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To find it strange to hang a fake flower wreath on your front door at the height of summer

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Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 18:51

I have seen quite a few of these recently, in houses with actual front gardens.
It's the height of the flowering season, real flowers are everywhere, why on earth does a door need a fake flower wreath in summer?

I hate fake winter wreaths at Christmas but at least I can understand it more then, with bare gardens and trees and with it being more traditional to have a wreath at that time of year. Sometimes I make my own out of real foliage etc then or sometimes I don't bother with one.

A couple of people near me have had a fake flower one up since before Easter, surely they get dirty, dusty and faded, as well as looking generally crap.
It's a very strange thing.

Edited to say I accidentally appeared to have added a poll, did not intend to do that.

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SunnySideDeepDown · 24/06/2025 06:31

Why are you so judgemental?

screwyou · 24/06/2025 06:31

GranolaDisco · 23/06/2025 22:12

One of my neighbours does this. They have a lovely house with nice plants out front, but always have a huge seasonal artificial wreath on their door - autumnal, Halloween, Christmas, white wintery one, Easter etc. currently a summer flowers one,

They’re tacky in my opinion, but they obviously get pleasure from them, so each to their own,

Judgy much?!

Brownbearwhitebear · 24/06/2025 06:30

I think you do understand it OP but it’s a very MN thing to post sounding faux confused when what you actually mean is - they’re really tacky and for people who are poorer/lower class than me.

I don’t like fake flowers much but it’s not hard to understand why people might - lots of reasons given above. I do like a bit of seasonal decorating though, life’s tough for a lot of people so if a cheerful wreath on the door makes it a bit nicer what’s the harm?

I had a mini eggs one for Easter, wouldnt have made any sense for that not to be fake.

LittleWhiteFlowers · 24/06/2025 06:15

We get it OP, you are just a much more tasteful person than us plastic wreath hanging paupers.
Obviously the only reason we don't hang a fresh flower wreath, carefully curated from flowers grown in our one acre garden is because we lack the vision to design and make our own every two days, it has absolutely nothing to do with the fact we are working 40 hours a week to keep body and soul together and my one acre garden is a tiny back yard.....
Perhaps I should just accept that pretty wreaths are only for those with the means to have fresh flowers every few days, whilst I'm at it I have a few vases of fake flowers inside too. I am going to immediately put them all in a bin liner and send them straight to landfill so no-one has to look at the atrocities.

Ursulla · 24/06/2025 01:24

It's dealer code for heroin.

mathanxiety · 24/06/2025 01:20

Do you prefer wreaths composed of dead, wilted blooms?

OneBlossomBee · 24/06/2025 00:10

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 18:51

I have seen quite a few of these recently, in houses with actual front gardens.
It's the height of the flowering season, real flowers are everywhere, why on earth does a door need a fake flower wreath in summer?

I hate fake winter wreaths at Christmas but at least I can understand it more then, with bare gardens and trees and with it being more traditional to have a wreath at that time of year. Sometimes I make my own out of real foliage etc then or sometimes I don't bother with one.

A couple of people near me have had a fake flower one up since before Easter, surely they get dirty, dusty and faded, as well as looking generally crap.
It's a very strange thing.

Edited to say I accidentally appeared to have added a poll, did not intend to do that.

Of allthe things in life to find strange THIS iswhat occupies your mind. I must say, there's some bizarre irks posted about on here or people get heated over pretty innocuous things, but this is hilarious. You have too much time on your hands if this annoys you. You don't need to stare at them and people like different decorations, colours, styles etc which adds to the variety of life. Get on with your day and let others hang one on THEIR door.

hotforcertainties · 24/06/2025 00:09

Oh god OP have you seen the explosion of restaurants in London (and possibly elsewhere) that are head to toe with fake flowers on the outside? Absolutely hideous. Seems to be a trend even in some posh bits like Chelsea and Mayfair. Just why.

ReproachfulOwl · 24/06/2025 00:05

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:32

The fact that there are loads of real flowers around seems to me to be relevant as it makes having additional plastic flowers on the door extraneous and jarring.
I do have 3 holly trees in fact, and as I said, I do sometimes make a real Christmas wreath. But at that time of year gardens are pretty bare and the weather is gloomy, so it can be nice to have something festive outside.
But in summer, where there's real floral abundance everywhere, a plastic door wreath doesn't seem to make anything look nicer or better, in my opinion.

Have you never looked at some gardens? Concreted over for parking, or fake grass. The same ‘floral abundance’ in December as in June.

SamkaSabrinka · 23/06/2025 23:54

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:11

Do you have a summer one with fake flowers? I'm just curious why anyone would want to put one on their door in the summer, as we are surrounded by real flowers at this time of year, so why the need for the additional fake floral one on the door too?

sorry but this just seems so mean, and to start an actual thread about it. ?

Obviously the people who do it think it's lovely, cheery, bright. They feel they are adorning and loving their home in a way that will endure (would need two fresh wreaths a week in the summer if not 'fake'!)

What do you want us to say? Yes what a lot of skank losers? Fake flowers are so naff, and why would they put up plastic flowers when all our borders are bursting wtih real roses?

Some people don't have gardens, or flowers.
Some come from a culture where fake flowers are a sign of caring and decorating your home. (eg in countries full of flowers, like Greece and Spain!)
Some people do this and think passers by will think oh how lovely.

That's my advice. Just because it's not your taste, doesn't mean it isn't valid and I think it's unkind to disrespect it, and be 'superior'.

