarie4me @PashaMinaMio @KatieDidIt @ContraryNoodle ?

Other pp have managed to reply and help op without being so condescending and downright rude.

How were you taught to change a plug but never taught manners?

I'm embarrassed for you

FOJN · 25/06/2025 01:22

Mintsj · 24/06/2025 23:59

That is a very strange accident to have. I am quite confused as to which part is broken.

I thought that most supplied plugs on appliances these days are moulded shut so you can't rewire them.

Can you post a photo?

You can cut the plug off and strip a bit of the wire. You just need to make sure you use the right fuse in the new plug.

Lubilu02 · 25/06/2025 01:18

I'd be the same as you don't worry, and as you mentioned, it is a much larger electrical item that will be using lot of power to run. So, of course you will want to know how to go about this safely (good on you!)

Me being me, and because of its size, i would just pay an electrician for peace of mind 😆 even if others said I could do it myself.

Be sure to check the sockets also, incase it was plugged in at the time.

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:13

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

I'm with you OP, I have never ever heard of anyone rewiring their own plugs, and i would've thought it was an electrician job.
I'm not in the UK though, if that makes a difference.

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 25/06/2025 01:07

ContraryNoodle · 25/06/2025 00:36

Blimey that is pretty pathetic. I am not much older than OP and presumed that knowing that you can change a plug and how is really, really basic.

And how often do you find that you need to change/fit a plug?

I remember needing to do so frequently 25+ years ago; recently, not so much. We also didn't have smartphones with YouTube on them back then, so we could instantly find a reliable guide if we didn't know how to do it anyway.

Actually, I think, with the internet, people's worlds have become much, much bigger. We know that there is so much specialist information out there, and so many specialist skills, that there's no point in any one individual trying (and failing miserably) to learn everything.

What on earth would be the point nowadays in investing your time trying to learn 1,000 different little skills that you might possibly end up needing three of in any given decade, when you can grab something from your pocket, press a few buttons and have an expert guiding you through it within half a minute?

If older people criticise younger people for not knowing how to do something that has been largely obsolete for decades, surely they could just as easily counter that and mock the older folk for not even knowing how to do something as simple as using an internet search engine!

Nanny0gg · 25/06/2025 00:58

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

I am in my 70s and I was never taught at school how to change a plug

And thankfully I now have no need to do it

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 00:56

TheBig50 · 25/06/2025 00:50

@Pinkdreams

Is your tumble dryer a condenser (see I'm old but never had a tumble!) or a... Hose?

If there is any chance of condensation build up then don't be changing plugs or plates regardless of knowledge.

I think us old folk (!) sometimes forget that the most electrical use was given to a kettle or a 3 bar electric heater with a dodgy frayed brown wire surround, some red electrical tape and everyone steered clear knowing it was a death trap. My word - don't try and dry your polyester suits too closely!

Wall socket plate safer to replace than a plug probably but whatever you do,
switch electric off at mains first!

I genuinely do not understand what difference the type of dryer is in respect of putting a new plug on it. Please educate me.

TheBig50 · 25/06/2025 00:52

I've gone all health and safety 🤣

TheBig50 · 25/06/2025 00:50

@Pinkdreams

Is your tumble dryer a condenser (see I'm old but never had a tumble!) or a... Hose?

If there is any chance of condensation build up then don't be changing plugs or plates regardless of knowledge.

I think us old folk (!) sometimes forget that the most electrical use was given to a kettle or a 3 bar electric heater with a dodgy frayed brown wire surround, some red electrical tape and everyone steered clear knowing it was a death trap. My word - don't try and dry your polyester suits too closely!

Wall socket plate safer to replace than a plug probably but whatever you do,
switch electric off at mains first!

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 00:48

Shenmen · 25/06/2025 00:01

Honestly I'm fifty and don't remember getting appliances without preattached plugs. I do remember wiring plugs at school but never having to do it. Probably because I only had rented or secondhand stuff until I was about 40!

Before January 1995, factory fitted plugs were entirely at the discretion of the manufacturer. Unless you started buying appliances in your teens, at 50 you wouldn't remember anything different, unless the absence of plugs on appliances had caused dramas in your childhood household...it did in mine, as my father was useless at wiring plugs safely, so plugs often went with a bang after being used for a while. Also, many a mother would go berserk when removing an infrequently used appliance from a cupboard, only to find someone had robbed the plug off it for something else.

Pringlesfordinner · 25/06/2025 00:45

DriveboyDogboy · 24/06/2025 23:13

An electrician to change a plug? No, I learned how to change a plug as a Brownie, anyone can do it! You Tube.

Well I read this as a Scottish person where “tube” is an insult 😅

“Just change the plug, you tube!”

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 00:43

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 25/06/2025 00:34

It's really unkind to berate OP for not knowing how to change a plug. I know how to, but that isn't because I'm better or smarter; I'm just of a certain vintage.

It's one of those life skills that used to be essential but is now never needed by the vast majority of people. It's a bit like mocking young people for not knowing how to write a cheque, or how to send a fax, or how to manually spool back a cassette tape with a pencil.

Plenty of young adults now have other instinctive skills that most people of my generation probably don't instantly know anything about; and maybe never will learn at all.

I could never write a cheque properly, and avoided them at all costs. For everyone who is saying that wiring a plug is easy, then why the f* did the law change to ensure all new appliances had plugs fitted to them? I'll tell you why - it was because a hell of a lot of people were incapable of wiring a plug properly and safely. It may have been a skill that we all depended on, but a lot of people were poor at it.

Funnywonder · 25/06/2025 00:40

How to wire a plug was the only - and I mean the ONLY - thing I found interesting or remembered in Physics at school😆 And I must admit it has come in useful, unlike calculating the speed of a marble rolling down a slope and suchlike. My 16yo knows how to wire a plug.

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 00:40

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:43

and to add I’m 28 so I don’t think that it’s been taught in a while

By law, plugs have been factory fitted to new appliances since January 1995. However, many manufacturers started the process around two or more years earlier, as it was well known for years in advance that the day would come.

If you are 28, there is no way I would have expected you to have needed to change a plug, let alone know how to do it off the top of your head. Ignore anyone who thinks differently.

TheBig50 · 25/06/2025 00:39

PickAChew · 25/06/2025 00:13

Wiring a plug was part of the physics curriculum in the early noughties but that was pre-Gove.

Yep it always popped up in a GCSE science exam.

Not that we had physics, chemistry or biology separately. I have GCSEs in Science 1 and... Science 2!

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