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To say that the "alternative medicine" and conspiracy theorists about Western medicine are dangerous to society?

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YourAmplePlumPoster · 24/06/2025 19:07

I have a friend I've known all my life. He first of all refused to have the Covid vaccine and then refused treatment for his prostate cancer and said he was going to treat it with homeopathic medicine. Result was that it spread to his hip bone. Luckily he started chemo and it's worked. What is wrong with these people?

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echt · 25/06/2025 08:55

ItsAMoooPoint · 25/06/2025 07:54

I'm all about western medicine, but some alternative therapies do help. I visited a massive hospital in Shanghai a good few years ago and they had your usual wards but also acupuncture, all under one roof. It was fascinating!

And your evidence is...?

InterestedDad37 · 25/06/2025 08:53

Totally with the OP. Homeopathy is bunkum, of course it is. I suppose though that the origins of medicine must have been ancient peoples treating themselves/each other with plants/extracts etc, and recently we've been a bit 'wowed' by evidence that some populations of chimps do this too. So the whole homeopathy thing has a basis in historical fact, but modern medicine (despite occasional massive cock ups) has the strength of science behind it. If you have a general mistrust of science, affecting your outlook on life, give your head a wobble 😀

Thepeopleversuswork · 25/06/2025 08:20

wastingtimeonhere · 25/06/2025 08:04

I've also heard of ivermectin being used as treatment instead too. Stories that a mates, second cousin knew a bloke down the pub who had been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer took ivermectin instead of chemotherapy and is now clear of cancer.
Unsurprisingly, story comes from conspiracy theory follower. Chem trails, geoengineering fully through to flat earth, dome over the earth believing.

Ivermectin is at least a licensed drug which has gone through rigorous safety trials. Clearly it’s not an appropriate substitute for chemotherapy and this is a dangerous narrative.

But I have heard anecdotes of people with advanced cancer being told to take cannabis oil in place of chemotherapy: I know of a woman who did this and sadly died. That’s a whole new level of dangerous.

wastingtimeonhere · 25/06/2025 08:04

I've also heard of ivermectin being used as treatment instead too. Stories that a mates, second cousin knew a bloke down the pub who had been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer took ivermectin instead of chemotherapy and is now clear of cancer.
Unsurprisingly, story comes from conspiracy theory follower. Chem trails, geoengineering fully through to flat earth, dome over the earth believing.

ItsAMoooPoint · 25/06/2025 07:54

I'm all about western medicine, but some alternative therapies do help. I visited a massive hospital in Shanghai a good few years ago and they had your usual wards but also acupuncture, all under one roof. It was fascinating!

Smallsalt · 25/06/2025 07:51

But they have all "done their research" don't you know.🙄

Thepeopleversuswork · 25/06/2025 07:46

A single complementary medicine can be both ineffective and dangerous. I don’t “choose to believe” that, it’s a fact.

This.

Also the issue with "complementary" and "alternative" medicines isn't that the medicines are necessarily always bad or harmful (although they can be). There are two critical problems with the way these products are marketed and sold:

  • They are very rarely tested with the same degree of rigour as a pharmaceutical product (because the medical establishment doesn't take them seriously)
  • They are positioned as being a "natural" alternative which is a completely misleading premise: it assumes there's a neat duality between "natural" and "pharmaceutical" which is just scientifically wrong.

I can see how some "complementary" therapies could play a part in health alongside conventional medicine providing people are clear-eyed about the risks and benefits and understand the evidence base. For example there's clearly tons of anecdotal evidence of the benefits of cannabis in pain relief management and lots of other conditions. I can understand how that could play a part in managing cancer symptoms providing it's not positioned as a "cure" and presented as a reason not to use conventional medicines.

Where its really problematic is with this rhetoric where its sold as a "natural alternative" which is healthier than the "chemicals" presented by the medical establishment, leading people to think that its "healthier". It's a grotesque and dangerous over-simplification.

If people want to spend their money on harmless pills and ointments as a supplement to conventional medicine that's fine. If they are doing so as an alternative to potentially life-saving conventional medicines it's really pretty disastrous. I think people should be free to choose to spend money on this but we should regulate much more heavily the practitioners who present this as a viable alternative to conventional medicine.

blobby10 · 25/06/2025 07:41

@YourAmplePlumPoster No need to apologise - you are as entitled to your opinion as I am to mine! Grin

Taytoface · 25/06/2025 07:31

I think part of the problem is that we are not very honest about the medicines we have the how medicine is practiced.

