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Bonnie Blue

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Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 14:14

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

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Dappy777 · 22/06/2025 20:06

I despise them all. She's posing as some sort of feminist hero, when in reality she's a cold, manipulative little monster out to make money. That's the only thing she's really interested in – money, money, money.

Sundaymorningcalla · 22/06/2025 19:44

Why would 2000 blokes at once lead to a prolapse? No different to having sex for hours with the same bloke....

Sundaymorningcalla · 22/06/2025 19:43

You are a contributor to her success, she relies on shock factor and folk talking about her.

Bravo. Clever woman, great business acumen.

PracticallyIncompetentInEveryWay · 22/06/2025 19:34

One of the things that bothers me most it that she is alllll over social media, podcasts, forums. No certification, any one with a Facebook account will have her reels popping up. So not only do kids have access to it, but it becoming steadily normalised. I'm sure it could happen, but at the moment I can't imagine a man degrading himself like this. Only fans, stunts like this, they are not empowering to women. People who think they are (mainly young women) must have men thinking we are all bloody idiots, and they are having a right laugh. The whole thing is a perverse side show. It's dangerous, she's dangerous, she should be assessed and hospitalised, if not for her mental health then for the almighty vaginal and anal prolapse, she is sure to soon suffer. Oh and she can take her 2000 with her.....sorry for the illiterate rant.

Vaxtable · 22/06/2025 18:08

She is to blame, end of discussion.

Jerrypicker · 22/06/2025 18:08

Gardenbumblebee · 22/06/2025 17:22

I find her fascinating in a way. She's from a naice, middle class family and grew up wanting for nothing. I really think she has a personality disorder as she's completely dead behind the eyes and the rage baiting is next level. Watching her in interviews is like watching an AI robot saying the most outrageous things it can think of.

It's estimated she makes around half a million a month on Only Fans. I've struggled my entire life and grew up poor but I couldn't do what she does even for twice the amount she makes. She has literally sold her soul for what? Fame, money? She could have got those with 'regular' pornographic content as she's very beautiful. I imagine she'll be studied after the inevitable downfall.

She doesn’t have a personality disorder. Some women are born sluts. Fact. It’s in their nature. It is such a strong driving force in them that nothing and no one can influence them or change them for the better. It’s literally part of their personality. They come from a wide variety of socioeconomic backgrounds and family set-ups. It has absolutely nothing to do with their background, it’s a personality trait.

JMSA · 22/06/2025 18:06

I find it thoroughly depressing that my teenage daughters even know who she is and what she’s famous for.
Women like her should never appear on their radar.

EwwwwwwDavid · 22/06/2025 18:00

I just wonder how many women would turn up if it were a man doing what BB is doing

I suspect not that many

Bbq1 · 22/06/2025 17:54

What a disgusting woman, just vile. I This is on her, it's her choice but the men are absolutely beyond disgusting too. What kind of men must they be, queuing up to shag that utter pos one after the other 🤮🤮🤮 It's sad that people like lthis excuse for a woman is getting attention for prostituting herself for free.

Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 17:43

JustPinkFinch · 22/06/2025 15:18

So Bonnie Blue is making men think women are just 'holes'? Are we really giving men that pass? Holding them to such a low standard - unable to figure out for themselves what is right and what is wrong?

Our pressing problem is not really BB. It's the men - otherwise usually found mingling among our daughters, sisters, friends - yet turning up to something like this with their identities hidden. Unable to partake without the protection of anonymity, as it will expose them as sexual predators.

Yes!!!!!!!!

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Gardenbumblebee · 22/06/2025 17:22

I find her fascinating in a way. She's from a naice, middle class family and grew up wanting for nothing. I really think she has a personality disorder as she's completely dead behind the eyes and the rage baiting is next level. Watching her in interviews is like watching an AI robot saying the most outrageous things it can think of.

It's estimated she makes around half a million a month on Only Fans. I've struggled my entire life and grew up poor but I couldn't do what she does even for twice the amount she makes. She has literally sold her soul for what? Fame, money? She could have got those with 'regular' pornographic content as she's very beautiful. I imagine she'll be studied after the inevitable downfall.

