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Bonnie Blue

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Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 14:14

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

OP posts:
CranfordScones · 22/06/2025 16:18

She's the unclassy consequence of emancipation.

But you either believe: Her body, her choice, or you don't. And the same goes for the men...

IsThisOkorWhat · 22/06/2025 16:09

Surely she must be spreading sexual health diseases everywhere and the men of course
but this is such a health hazard

CurlyhairedAssassin · 22/06/2025 16:07

DeSoleil · 22/06/2025 16:02

Don’t be silly, she is motivated by earn g lots of money and will do anything to get it and is aided and abetted by her financial adviser who is also her mother.

She is the last person on earth who is being used!

She is using men to get money.

Her "financial adviser" is her own mother......? Sounds more like a pimp or madam to me.

DeSoleil · 22/06/2025 16:02

Don’t be silly, she is motivated by earn g lots of money and will do anything to get it and is aided and abetted by her financial adviser who is also her mother.

She is the last person on earth who is being used!

She is using men to get money.

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 16:00

KimberleyClark · 22/06/2025 15:51

Does anyone really think that her fake vagina would be able to stand up to all that activity if she was trans?

I think it could be seen as quite the version of dilation trans women have to do to keep their opening open.

daisychain01 · 22/06/2025 15:58

I don't have a clue who this woman is but she attracts pondlife. That isn't the total population of the male of the species, it's just the significant minority scum. And she is far from the norm as far as the female of the species is concerned.

shes welcome to them. They are welcome to her.

sad that a young woman has set her sights so low.

PopThatBench · 22/06/2025 15:54

She’s scum. The men who turn up to have a go are scum.
Each are responsible for their own scumminess.
She isn’t holding “fuck me” events just because there’s a market for it, because otherwise, all women would be holding similar events. She’s holding those events because she’s scum.
The husbands and teenage sons are no better and are to hold themselves accountable.

Insanityisnotastrategy · 22/06/2025 15:53

It's both. Both she and the men involved are equally vile.

Daisychain88 · 22/06/2025 15:53

They're both accountable in this situation. They're all adults & all know what they're doing. The only difference is she gains money from it & obviously men are paying her for a service. Just like prostitution really but on a high scale.

ChompandaGrazia · 22/06/2025 15:52

EdenFromTheEast · 22/06/2025 14:34

There are rumours on X that they used to be a man and someone has posted a picture of her (him) from before their transition.

Well I hope her surgeon did a good job as his work is getting quite a battering. Or that’s simply not true.

KimberleyClark · 22/06/2025 15:51

Coolasfeck · 22/06/2025 15:25

I would not at all be surprised at all if it turns out Bonnie is trans.

Does anyone really think that her fake vagina would be able to stand up to all that activity if she was trans?

Katemax82 · 22/06/2025 15:49

A bit of both? Supply and demand and all that bollox

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 15:47

I feel sorry for her ex/separated husband. Who’s name and face has been dragged though the media for being with her previously.

Who’d want to end up in the paper because their estranged husband or wife shagged 2,000 people in a day or wanted to do a “petting zoo”

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 22/06/2025 15:47

I disagree with the notion of a single woman being a home wrecker. Men who cheat are solely responsible for their own behaviour, and if it wasn’t with her it would be with someone else, they wreck their own homes. Though I do think it’s morally wrong to sleep with someone you know isn’t single. While in principle I can’t come up with anything wrong with whatever she’s up to with other consenting adults and profiting from it by filming it, I find it very difficult to understand. I do wonder if she has mental health issues.

partyboat356 · 22/06/2025 15:45

You could equally say "if SHE is enabling the behaviour of thousands of men then SHE is the problem and not them."

She has to take some responsibility, surely? I only found out she existed a few days ago and barely know anything about her but it's pretty clear what she's known for and it's a two-way street. Literally.

ColinOfficeTrolley · 22/06/2025 15:44

So much for feminism, eh?

I'm a feminist who doesn't believe sex work is empowering or helpful to the cause at all. For 1 Bonnie Blue, there are 1000s of women coerced, trafficked and forced into sex work by men who treat them as objects, or through some trauma. People like Bonnie Blue reinforce the fact that men using women's bodies is fine.

Whilst I think Bonnie Blue is an absolute disgrace with regards to the way she speaks about women and allows men to treat her body as a massive wank sock, I also think the men who are involved in this sordid farce and also to blame.

As someone previously said, 6 of one half a dozen of the other.

TheaBrandt1 · 22/06/2025 15:39

It really doesn’t seem like much fun for anyone involved. They need new and better hobbies. Hockey? Netball? Anything but that really!

TheaBrandt1 · 22/06/2025 15:37

Why are these grim people in my face?! Rutting like dogs in the street. I have no wish to know about their gross gang bangs 🤮. Why start a thread on it op!?

CalicoPusscat · 22/06/2025 15:36

Toottooot · 22/06/2025 15:33

She needs no protection - she actively chooses this and is not some vulnerable little quine.

Are you Scottish? Haven't heard that from anyone except Scot friend.

I just mean I wouldn't like any of my female friends to do this and I don't understand the thought process or detachment.

Goodlorditssummer · 22/06/2025 15:34

I was appalled at the queue of men waiting for their “turn”. My nail tech, quite unprovoked, decided to show it to me 🤮🤮🤮 God almighty, it’s vile. I cannot get my head around why either they or she would want to do this? It’s not a path I would take for myself and I wouldn’t ever entertain a man who thought that doing that was ok. But then I am sure a lot of those men involved had wives and gfs who had no idea? It’s rank.
And if you reverse the genders? There is absolutely no way there would be a queue of thousands of women waiting to shag some pornstar.

Toottooot · 22/06/2025 15:33

CalicoPusscat · 22/06/2025 15:20

I wouldn't go that far but I can't pretend I understand what she's doing.

It would be anathema to me. But at the same time I think the men are horrible and she should be protected.

She needs no protection - she actively chooses this and is not some vulnerable little quine.

BeamMeUpCountMeIn · 22/06/2025 15:29

milo I read on tattle (yes, I know) that she'd been kicked off OF for going too far for even them.

I am not googling her and OF to check, heaven knows what results I'll get.

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 15:28

She’s scuzzy and so are the men who want to sleep with her.

This isn’t even mutual fun porn at this point say Rebecca. Who seems to spread the good the bad and ugly and even talks about the regular testing she pays private not nhs before any moaning and such.

This is shock value what can I do that’s more and more and more. OF closed her account I believe. Men think it’s a brag to sleep with someone who would sleep with genuinely anyone it’s pathetic.

She’s like the naughty kid always trying to one up. Or the guy at the pub who if your mate caught a 20lb fish next week he caught a 50lb and you mum danced with Danny dyer but his mum shagged him type. My TVs 60inches, well I’ve got the new not released yet too Secret 75” glass tv with retina control types.

Coolasfeck · 22/06/2025 15:25

EdenFromTheEast · 22/06/2025 14:34

There are rumours on X that they used to be a man and someone has posted a picture of her (him) from before their transition.

I would not at all be surprised at all if it turns out Bonnie is trans.

BloodandGlitter · 22/06/2025 15:23

EdenFromTheEast · 22/06/2025 14:34

There are rumours on X that they used to be a man and someone has posted a picture of her (him) from before their transition.

Anything to put the blame on men or transpeople on this website sometimes.

She's responsible for her own actions, sometimes women aren't perfect examples of kindness and purity. She may be hypersexual, she may have been abused or she might just get off on what she does.