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AIBU?

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Bonnie Blue

184 replies

Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 14:14

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

OP posts:
Dangermoo · 22/06/2025 14:28

MyUmberSeal · 22/06/2025 14:17

I think she’s scuzzy and scummy as fuck. And so are the men that sleep with her. Both as bad as each other. YABU, she’s not a victim.

💯 YABU OP

Toottooot · 22/06/2025 14:24

Of course it’s always the men’s fault - not this excuse of a woman - she’s far fae blameless.

Jennps · 22/06/2025 14:21

MyUmberSeal · 22/06/2025 14:17

I think she’s scuzzy and scummy as fuck. And so are the men that sleep with her. Both as bad as each other. YABU, she’s not a victim.

Honestly, can you imagine associating with someone like that. Just being in proximity of her would make you want to go take a shower.

Changes100 · 22/06/2025 14:20

Yet another thread about this woman!

Why give her the publicity?

Why this obsession with someone who isn't worth any head space at all.

x2boys · 22/06/2025 14:20

Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 14:14

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

Well its both really isn't it they wouldn't be able to sleep with her if she didn't allow it and she wouldn't be able to sleep with them if they didn't turn up
It's not a good look either way.

Jennps · 22/06/2025 14:19

No she is responsible for her own behaviour.

I know that’s quite a novel idea, you know actually being held to account for your own behaviour, but sometimes, just sometimes, it’s helpful to not try and blame your parents, teachers, neighbours, society, your cat, for your behaviour.

She is no victim, nor is she some kind of role model for emancipation, as made out in these quarters. So much for feminism, eh?

smallglassbottle · 22/06/2025 14:18

It's six of one, half dozen of the other if you ask me. The whole lot of them are like a bunch of feral street cats.

MyUmberSeal · 22/06/2025 14:17

I think she’s scuzzy and scummy as fuck. And so are the men that sleep with her. Both as bad as each other. YABU, she’s not a victim.

temperedolive · 22/06/2025 14:16

I would have no idea who this woman is if there weren't constant posts here about her.

Does she buy ad space on MN?