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DP has just broke my dryer

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Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:11

I asked DP to move the dryer whilst I clean under it as I spilt something, he couldn’t move it far enough so got annoyed and pulled it, which has now completely snapped the plug. I’m so angry. My dad says we can just change it ourselves, would you call an electrician?

OP posts:
floppybit · 25/06/2025 07:47

I know you can change a plug yourself but I wasn’t taught this at school (I wish I had been), Im 49. It would be great if they taught more practice stuff like this at school.

MyDeftDuck · 25/06/2025 07:39

MojitosAllRound · 25/06/2025 07:34

Not true. There is nothing to say someone can't change their own sockets. We have done ours, sometimes me, sometimes husband.

Ok……ok…….i get your point but I’m sure you’ll agree that it’s NOT something a complete novice should attempt ……. particularly those who don’t know the difference between a plug and a socket! And FWIW, I change my own sockets, change plugs, change fuses, fix dripping taps ……I could go on but I have an extension to build

amooseymoomum · 25/06/2025 07:39

it was not that long ago you did not buy appliances with plugs so you had to know

PluckyChancer · 25/06/2025 07:38

Haggisfish3 · 24/06/2025 23:41

It has been on the school curriculum for decades. At least twenty five years.

I got taught how to change a plug by my brother but it definitely wasn’t anything taught at school.

School was crap at teaching practical and useful stuff such as budgeting and home maintenance.

JackJarvisEsq · 25/06/2025 07:36

Another thread where people can’t accept not all of us are taught the same things, nor do we all sit GCSEs in the UK

Westfacing · 25/06/2025 07:36

It's unbelievable now that we used to buy electrical goods that came without a plug!

Am I mis-remembering but didn't this also apply to large items such as washing machines?

LegoLivingRoom · 25/06/2025 07:35

In my 40s and was definitely taught at school, but I don’t think I’ve ever done it in real life.

DD was actually taught this at school the other week, so it’s certainly still taught in some schools.

MojitosAllRound · 25/06/2025 07:34

MyDeftDuck · 25/06/2025 06:37

Did he damage the plug?…..that’s the bit on the end of the cable coming out of the dryer………OR the socket? ………that’s the bit fastened to the wall where said plug is inserted.
There’s a massive difference between the two and whereby anyone should be able to change a plug, changing a socket should only be attempted by a qualified electrician.

Not true. There is nothing to say someone can't change their own sockets. We have done ours, sometimes me, sometimes husband.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 25/06/2025 07:31

I’m 36 and never learnt anything like this in school. I knew it was possible from TV but wouldn’t know how to do it myself. My parents weren’t born and raised in the UK either so they wouldn’t have done it growing up.

OP - ignore all the snotty remarks. You don’t know what you don’t know, after all ☺️

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 07:31

Cherrysoup · 25/06/2025 07:22

Wall socket or plug? Dryer plugs aren’t as straightforward as a standard lamp plug. I have not heard of changing a plug being on the school currently recently (teacher).

They are absolutely as straightforward as a lamp plug.

JamesWebbSpaceTelescope · 25/06/2025 07:27

Structure of a plug is on the GCSE science spec (both physics separate and combined). I suppose school don’t have to teach how to rewire one but it is the easiest way to teach that lesson. Class set of plugs, screwdrivers and electricity off at the wall in case someone tries to use the plug!

One of my favourite lessons.

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 07:23

MyDeftDuck · 25/06/2025 06:37

Did he damage the plug?…..that’s the bit on the end of the cable coming out of the dryer………OR the socket? ………that’s the bit fastened to the wall where said plug is inserted.
There’s a massive difference between the two and whereby anyone should be able to change a plug, changing a socket should only be attempted by a qualified electrician.

It's absolutely fine to change a socket yourself.

Cherrysoup · 25/06/2025 07:22

Wall socket or plug? Dryer plugs aren’t as straightforward as a standard lamp plug. I have not heard of changing a plug being on the school currently recently (teacher).

Destiny123 · 25/06/2025 07:20

Aprilrosesews · 25/06/2025 07:13

I’m 33 and I got taught this. It was in physics maybe somewhere between year 7 and 9. It was definitely part of the curriculum

Same, 34

MsTamborineMan · 25/06/2025 07:20

eatreadsleeprepeat · 25/06/2025 07:19

I think rather than implying that you are an idiot people’s surprise and comments were about the changes in society that have led to this happening. I recently replaced a plug on a standard lamp I was revamping and realised just how many, many years it was since I had done this.
Is the plastic of the plug broken or have the wires pulled out? If the latter then it is simple enough to rejoin, the plug may have a diagram inside to guide you. If you watch a video make sure it is a uk one. If the plug is smashed usually easy to buy, a replacement but make sure it is 13amp.

Many people were definitely implying OP is an idiot

Idontjetwashthefucker · 25/06/2025 07:19

Bogeyes · 25/06/2025 06:42

Did you mean to type " our" dryer?

Really?

MsTamborineMan · 25/06/2025 07:19

I'm 29 and was never taught how to wire a plug at school, or brownies. I've never seen or heard of anyone having to rewire a plug

Tbh my dad is a physics teacher and has never once mentioned it to me at any point. And he mentioned a lot of the physics curriculum throughout my life

It's not a modern lifeskill. And even if I had been taught it in school I wouldn't be confident I could remember something I'd learnt at 8 in brownies!

eatreadsleeprepeat · 25/06/2025 07:19

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

I think rather than implying that you are an idiot people’s surprise and comments were about the changes in society that have led to this happening. I recently replaced a plug on a standard lamp I was revamping and realised just how many, many years it was since I had done this.
Is the plastic of the plug broken or have the wires pulled out? If the latter then it is simple enough to rejoin, the plug may have a diagram inside to guide you. If you watch a video make sure it is a uk one. If the plug is smashed usually easy to buy, a replacement but make sure it is 13amp.

Glowingup · 25/06/2025 07:19

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

Don’t worry OP I’ve never wired a plug nor would I know how to and nor was I taught it at school. I would also be scared to do it in case I got it wrong and electrocuted myself.

Destiny123 · 25/06/2025 07:19

EnhancedVampireEyeballs · 24/06/2025 23:22

Why would it not be safe to change a plug? I learned how to do it in Primary School, probably at the age of 8 or 9.

I can still remember "the lively brown bear walked on green earth, under a neutral blue sky 😂

Watch a tutorial online, I promise, you will be able to do it, and think of the money you'll save doing it yourself rather than paying an electrician.

34 we learnt in school
We learnt BRown for Bottom Right
BLue for Bottom Left

Idontjetwashthefucker · 25/06/2025 07:16

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:43

and to add I’m 28 so I don’t think that it’s been taught in a while

Im 51 and was never taught this at school

healthybychristmas · 25/06/2025 07:15

I wouldn't trust that idiot to change the plug, OP. However I would tell him it's his problem to resolve.

Switcher · 25/06/2025 07:15

Well I once broke my own dryer when I bashed my head on the open door and then repeatedly hit the door closing mechanism in a fit of blind rage. That's was quite embarrassing when the bloke who came to fix it asked what happened to it😂

Boredlass · 25/06/2025 07:14

Ignore the snippy responses. I was taught at school but that was a long time ago and I’d have to look it up. My son is 17 and wasn’t.

Aprilrosesews · 25/06/2025 07:13

AlwaysTheRenegade · 24/06/2025 23:48

I'm 35 and I would have to ask someone aswell! I didn't get taught this at school, I don't think I know anyone under 50 that did!

I’m 33 and I got taught this. It was in physics maybe somewhere between year 7 and 9. It was definitely part of the curriculum