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Who are all these people who keep losing their dogs?

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BananaCaramel · 23/06/2025 20:06

Seems like every other day there is a post on my local town Facebook group about someone spotting a dog on the loose (“sorry I had my buggy so I couldn’t stop”), collecting a roaming dog and bringing it back to their house (“they’re safe at mine and I’ve set up the paddling pool, PM me”), or people who have lost their dog asking if anyone has seen it?

Surely it can’t be this common for people to be losing their dogs out on walks all the time?

And who are all these people picking up random dogs and bringing them into their house?

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FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 23/06/2025 21:47

Notthisagainyouidiot · 23/06/2025 21:39

My local fb page doesn't go a day without a lost/found/running down the road dog Often repeat offenders. Also escaped indoor cats.
For variety we recently had cows and sheep. Not a rural area but in town .
Also ferrets. The one where someone found a ferret and it was claimed by someone who wasn't actually the owner turned into one hell of a row online.

Ha! We've also got a couple of ferrets near us who apparently love a little run around the estate on a regular basis.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 23/06/2025 21:46

I had this conversation the other day as it would appear there are quite a few shit dog owners in my area.

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 23/06/2025 21:40

A lot of dogs present as having ADHD. All keen to be a good boy, until they see a squirrel and forget everything. (I’m aware ADHD is far more complicated than this, before anyone gets offended, my DD appears to have it). My dog is small and black and can sneak past your ankles in the dark if you open the door for any reason. I don’t know if she’s got better at not doing it or we’ve got better at preventing it. Thankfully we always got her back because she’d just run up to the first person she saw excitedly wagging her tail and begging for cuddles. She’s never made it more than a few doors down. Elderly dogs can also get confused and wander off, that seems to be a common cause of escapee dogs where I live. Also the one whose owner recently died and seems to have gone a bit unsettled, which is sad.

Notthisagainyouidiot · 23/06/2025 21:39

My local fb page doesn't go a day without a lost/found/running down the road dog Often repeat offenders. Also escaped indoor cats.
For variety we recently had cows and sheep. Not a rural area but in town .
Also ferrets. The one where someone found a ferret and it was claimed by someone who wasn't actually the owner turned into one hell of a row online.

Lifestooshort71 · 23/06/2025 21:38

...and a lot of posts on FB from people who've 'Found a stray cat who was in my garden for 12mins so I fed him expensive catty treats and I know he's lost/abandoned/starving cos he's still here'......'Put a paper collar on him!'.....'Take him to vet to be scanned!'.....
No, he's just a Six-Dinner-Sid who's having a wander and you've fallen for it, leave him be!
(Apologies for derail)

Littletreefrog · 23/06/2025 21:27

There seems to be a new thing of not making your dog wear a collar. I'm sure someone will be along to tell me they are not safe. Back in the olden days when dogs wore collars you just rang the number and the owner came to get them job done. No need for everyone (and his dog) on Facebook getting involved.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 23/06/2025 21:22

It happens a fair bit by me, lots of woods and dogs run off leash. Chase after a rabbit and get a bit confused. I grabbed a runaway dog myself, I’d spoken to the owner at start of my walk whilst dogs were saying hello, our dogs look v similar (both red labs from working stock) and he mentioned she was a bit flighty and belonged to his partner. Appeared out the woods a mile down the path looking a bit confused but delighted to see my dog again. No sign of owner so after a bit I thought I’d best pop my leash on her and walk her back to car park in hopes of finding owner. Got there and no sign but a couple of other dog walkers mentioned they’d seen him looking/ calling and I contemplated sticking dog on Facebook and if I should ask if someone in village could hold onto her as I live 10 miles away.

Luckily he reappeared before I could make a dognapper of myself and tried to grab my dog.

I also found a dog on the very busy rural road I live on. I was really worried it’d get hit so I popped it in the car and drove home with it just a few hundred metres. It belonged to the guests who were visiting my neighbour at the foot of the drive so that was lucky. They did save my dog once too as she chased a rabbit into their garden and out the other side and up on to road.

SemperIdem · 23/06/2025 21:20

Agree @birdling, plus a massive rise in people becoming aware of all sorts of new “status breeds”, which pre social media few would ever have heard of in the UK, with even fewer having the experience or set ups to adequately house such breeds. Caucasian Shepherds, Cane Corsos, Malinois and Boerboels all spring to mind. Fantastic breeds, all occupation breeds, none suited to the house pet city living they are being subjected to.

I knew someone who had two huskies, she lived in a semi rural area, had a fairly chaotic lifestyle. Certainly not one which suggested she could look after any dog, let alone a high needs breed, let alone two of said breed. They got out repeatedly, killed sheep multiple times. One went missing, there was much drama on social media, the remaining dog still kept getting out, then went missing too. Both dogs gone within 6 months of each other. I personally think they were shot by a farmer/s for lifestock worrying and she was never informed.

JustFeedMeCake · 23/06/2025 21:15

The odd escape is inevitable but mainly they’re just very stupid, careless terrible people.

RepoTheGeriatricOpera · 23/06/2025 21:15

There was a spate around here when the postie would open the door to put the parcel inside and the dogs escaped (not mine, that would involve getting up and being energetic). Also lots blamed on delivery drivers leaving gates open.

There was a couple when a fox was roaming around our local woodland during the day and spooked the dogs.

There is one woman who got her dog the same time as I got mine, made me feel like shit about my training and my 'common' dog and how much better she was at everything, her dog escapes all the time, at least weekly. She said it's a husky thing that they all do.

MidnightPatrol · 23/06/2025 21:14

I think the problem is probably the same as ever - people can just communicate far and wide now with the internet!

My neighbour lost their dog the other day. They have a toddler and a small baby, and think it must have slipped out while answering the door, albeit no one noticed.

I found another neighbours dog in the street a few not us ago, and they thought it had come in with them but it hadn’t. Thankfully it was docile enough to just hang around waiting to be discovered!

BatchCookBabe · 23/06/2025 21:14

birdling · 23/06/2025 21:09

I suspect it's to do with the number of new owners who have failed to train their dogs properly. There are far more dogs around now (or that's how it feels) and far more of them seems to have had little or no training.

Yep this. ^ Too many people getting dogs that they have no clue how to deal with and discipline and train. I know several people in my village who have their dogs running about in the garden, gate open, and the dogs running off around the village. Then you see 'has anybody seen my dog' posted on the village facebook page. At least 2 of these types of posts a week pop up.

We had 9 different dogs over 20 years when I lived with my parents/when I was growing up. (Sometimes had 2, sometimes 1,) and we never ever lost one. Never had one go missing. Ever. Indeed, most people in our street of 20 houses - back then - had a dog or two. Don't remember one going missing. Ever.

birdling · 23/06/2025 21:09

I suspect it's to do with the number of new owners who have failed to train their dogs properly. There are far more dogs around now (or that's how it feels) and far more of them seems to have had little or no training.

ohtowinthelottery · 23/06/2025 20:54

There's been quite a few on my local FB page in the last few days too. Dogs seem to have escaped from gardens/farms though. And one went AWOL and was missing for a few hours before being found.

I can only assume that people's gardens aren't as secure as they should be and that the owners aren't keeping an eye on them. It's only a matter of time before one of these loose dogs causes an RTA though.