TheWibble · 23/06/2025 23:49

I have a fake floral summer wreath on my front door. For me it brightens up the front of my house, and adds a bit of interest. I've only git a tarmac driveway, so no front garden. Also, the front of my house is north facing, so anuthing i've tried to grow in posts over the years hasn't fared very well. I'd prefer a real wreath, but they need refreshing and my finances don't stretch to that, and i dont have the time to be faffing. The faux wreath is a happy compromise, and it pleases me.

Lonelylonelylonely · 23/06/2025 23:47

Also, if other people are bothered by the decor in or around my home, they are not my people.

I'm a single mum, well-educated but financially ruined after a difficult divorce.

I feel lucky to be in the position I'm in (solvent, home with a very small mortgage). I could aspire to better neighbourhoods where people looked down on anything they didn't see as "tasteful' but why would I?

If my neighbours want an artificial wreath on their door and that's the biggest of your worries, consider yourself very lucky indeed.

MyFavouriteDaughter · 23/06/2025 23:37

Oh dear, I am a Brit in the US and I have the following wreaths; Christmas ones (actually have at least 10 as I have them in windows with candles and on doors inside my house), a spring one, St Valentines day one, an Easter one, St Patricks day one, a summer one, fall one and Halloween. Some have fairy lights, others don’t. I also have decorations in my house for most of those occasions too but I do go crazy at Christmas. Makes me happy. Do I care that there are judgmental people in the UK that live differently to me and don’t like it, absolutely not.

FloofyKat · 23/06/2025 23:36

I like having a wreath on my door. Adds a splash of colour (all the doors around here are the same boring black) and it’s handy for directing delivery people / visitors. I have different ones for different times of the year. They bring me pleasure. They don’t mean I’m tacky or trashy. I started doing it because the door looked so plain after taking down my Christmas wreath. I didn’t get the idea from the Americans, Instagram or so-called influencers.

Jackreacherstrousers · 23/06/2025 23:29

My DM suffers with Alzheimer's, she recognises her front door, in the assisted living community, because of the fake summer flower wreath on it. She loves it, so whether mumsnet consider them tacky or not I love it too for the little bit of comfort it offers her knowing she has the right door.

It also matches the fake flowers we've decorated her bacony with, which she delights in, but she would forget to water real plants

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To find it strange to hang a fake flower wreath on your front door at the height of summer
whostheshithead · 23/06/2025 23:28

Well it's just nice innit.

I think it's weirder to be offended by a wreath tbh.

fount · 23/06/2025 23:26

🙄
People (usually) do it because they like the way it looks or at least prefer it to a blank door. Not much more mysterious or complicated than that. I don't bother, but I've known people who do, and they're just regular people. 😉Depending on the quality of the fake flowers used, some look okay to me. I must be dreadfully common...

Lonelylonelylonely · 23/06/2025 23:26

What's the problem, OP? As others have said, different people have different tastes. They are not exactly fly-tipping in the front lawn and making it look unsightly.

Just because you don't like them, doesn't mean other people don't, just as if you'd go into their homes you may not like their decor.

Are you implying that people with wreaths (as an aside I don't have one, but I couldn't care less if others do) are of a lower social standing than you and therefore don't have as much taste?

Isn't this just any other trend like "Live Love Laugh" or twiggy and pebbly shit was a few years ago.

Kendodd · 23/06/2025 23:26

TinyTempest · 23/06/2025 23:14

What do you mean 'thinking' behind it?

It's just an ornament.

You either like them or you don't.

I personally don't, but I'm not daft enough to think there's any kind of deep and meaningful reason why others do.

Well this sum it up, you have your answer OP, it's just an ornament. Some people just like hanging cheap plastic shite from China on their doors.

FromTheFirstOldFashionedWeWereCursed · 23/06/2025 23:22

Mine is there to hide a massive scratch mark made by the previous owners. I'd swap the door but we're in a conservation area and it's stupidly expensive. I hate it too, if that's any help.

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 23:22

Kendodd · 23/06/2025 23:11

Fake plastic flowers/grass looks terrible! Those ball shaped plastic hanging things at the sides of doors where hanging baskets used to be, with plastic leaf and flowers, they've got to be the ugliest things though. What even are they?

Those are the fake box balls. No idea how they originated as no real box ball is ever hung up and dangled from a chain.

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OntheBorder1 · 23/06/2025 23:20

Christmas wreaths are generally made from plants which are around at that time of year, so if an artificial one is okay then why is an artificial summer one not okay?

Presumably people don't want to have to keep replacing the real flowers when they die.

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 23:18

Foreverm0re · 23/06/2025 23:14

Yawn. It’s totally an American thing though, it doesn’t matter where it originated. Do the Greeks still adorn their doors with tat for every single season or occasion? Spring, autumn, Easter, Halloween? Doubt it.

I doubt it too. The ancient Greeks and Romans viewed wreaths as symbolic, they were worn on certain specific occasions or to bring about good luck at specific times, they weren't randomly hung on doors all year round.

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TaggieO · 23/06/2025 23:17

My child has profound special needs and he loved our Christmas one so much I let him have one up all the time. If people like you don’t like it, I frankly couldn’t give two fucks because he does like it.

TinyTempest · 23/06/2025 23:14

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 23:12

Of course I understand that different people like different things.
I simply wanted to find out the thinking behind the plastic summer wreaths or fake box balls as no one in my circle of friends and family has anything other than a real wreath at Christmas, if they have one at all. No one I know has fake flowers inside either.
I asked on mumsnet because I knew that there is a huge cross section of people on here, many with very different lifestyles to mine.

What do you mean 'thinking' behind it?

It's just an ornament.

You either like them or you don't.

I personally don't, but I'm not daft enough to think there's any kind of deep and meaningful reason why others do.

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