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Bonnie Blue

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Horseygirl95 · 22/06/2025 14:14

Settle this debate between me and my friend please!

AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??

She gets so much stick and backlash, but the way I see it, is that she wouldn't be able to do what she does if it wasn't for the THOUSANDS (at least) of men who pay for her content and turn up to her events.

She wouldn't be able to sleep with people's husbands and teenage sons if the men in question didn't turn up or engage with her!!
My friend thinks no, she's the one putting herself out there in this way and giving the men the opportunity, so she is the homewrecker.

So AIBU to think its actually the men that are the problem here??

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TuttiFruittiSweets · 25/06/2025 12:15

Jerrypicker · 25/06/2025 09:49

No point arguing with a stubborn idiot. You read whatever you want into whatever you want. I don’t care.

You are the idiot! Read your own posts.

OrangePineapple25 · 25/06/2025 10:35

I think it’s strange to feel sorry for her. I know money isn’t everything but she’s controlling her narrative, in control of all her actions and is now filthy rich. From a quick google she’s apparently now worth £43m so she could stop tomorrow and never work again.

Conversely most, or should I say many, sex workers are vulnerable women, trafficked and kept hostage, addicts, with awful traumatic pasts and presents.

I know it’s not a race to the bottom but I have no pity for Bonnie who’s gone out and made her own choices. I pity the women who aren’t. That doesn’t mean I like her, or hate her. I feel indifferent.

oldwhyno · 25/06/2025 10:17

It takes two (or more) to tango

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 25/06/2025 10:13

"Some women are born sluts" is a bizarre and moronic thing to say. Fact.

Jerrypicker · 25/06/2025 10:03

EnhancedVampireEyeballs · 25/06/2025 09:52

Yeah, agree with this, @Jerrypicker. You literally said, verbatim

"Some women are born sluts. Fact".

So if some women are born sluts, you must be able to look at an infant or toddler and think "there's a born slut".

Hideous language from you. You ought to be disgusted with yourself.

“You ought to be disgusted with yourself”
😆
No Miss, save your preaching for the classroom.
I’m laughing at your pearl-clutching 😆
It’s not my fault you are reading your own translation into what I wrote.

3luckystars · 25/06/2025 09:57

I think the men using her are DEPRAVED.

Separately, I think she has lost her way and feel sorry for her.

whitewineandsun · 25/06/2025 09:54

ohyesido · 22/06/2025 14:39

I think she’s a silly girl who has no idea of how significantly this is going to affect her life on the long run

Probably. Doesn't mean she shouldn't be expected to take responsibility for her own actions.

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/06/2025 09:52

MyUmberSeal · 22/06/2025 14:17

I think she’s scuzzy and scummy as fuck. And so are the men that sleep with her. Both as bad as each other. YABU, she’s not a victim.

This

EnhancedVampireEyeballs · 25/06/2025 09:52

TuttiFruittiSweets · 25/06/2025 05:46

You are the one being ‘daft’. It was you that said “Some women are born sluts. Fact. It’s in their nature. It is such a strong driving force in them that nothing and no one can influence them or change them for the better.”

Change your name to JerrySpringer. It would suit you better.

Yeah, agree with this, @Jerrypicker. You literally said, verbatim

"Some women are born sluts. Fact".

So if some women are born sluts, you must be able to look at an infant or toddler and think "there's a born slut".

Hideous language from you. You ought to be disgusted with yourself.

Jerrypicker · 25/06/2025 09:49

TuttiFruittiSweets · 25/06/2025 05:46

You are the one being ‘daft’. It was you that said “Some women are born sluts. Fact. It’s in their nature. It is such a strong driving force in them that nothing and no one can influence them or change them for the better.”

Change your name to JerrySpringer. It would suit you better.

No point arguing with a stubborn idiot. You read whatever you want into whatever you want. I don’t care.

TuttiFruittiSweets · 25/06/2025 05:46

Jerrypicker · 23/06/2025 08:32

Please stop being so daft. Of course you can’t tell it by looking at a baby! Are drunk or something?

You are the one being ‘daft’. It was you that said “Some women are born sluts. Fact. It’s in their nature. It is such a strong driving force in them that nothing and no one can influence them or change them for the better.”