A lot of medicine is trial and error, with a bit of evidence thrown in. Most licensed drugs won't work for a large portion of patients they are made for. Some patients just won't respond, some will experience bad side effects, and for the most part we just don't know why. Instead of being honest about this, drugs are presented as magic bullets.

We need to have a more honest and balanced discussion about the benefits and limitations of all forms of medicine. Giving the impression western medicine is infallible and everything else is junk just feeds the conspiracies.

The COVId vaccine was a great example of this. It was incredibly effective, but it was v experimental, and it is clear that a small number of people suffered very bad side effects. From a population perspective, it was a huge triumph of modern medicine, but that is cold comfort for those individuals badly affected.

I hate the conspiracists BTW, that story of the nurse and daughter was appalling. She v likely would have gone on to live a long and healthy life if she had chemo.

Switcher · 25/06/2025 07:17

Yes, it's a shame when complete nutters die needlessly. I don't think it means banning anything or forcing them to have treatment though. I don't want to live in that sort of society.

dottiedodah · 25/06/2025 07:15

Thissillyfox .paloma was 23 and very bright.However her brother said that she was very ill,and not thinking straight. The family had been subjected to stories of shape shifting lizards, 9 11 theories and so on their whole lives. Their parents were completely transfixed. Having cancer makes you feel vulnerable and its difficult to make informed decisions

SnakesAndArrows · 25/06/2025 06:59

NewtonsCradle · 25/06/2025 02:18

As I clearly stated each treatment should be researched and tested but there is no economic driver to do that.

Natural plants cannot be patented, they are not intellectual property. If you extract and synthesise ingredients from a plant then you aren't patenting the natural product, you are patenting your invention.

The economics are the real issue. The lack of research is the consequence. The attempts to whip up fear doesn't persuade rational people.

You said

The strange thing about complementary and alternative medicine is that some people choose to believe it's both ineffective and dangerous, it is essentially a mirror to the anti-vaxxer's argument.

A single complementary medicine can be both ineffective and dangerous. I don’t “choose to believe” that, it’s a fact.

ThisSillyFox · 25/06/2025 06:57

dogcatkitten · 25/06/2025 06:43

But she was under the influence of her mother who had estranged her from siblings and friends and convinced her that the proper treatment would kill her and the junk stuff would cure her. And of course she was ill and not necessarily thinking straight and apparently her mother nursed and looked after her very well, apart from persuading her not to have treatment.

She was 23, a Cambridge graduate so she wasn’t stupid, an adult with her own mind and intelligence to choose what she believed in.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 25/06/2025 06:56

mellongoose · 24/06/2025 22:40

I would call these complimentary rather than alternative.

There are plenty of complimentary therapies you can get for side effects and symptoms whilst making sure you take all the necessary fabulous NHS treatment.

Yes, and that's what I was meaning. My cancer was treated by science, and complementary therapies are supporting my general wellbeing (because the lasting effects of the medical treatment are very real).

I very much would like to see some sort of regulation to stop people popping up on social media saying that medicine has it wrong, you just need coffee enemas to cure your cancer. Being diagnosed with cancer is traumatic, and I can understand why people are desperate to find 'another way'. Chemo is tough, no doubt about it.

ThrowAwayHooray · 25/06/2025 06:48

I do not believe herbal medicines work effectively in any way.

Disclaimer: This post is specifically about the herb comment; I have always taken and will continue to take anything western / modern medicine has to offer and I don’t believe alternative medicine is a replacement.

I have a life limiting illness and several autoimmune conditions too. I lived in the USA - the home of big pharma - for several years and do you know what helped relieve my worst symptoms? Smoking medical marijuana i.e. a herb. It was recommended to me by a fully licensed doctor (Yale undergrad then Harvard Medical School); I was issued a medical marijuana card and I got it from a licensed dispensary.

No “standard” medications have ever worked for me anywhere near as well and it really did give me my life back (and I tried everything else first, it was the last resort).

Serpentstooth · 25/06/2025 06:47

No conscience at all. Look at the popularity of these disrupters, making money out of their deluded believers. Utterly sickening. Sociopaths with power complexes the lot of them.

dogcatkitten · 25/06/2025 06:43

ThisSillyFox · 25/06/2025 06:31

But she died due to refusing treatment so that is her own doing.

