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To make life easy for myself this summer and keep youngest dc in childcare?

27 replies

cheeseandpasta · 21/06/2025 17:59

I am a teacher so have gone for term time only childcare. I had my first child January 2021, and so he started nursery just after Christmas 2022. First summer we had together was really nice. I had my DD August 2023, so for the last two weeks of term DH was on paternity leave anyway. Last year was really, really tough. I struggled a lot over the summer.

This year DS starts school and I’m considering switching DD to a year round contract. I just wonder genuinely what the point is in having a stressful and difficult summer when for three days a week she could continue going to nursery, and I can focus on DS a bit before he starts school.

The cost of it does make me feel bad but I also feel a bit mean. Wondering what others think.

OP posts:
SilviaSnuffleBum · 21/06/2025 18:06

Will you be able to have a decent amount of one to one time with your daughter, as seems a bit unfair to send her off 3 mornings a week just to be with your son?

MamaGarl85 · 21/06/2025 18:03

I think if you can afford it, go for it!