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DP has just broke my dryer

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Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:11

I asked DP to move the dryer whilst I clean under it as I spilt something, he couldn’t move it far enough so got annoyed and pulled it, which has now completely snapped the plug. I’m so angry. My dad says we can just change it ourselves, would you call an electrician?

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DearCoralCat · 25/06/2025 07:13

Sherararara · 25/06/2025 07:01

I would be very surprised if this is even true as it would be very hard to damage a plug on a dryer. They come with sufficient cord length to pull out the machine completely. Even if caught in something, to pull it out with sufficient strength to damage the moulded plug would likely damage the socket or something else.
More likely this is troll post to start the inevitable “did you learn to wire a plug in school” debate. Like so many it’s been done to death on MN.

It would be the most boring troll ever. The fact that OP has been abused for asking a normal question doesn't make her the troll! Trolls are the ones calling her 'dim' etc. grown ass women, apparently old enough to remember how to change a plug but not how to behave in a conversation, or that if you've got nothing nice to say, shut up.

nomas · 25/06/2025 07:13

PashaMinaMio · 24/06/2025 23:15

Are you 12?
You tube is the answer.

Why so nasty?

Haggisfish3 · 25/06/2025 07:10

Aposterhasnoname · 25/06/2025 06:48

OMG I was taught to wire a plug in school. I’m not sure you’d even find an electrician willing to come out for such a ridiculously small job.

Honestly do our schools teach no practical skills these days.

Yes, it’s still taught as one of the required practicals in science!

Sherararara · 25/06/2025 07:01

I would be very surprised if this is even true as it would be very hard to damage a plug on a dryer. They come with sufficient cord length to pull out the machine completely. Even if caught in something, to pull it out with sufficient strength to damage the moulded plug would likely damage the socket or something else.
More likely this is troll post to start the inevitable “did you learn to wire a plug in school” debate. Like so many it’s been done to death on MN.

Latenightreader · 25/06/2025 06:59

A friend and I were discussing this the other day. His wife wanted to call an electrician to replace a plug and he was astonished that she didn't know how (she's really practical and does most of the DIY). He and I both learnt at school, home and Brownies/cubs (differentends of the country), she's five years younger than us and didn't!

Boomer55 · 25/06/2025 06:51

PinkyBear · 24/06/2025 23:52

I reckon my Mum still will somewhere “just in case” 🤣

I’ve got a box full of them of various amps. 😂

Before welded plugs, I often had to change/rewire plugs, and even with welded plugs, fuses can blow. 😉

Aposterhasnoname · 25/06/2025 06:48

OMG I was taught to wire a plug in school. I’m not sure you’d even find an electrician willing to come out for such a ridiculously small job.

Honestly do our schools teach no practical skills these days.

Greenvases · 25/06/2025 06:47

I have never learnt this at school at 60 either.
I would you tube now if necessary.

Your twat boyfriend sounds like he has temper issues.

I hope you are thinking about that.
Do you walk on eggshells?
Do you not ask him to do his share because of his temper?

If so dump his ass.

Bogeyes · 25/06/2025 06:42

Did you mean to type " our" dryer?

Fantailsflitting · 25/06/2025 06:42

I'm 61 and I never learnt. It was never taught in my country because, strangely, nobody was daft enough to try to sell electrical appliances without plugs. The idea that English people were prepared to go along with this is one of the great mysteries of my life, along with the English system of house sales. In NZ you sign a contract, likely to be unconditional, and you settle on the settlement date - there is no last minute renegotiation or failure to complete. Chains are pretty much unknown.

Apart from the plug, I'd be a bit worried about your DP's temper about what was quite a reasonable request. Why isn't he worrying about fixing it asap?

Wolmando · 25/06/2025 06:40

I have never changed a plug and would have to consult instructions, DH though changes plugs, sockets and light fittings, stuff like that, probably like OP's DF, we are in our 60s, I think I was taught but it probably went in one ear and out of the other.

