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Who are all these people who keep losing their dogs?

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BananaCaramel · 23/06/2025 20:06

Seems like every other day there is a post on my local town Facebook group about someone spotting a dog on the loose (“sorry I had my buggy so I couldn’t stop”), collecting a roaming dog and bringing it back to their house (“they’re safe at mine and I’ve set up the paddling pool, PM me”), or people who have lost their dog asking if anyone has seen it?

Surely it can’t be this common for people to be losing their dogs out on walks all the time?

And who are all these people picking up random dogs and bringing them into their house?

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Littletreefrog · 24/06/2025 16:01

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 24/06/2025 07:07

This is where having a limpet dog is a good thing, yesterday I realised the back gate had been left open but my dog was (as always) sat by my feet.

I can’t imagine he’d ever willingly wander off as he would be too worried about losing us!

Yes my latest dog couldn't pass his training class because he wouldn't go away from me far enough for me to be able to recall him!

Littletreefrog · 24/06/2025 15:59

Ohrightyho · 24/06/2025 06:49

My mum says that when she was a child dogs just roamed around. And presumably took themselves back home for dinner. So why can’t this generation of dogs find their was back home when they get out the front door?

Edit: not and never have been a dog owner…

Edited

They probably would eventually, well the ones that escaped from home anyway, but people love to involve themselves in any sort of Facebook drama now. You can tell by the countless "found a cat" posts. You haven't found a lost cat you have kidnapped a cat out for it's morning walk, put it back and leave it alone! I once had to tell someone on Facebook that the sheep he had found while out on his walk had not infact escaped from a field but was allowed to roam free just like the several hundred other sheep he would find when he had spent a little longer in the countryside.

MadisonAvenue · 24/06/2025 15:24

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 24/06/2025 07:07

This is where having a limpet dog is a good thing, yesterday I realised the back gate had been left open but my dog was (as always) sat by my feet.

I can’t imagine he’d ever willingly wander off as he would be too worried about losing us!

Our last dog was exactly like that, the first time we let him off lead as a puppy he only walked a few feet ahead of us and kept looking around to check on us.

SixteenClovesOfGarlic · 24/06/2025 08:43

It's dogs owned by people who are too stupid to have a pet.

When you choose to get a pet, you take on the basic responsibility of keeping it safe at all times. Idiots act like this is impossible.

Finders of the dogs should deposit the dog at the council pound, it might sharpen the owners minds if they have to pay a release fee due to their own ineptitude.

Coffeeishot · 24/06/2025 08:36

" I've set up the paddling poo"l made me laugh. someone on our page had a spare cooling mat that the lost dog was looking suspicious about 😀

Ive no idea why so many go missing im assuming they are just let off a lead with no recall people seem obsessed with letting dogs of leads at any cost.

ThePure · 24/06/2025 08:29

Ohrightyho · 24/06/2025 06:49

My mum says that when she was a child dogs just roamed around. And presumably took themselves back home for dinner. So why can’t this generation of dogs find their was back home when they get out the front door?

Edit: not and never have been a dog owner…

Edited

I think that’s true. People used to let their dogs just roam around when I was a kid and no one thought they were ‘lost’. Until a few years ago there was still a collie from the local farm who we knew as ‘the village dog’ which would often accompany us on walks and bike rides (doubtless in it for the picnic action) and take himself home when he’d had enough.

Our Facebook has a lot more ‘found’ dogs than lost ones and most of the lost ones are found again within a few minutes. It’s just that we know about it on social media when we never would have done before. There’s a collie (unneutered), a Doberman (muzzled a bit scary, runs away from his owner) and 2 Frenchies (owner seems forgetful) who are the repeat offenders around here although I think the lady has rehomed the Doberman now thank goodness.

tammienorrie · 24/06/2025 08:28

The same people who let their dogs jump up at people and have zero control over them. Because they are lazy and entitled owners who can’t be arsed to train their animals.

Lifestooshort71 · 24/06/2025 08:26

soupyspoon · 24/06/2025 06:59

I very rarely see a trained dog these days.

I agree and blame a lot of it on extendable leads. Teaching a dog to sit and walk to heel on a short lead is too much bother for 'new' dog owners round us.

BogRollBOGOF · 24/06/2025 08:23

Several times I've seen dogs wandering around on the main road by the nearby woods. The owners are probably still in the woods (likely concentrating on phones or chatting) assuming that Fido is close by and "under control"

The irony is that it's a nature reserve and all dogs should be on leads in there to protect ground nesting birds.

That said, it's not a new thing; there were always posters of missing dogs at the entrance to the big park pre-social media.

Shenmen · 24/06/2025 08:17

Our old dog used to sneak out all the time. She would wait until someone had the front door open and was unpacking the shopping or taking the kids into the car and someone would go back to get a book or have a wee and she, like a ninja would quietly slip out.
It's our fault because we are a hectic house, but she was a master at it.
None of our other dogs have ever done it.
She loved it and would wander around the streets eating out of bins.

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 24/06/2025 08:11

Shoth · 23/06/2025 21:51

A lot of people round my way seem to think not having a collar on their lab or spaniel is a status symbol because they are a “working” dog, so they just walk them on a slip lead. Then when the dog inevitably fucks off you have to put it on the community page because there is no tag with contact details.

But even a dog that works has to wear a collar when out and about if it isn’t working at the time. But they don’t seem to read that part of the legislation

If you’re in the UK the law is for the ID tag, not a collar. My dog has never worn a collar, only a harness (with an ID tag) when out for a walk. I heard a few stories of dogs being hung by their collar shortly before we got her and it scared me. It does mean if she escapes from the house she has no tag on.

