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To ask who I’m supposed to report my CF neighbour to?

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BarkItOff · 20/06/2025 19:49

I live on a new build estate, it’s been up a few years now but the roads are still unadopted so it’s ‘technically’ private.

There is a park on the estate and there are 2 access points to this park. 1 at the entrance to the estate and 1 further down the estate close to a neighbouring estate.

One of the neighbours has put a sign up further down, stating private road, I mean technically yes but public access is still allowed but the CF has also put a chain and padlock on the gate to the path that leads to the park with a sign saying private!

I have been told this was because children from the neighbouring estate were using the park via this entrance and as we pay for the upkeep of the park it’s private. Except it’s not! It’s still a park able to be accessed by anyone. It’s made it particularly annoying for people on this side of the new build estate that have children as you have to walk all the way round to the front to get onto the park when there is literally a gate that leads to an access path right in front of you. And those of us that walk dogs there like to walk full circle, in one end and out the other and now we have to double back.

As the roads are unadopted will the council sort this and point out that she doesn’t own the park. The builders are long gone and we’re a nightmare to chase up snagging never mind anything else so they will be no help. The management company doesn’t want to know and say it’s not their responsibility. I’m tempted to go and cut the chain but I guess that’s criminal damage as she owns the chain.

OP posts:
kiwiane · 20/06/2025 20:00

Report to a local councillor

MimiSunshine · 20/06/2025 20:00

I’d cut the padlock off if I had the means and never tell a soul it was me. How would the neighbour ever know who it was?

itsgettingweird · 20/06/2025 19:57

DuckBee · 20/06/2025 19:50

I have a pair of fabulous bolt cutters :-)

My exact thought 😂

Frozo · 20/06/2025 19:54

As everyone else said, just remove it. Rinse and repeat

OhCalmTheFuckDownBarbara · 20/06/2025 19:54

Another vote for bolt cutters. I wouldn’t hesitate. And make the padlock disappear so she can’t re use it on another chain.

AgnesX · 20/06/2025 19:51

Bolt cutters are useful in the meantime. Surprised no one's thought of it before.

DuckBee · 20/06/2025 19:50

I have a pair of fabulous bolt cutters :-)