MyDeftDuck · 25/06/2025 06:37

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:14

Really? I thought it was ok to change plug sockets, I never would have thought it was safe to change a plug. That’s great news

Did he damage the plug?…..that’s the bit on the end of the cable coming out of the dryer………OR the socket? ………that’s the bit fastened to the wall where said plug is inserted.
There’s a massive difference between the two and whereby anyone should be able to change a plug, changing a socket should only be attempted by a qualified electrician.

party4you · 25/06/2025 06:36

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Maybe so but it’s a bit hypocritical to call people on here innit

Tiredofallthis101 · 25/06/2025 06:29

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:42

Never once was I taught this

Totally agree OP I wasn't taught this either. No idea why people need to be rude.

Monicaaa · 25/06/2025 06:23

AlwaysTheRenegade · 24/06/2025 23:48

I'm 35 and I would have to ask someone aswell! I didn't get taught this at school, I don't think I know anyone under 50 that did!

Ha! @AlwaysTheRenegade I am 48 and I was taught at school, just asked my son who is 28 and he wasn't!

JackJarvisEsq · 25/06/2025 06:22

I’m 42 and was never taught in school.

in my entire life I’ve never needed to change a plug, so can’t imagine a 20 something would ever have done either.

its one of those things that’s a diminishing task, like lighting a coal fire or starting a car with a choke.

TimeForATerf · 25/06/2025 06:19

Three wires OP, bRown to the right bLue to the left (note the clue in the letters to help you remember) and the yellow/green which is the earth in the middle.

How to wire a plug - step by step guide with video

Easy step by step guide to rewiring a plug correctly. Find out how to wire a plug from a PAT testing expert who rewires plugs everyday.

https://www.draelectricals.co.uk/wire-plug/

Icanttakethisanymore · 25/06/2025 06:17

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:43

and to add I’m 28 so I don’t think that it’s been taught in a while

I’m 40 and wasn’t taught how to change a plug in school. It’s not heard to work it out though op, you’ll be fine.

Wheech · 25/06/2025 06:16

PickAChew · 25/06/2025 00:13

Wiring a plug was part of the physics curriculum in the early noughties but that was pre-Gove.

That's where I learned, rather than primary school like others. I think we did it in Brownies or maybe Guides as well. I'm late 40s.

Youre not an idiot OP but it's appalling this is not taught now. You checked about an expensive tumble drier but I wonder how many smaller appliances are binned for this reason.

Bjorkdidit · 25/06/2025 06:12

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MyLov · 25/06/2025 06:12

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

You are absolutely right @PinkdreamsThere was absolute no need for posters to talk to you the way they have.

Bjorkdidit · 25/06/2025 06:10

NameChange7890123 · 25/06/2025 06:02

I'm 43, UK, and have never been taught to change a plug in either school or brownies. I've never once in my life needed to either so hardly a 'life skill'.
For those saying why didn't you Google. Why would you Google something you didn't think possible?

I'd love to see a thread of someone older asking how to do something a 20 year old was taught in school and everyone jumping on it going 'you're pathetic not to know that'.

Well you could google 'can you rewire a plug'?

Why wouldn't you think it's possible? Sometimes when the fuse blows there's sparks and the plug gets a bit burnt so that's another reason to change it.

party4you · 25/06/2025 06:08

OP how can you have a go at posters for berating you when you were annoyed at your DP for accidentally causing (repairable) damage whilst helping you?! Look in the mirror Jesus.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 25/06/2025 06:05

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

You can safely change a plug on an appliance, as others have said, you can look up instructions online, but if in doubt, get an electrician. There’s no shame in playing it safe. Badly wired appliances can start fires.
But please don’t try to wire in sockets yourself.

1984Winston · 25/06/2025 06:04

I'm 41 and I don't know how to re wire a plug, wasn't taught at school either (although was abroad for secondary school) my DH is a year older than me and went to the same primary and I don't think he knows either, I do remember my parents changing plugs though

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