LlynTegid · 22/06/2025 17:17

Both the men and Bonnie Blue are to blame.

The person who referred to the men as pond life are being too kind to them- at least pond life has a valuable purpose.

Sadcafe · 22/06/2025 17:02

As a male I can honestly say I wouldn’t touch her with a proverbial barge pole, let alone any other bit of my body. The men clearly have zero respect for her or themselves but neither does she, a very sad , damaged young woman

Dangermoo · 22/06/2025 17:00

KimberleyClark · 22/06/2025 15:51

Does anyone really think that her fake vagina would be able to stand up to all that activity if she was trans?

🤢

Siriusmuggle · 22/06/2025 16:58

It’s both. She’s a grim minger with no morals who’s dim enough to think she’d empowered because she’s made so much money from it.
She isn’t trans, I know this because I’ve met family members years ago and her family’s Facebook history proves it.
Also brains don’t run in the family, again I have this first hand. A very close family member is thicker than pigshit and is dimmer than Bonnie herself.

Ponoka7 · 22/06/2025 16:47

We see sex workers as vulnerable and usually victims, it's the men using their services that we hold criminally responsible. So initially, I'd say the problem is them. However there is a grey area. I do believe that she isn't fully mentally well and like with the last ten years of Katie Price, or Kerry Katona, Britney Spears, we are seeing what being unstable looks like.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 22/06/2025 16:43

CranfordScones · 22/06/2025 16:18

She's the unclassy consequence of emancipation.

But you either believe: Her body, her choice, or you don't. And the same goes for the men...

If she IS mentally unstable, or been pushed into it by a traumatic background or parents just wanting to make money out of her, or drugs or whatever else, then it ISN'T a choice at all. I don't believe she's actually having fun while doing that. Even if she states NOW that it's fully her choice, and that she is mentally stable, I expect that in the future she will have a breakdown when it all hits her and she realises that there is no changing what she's done and is full of regrets.

The question is, should society try to intervene in people making poor choices likely to impact their future mental health.

cyvguhb · 22/06/2025 16:42

@Horseygirl95 can you explain how the argument settling process is going to work?

I often see posts that start like this and I cant imagine either side every goes, oh yeah, I'm totally changing my mind now that a few internet randoms have disagreed with me

Id love to know what you and your friend have agreed

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:41

purpleygrey · 22/06/2025 16:35

Tied up in a box for a few hours and men can do what ever they want to her.

Oh Dear Christ….I knew I shouldn’t have asked😮

cyvguhb · 22/06/2025 16:38

Jennps · 22/06/2025 14:38

That would make a lot of sense

In what way, it's a totally stupid rumour, I know from the various other threads on here and other places I've read that she has had a low key online presence since she was a child due to her hobby. Its an insane suggestion

purpleygrey · 22/06/2025 16:35

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:31

Petting Zoo?? What on earth does that involve??

Tied up in a box for a few hours and men can do what ever they want to her.

purpleygrey · 22/06/2025 16:34

I think she’s equally as vile as the men that queue up for her.

I think her attitude to ‘barely legal’ if fucking abhorrent.

Minecroft · 22/06/2025 16:34

smallglassbottle · 22/06/2025 14:18

It's six of one, half dozen of the other if you ask me. The whole lot of them are like a bunch of feral street cats.

I agree. They are all gross.

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 16:32

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:31

Petting Zoo?? What on earth does that involve??

I’m not 100% sure I’ve not googled it. I darent. But it’s what got OF to shut her down.

At a random guess she would be in a cage or some such and men could do what they want though the bars 🤷🏻‍♀️

edit. Or maybe just a free for all like an actual petting zoo where 20/30 people are in a fenced area and they again just go for it. Who knows with her mind

ItsyBitsyTeenyWeenyApron · 22/06/2025 16:31

UndermyShoeJoe · 22/06/2025 15:47

I feel sorry for her ex/separated husband. Who’s name and face has been dragged though the media for being with her previously.

Who’d want to end up in the paper because their estranged husband or wife shagged 2,000 people in a day or wanted to do a “petting zoo”

Petting Zoo?? What on earth does that involve??