Change your name to JerrySpringer. It would suit you better.

OrangePineapple25 · 24/06/2025 07:00

Galdownunder · 23/06/2025 21:45

She also claims to be 26. There's just no way. I'd add at least another 5 years on that. I think a great deal of it is hyperbole and bullshit.

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Yes I struggle to believe her age too. She’s definitely had plenty of Botox

Galdownunder · 23/06/2025 21:45

She also claims to be 26. There's just no way. I'd add at least another 5 years on that. I think a great deal of it is hyperbole and bullshit.

londongirl12 · 23/06/2025 19:03

Both her and the men are scum bags. Have you heard an interview with her? I lasted 1 minute before I had to turn it off. Shes an absolute tramp.

Vynalbob · 23/06/2025 19:01

Both

Oodlesof · 23/06/2025 19:00

Horseygirl95 · 23/06/2025 06:55

So when faced with a decision men can't be blamed for making a bad choice? Surely they should be able to say no 😅

Poor menz. Bonnie blue must be forcing them to shag her and buy her content is she?

I can see now why feminism is losing.

partyboat356 · 23/06/2025 18:58

They're all responsible for their own actions. She is. They are. They're all revolting.

Snorlaxo · 23/06/2025 18:39

If it wasn’t her, it would be somebody else.

I find it alarming that an OF model’s stunts make mainstream celebrity gossip. We used to hear about Katie Price but it wasn’t as graphic as BB stories. The stories of things like porta potty parties in Dubai are also things that I wish I didn’t know about. Crazy that there are women who are happy to be humiliated for a price and insane what the men do at the parties.

Both sides bear responsibility. BB chooses to be an OF model and the men choose to fuck her. It’s shocking that the men line up to stick their dick in places where other men have ejaculated 🤢 but maybe it’s about being able to tell other men that they’d cum in a celebrity?

LeaderBee · 23/06/2025 18:30

"AIBU to think it's the thousands of men enabling her behaviour that are the problem, not her??"

Your question is rooted in the premise that there IS a problem, first of all, what problem do you see?

soupyspoon · 23/06/2025 18:28

Im not sure its right to ascribe mental health disorders or personality disorders to someone just because they do things you dont agree with or feel they should do.

I cant possibly agree with what you're doing so I think you're mad?

Greenfields20 · 23/06/2025 15:10

Insanityisnotastrategy · 23/06/2025 14:49

Why do you think it's happening?

I dont know. Lots has changed in the way society acts or views things over time. Sex outside of marriage used to be frowned upon now its normal for example. Everything changes. Women have more control now than they ever have so I guess more and more think why not, I'll use this to my advantage.

UndermyShoeJoe · 23/06/2025 14:59

Thing is of course the men who take her up on the offer are the worse kind of men since they are the types who want their 20 seconds after the last 899. That’s not a normal man.

That doesn’t make her their victim, she’s inviting them inside her. Any man no checks. You are going to get the scum and a few chancers.

She’s an attention seeker. Any attention good or bad. It’s helping fund her life, most would go off and do the Dubai thing or normal porn but she wants the fame that goes with being this alter ego she’s playing.

She will just have to remember this was her choice when or if she decides she wants to settle down and maybe or maybe not have children one day. Her in-laws will of seen every inch of her, any normal job she try’s to get. This is who she has to be now forever.

Insanityisnotastrategy · 23/06/2025 14:49

Greenfields20 · 23/06/2025 13:31

Of course there are more men looking to buy the sex or buy the sexual photos or buy the used underwear. But if we wish society to change or wish it to move away from the path it seems to be going down then it's no use just trying to change men's views towards it. More and more women are getting involved in an industry that was once reserved for desperate women on street corners and surely we need to ask why, and why they think its acceptable to be part of the 'problem'.

Why do you think it's happening?

BeamMeUpCountMeIn · 23/06/2025 14:16

I doubt she's as rich as she would like everyone to believe. She won't be the first not very bright person to be exploited by a dodgy accountant and end up with a huge tax bill a couple of years down the line.

TheaBrandt1 · 23/06/2025 13:56

Just confirms my view that soooo many men are just beyond weird and utterly disgusting. There’s one or two girls like her but thousands of them queuing up in their little masks and even more watching online 🤮.

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