But she was under the influence of her mother who had estranged her from siblings and friends and convinced her that the proper treatment would kill her and the junk stuff would cure her. And of course she was ill and not necessarily thinking straight and apparently her mother nursed and looked after her very well, apart from persuading her not to have treatment.

dogcatkitten · 25/06/2025 06:38

Westfacing · 24/06/2025 19:50

Charlatans have been peddling this rubbish for profit, for decades, long before anti-vaxxer types. About 25 years ago a school mum used to go to Mexico for coffee enemas and the like for bowel cancer - needless to say she died.

She may have died after conventional medicine who knows, but in the time since I'm sure coffee enemas haven't proved their worth in any scientific studies.

And now the snake oil pedlars have the echo chamber of social media doing the work of selling their rubbish for them. Do they have no conscience when they are literally killing people.

ThisSillyFox · 25/06/2025 06:31

dottiedodah · 25/06/2025 06:25

Heartbreaking episode of Panorama on Monday evening. A beautiful young woman with Cancer refused Chemo, because ht her parents were anti valuers.her brothers were devastated. I cannot understand this mindset .I had Chemo last year for ovarian cancer. Bloody terrified! No choice imo .

But she died due to refusing treatment so that is her own doing.

dottiedodah · 25/06/2025 06:25

Heartbreaking episode of Panorama on Monday evening. A beautiful young woman with Cancer refused Chemo, because ht her parents were anti valuers.her brothers were devastated. I cannot understand this mindset .I had Chemo last year for ovarian cancer. Bloody terrified! No choice imo .

ThisSillyFox · 25/06/2025 05:29

Thepeopleversuswork · 25/06/2025 05:20

@ThisSillyFox

Americans are fucking idiots though, look who they voted for.. a racist rapist.

Maybe but the US is the richest and most powerful country in the world and its government sets the tone for policy globally. We can't wash our hands of it.

Say what you like about "big pharma" (and God knows its not a benign industry) but I would prefer vaccine policy be steered by people who understand basic science than by some of the people who RFK has appointed to make decisions impacting the health of the US population, who are mainly grifters and influencers peddling nonsense based on tapping into the fears of uneducated people.

I disagree. Trump is a joke and many world leaders know that. Look at the people he has in charge. The US is the laughing stock of the world. Good luck to Americans is all I say.

Thepeopleversuswork · 25/06/2025 05:20

@ThisSillyFox

Americans are fucking idiots though, look who they voted for.. a racist rapist.

Maybe but the US is the richest and most powerful country in the world and its government sets the tone for policy globally. We can't wash our hands of it.

Say what you like about "big pharma" (and God knows its not a benign industry) but I would prefer vaccine policy be steered by people who understand basic science than by some of the people who RFK has appointed to make decisions impacting the health of the US population, who are mainly grifters and influencers peddling nonsense based on tapping into the fears of uneducated people.

Greyskies92 · 25/06/2025 05:19

MsNevermore · 24/06/2025 19:47

Which is mental when you look to history and see the opposite.

It was the peasant folk who knew that if the cut of your hand is looking a bit manky, give it a wash and have a munch on some cheese that’s on the turn and it will probably look better in a few days 🤷🏻‍♀️😂
Whereas the aristocracy had a sore throat and having leeches stuck on their necks by the doctors who didn’t think washing their hands was important 🫠

Mouldy cheese lady was burned as a witch whilst leech man was promoted to royal physician 😳👍🏻👍🏻

You should think a little longer about that story....

ThisSillyFox · 25/06/2025 05:13

Thepeopleversuswork · 25/06/2025 05:05

@Bridgetjonesheart

Firstly, that won’t happen unless there’s money in it like there is big pharma. Secondly, the point is, where does the policing stop? First it’s thoughts about medicine, then what. Branded a conspiracy theorist for thinking anything that’s against the grain or mass media. Shunned, outcast, ridiculed for thinking something that isn’t the ‘norm’. We’ve been here before.

It has already happened. RFK, who is in charge of US Health & Human Services (which oversees vaccine policy among other things) has just fired all the scientists who previously led a panel advising government on vaccine policy and introduced people who to put it kindly are indulgent of vaccine scepticism. This is happening in the midst of the worst measles outbreak in the US in decades, much of which is attributed to the falling levels of measles inoculation.

Vaccine sceptics are no longer "shunned" or "outcast", they are at the heart of the government of the most powerful nation in the world.

Americans are fucking idiots though, look who they voted for.. a racist rapist.

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