I'm a FTM to a 15 week old baby, I am absolutely loving it (despite previously being someone who wasn't keen on kids/babies). Both parents I don't think ever expected me to settle down and start a family so when I told them I was pregnant they were over the moon and maybe rather surprised.
When baby was born there was a tiny mark on his head which has turned out to be a strawberry mark. It's grown to around the size of a 5p and is about 0.5cm raised. A lot of people comment on it and to be honest I do find it a bit sad that it's the first thing people notice, not the lovely, happy baby attached to it!
Obviously my DP and DSP have seen DS multiple times throughout his 15 weeks and once the GP had checked it out and confirmed it was a strawberry mark, I let them all know. My DM & DSD haven't mentioned it since and absolutely dote on DS. My DF however keeps making comments and I can't tell if it's out of concern or that he is embarrassed by having a DGS with an obvious 'blemish'. The other day he messaged about it again, and stated that 'he'd like to pop it', I explained that it would hurt DS and there would be a huge amount of blood to which he explained he was 'only joking'. This has really hurt me, I was already a little worried about DS getting remarks when he starts nursery/pre school if it's still there at that point, but to have my own DF make such a horrible comment as an adult has really upset me.
DH sort of agrees but feels that people keep mentioning it out of concern - despite constant reassurance that it's totally normal and it's been seen by the HV, GPs and midwives multiple times.