HangingOver · 24/06/2025 08:06

LadyGrillingSole · 23/06/2025 22:10

Our window cleaners left our back gate wide open once - greyhounds turned into the littlest hobos and fucked off up the street 😩

The phone rang and a friendly neighbour had them ( getting loads of fuss and looking smug ) so no harm done, apart from the heart palpitations, feeling faint and general panic 😧

Took years off my life. I'm paranoid about them now, ninjas couldn't get those hounds out of the garden without me knowing about it 😬

Urrrgh my rescue got out in the first could of weeks that we had him because the canny fucker worked out how to open the gate latch with his nose. He only got over the road before someone caught him and rang me but I was distraught. Makes your blood run cold.

BobbleHatsRule · 24/06/2025 08:00

Irresponsible owners sometimes. If it's the same dog repeatedly they are not taking sensible steps to stop it. Fence your back garden. Put a stair gate or shut door to stop dog reaching the front door. Train (gasp ...yes that) your dog.

despite all these you will have stray dogs BUT it shouldn't be as common as it is. Nor should it be these same dog repeatedly and without a collar or microchip up to date with contact details

Avantiagain · 24/06/2025 07:43

I see Facebook posts claiming a dog scaled a backyard wall to get out when in reality someone left the gate open.

DoNotIron · 24/06/2025 07:38

There is a beautiful Old English Sheepdog near us that is always wandering about our area. I had to slam on my brakes yesterday when he decided to amble across the road right in front of me. No point in mentioning it on Facebook as all you get is ‘Oh that’s Fido. He lives on Doggone Road. He’s always escaping. Don’t worry, he’ll find his way home lol’.

LOL? Not too much of that when he finds his way home on the bonnet of someone’s Vauxhall Corsa. I drive slowly in residential areas, but there are plenty who absolutely bomb it down the steep hill. It’s only a matter of time for that poor dog. Surely it’s not beyond the wit of man to make the garden more secure.

cheesycheesy · 24/06/2025 07:35

Useless lazy owners who aren’t training or looking after their dogs properly

Sharptonguedwoman · 24/06/2025 07:33

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 23/06/2025 21:40

A lot of dogs present as having ADHD. All keen to be a good boy, until they see a squirrel and forget everything. (I’m aware ADHD is far more complicated than this, before anyone gets offended, my DD appears to have it). My dog is small and black and can sneak past your ankles in the dark if you open the door for any reason. I don’t know if she’s got better at not doing it or we’ve got better at preventing it. Thankfully we always got her back because she’d just run up to the first person she saw excitedly wagging her tail and begging for cuddles. She’s never made it more than a few doors down. Elderly dogs can also get confused and wander off, that seems to be a common cause of escapee dogs where I live. Also the one whose owner recently died and seems to have gone a bit unsettled, which is sad.

I had one of those. Absolutely fine 95% of the time but deer/rabbit/squirrel and he was gone. Lots and lots and lots of training, just couldn't contain himself.

TheNightingalesStarling · 24/06/2025 07:29

My neighbour kept losing her dog, or having it returned to her. She couldn't work out how it was escaping.

Turned out the dog had worked out how to open the front door and leap over the garden gate.

Sharptonguedwoman · 24/06/2025 07:22

GuppytheCat · 23/06/2025 21:55

And who are all these people picking up random dogs and bringing them into their house?

Us, for a bizarre spell a couple of years ago. Lurchers, a schnauzer, a giant hairy thing like a mobile sofa, a black lab that wombled amiably into our kitchen and scoffed the cat food...

I can only assumed we smell of ham.

Need the laughing emoji again!

Tiredofwhataboutery · 24/06/2025 07:12

Ohrightyho · 24/06/2025 06:49

My mum says that when she was a child dogs just roamed around. And presumably took themselves back home for dinner. So why can’t this generation of dogs find their was back home when they get out the front door?

Edit: not and never have been a dog owner…

Edited

There was a local dog who used to get the bus and check out pubs for his errant owner who regularly stopped for a quick one and failed to make it home for tea.

There were dogs roaming around (80s) when I was a child. We lived in flats so folk would put them out the stair door and they’d come back in a few hours and bark to be let in. Not everyone but a few, there was a big white one who was really intimidating so you’d have to walk the long way round.

I don’t think anyone was ever bitten though. I think there’s lots more cars, Also dogs are less likely to be walked from home. Lots of folk put them in garden and drive somewhere nice for a proper walk.

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 24/06/2025 07:07

This is where having a limpet dog is a good thing, yesterday I realised the back gate had been left open but my dog was (as always) sat by my feet.

I can’t imagine he’d ever willingly wander off as he would be too worried about losing us!

MoominUnderWater · 24/06/2025 07:02

soupyspoon · 24/06/2025 06:59

I very rarely see a trained dog these days.

I think this must be true. My dog is very well trained and every single walk other people comment on it so I think she must stand out. I think I have an old fashioned view of how I expect a dog to behave 😆

Bryonyberries · 24/06/2025 07:01

My dad’s dog is a nightmare. She is a proper escape artist. She will work on any tiny gap to get out and wander. She’s a German shepherd so not a small dog. My dogs garden is like a prison camp now. The wooden fences are all reinforced by wire fences! If she visits us she has to stay on a long line lead to stop her finding a gap and vanishing.

She is friendly, just loves to explore.

Pricelessadvice · 24/06/2025 07:00

Poor recall. So when an off lead dog gets distracted, the owner has no chance of getting it back.

soupyspoon · 24/06/2025 06:59

I very rarely see a trained dog these days.

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