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Gothenthereareotherworldsthanthese · 20/06/2025 19:04

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0q2z725llo
If you are fool or vain enough to have weird stuff injected into your face why should the NHS be wasting money on this.
AIBU - Yes the NHS should be there for ABSOLUTLY every medical requirement.
YANBU - People like this should be charged for their treatment as it was self inflicted.

Nicola Fairly, a blonde woman in her 30s who is wearing a black vest and black sunglasses on her head. One side of her face is droopy which is a symptom of botulism. She has a tattoo on her left shoulder and is sitting on a sofa with cushions of differ...

Bishop Auckland mother among 28 'poisoned' by fake Botox

In recent weeks 28 cases of botulism caused by fake Botox are recorded in the north-east of England.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0q2z725llo

OP posts:
ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:55

@logicisall you could just debate the below rather than tagging me in pointless posts. I won't hold my breath though!

"It's a false equivalancy to claim that choosing cosmetic enhancements is the same as choosing to play sports."

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:51

@Onescoopofmashplease I meant private A&Es here.

I like the French system. I'm half French & have used it many times. But I think the idea we can move the NHS to a system like France and it's all good is crazy. We need to spend a lot more on healthcare for one.

MrsKateColumbo · 21/06/2025 09:51

Once you start to decide who is worthy of health care it will be the start of its dismantling.

What if she had it done for medical reasons? I pay £450 for it to be injected into my jaw muscles to stop me clenching at night which was giving me terrible headaches and wearing my teeth away. 0% cosmetic improvement but has helped my headaches enormously (and I don't think an NHS dentist would do this).

Saying that she was foolish to think £100 for 3 areas and then some free botox (!!) Would be a good idea. £450 is what my dentist charges for cosmetic injections too, which is pretty standard I think if you get it from an actual expert.

logicisall · 21/06/2025 09:49

@ittersbitters while the thread started with the newspaper article, the debate quite clearly expanded. Also, ad hominem attacks?

Bababear987 · 21/06/2025 09:47

Only if we do the same with smokers, drinkers, druggies, overweight, people who dont exercise, people who dont take their medication as prescribed.....

It's a very slippery slope. I have to say I'd not be opposed to people who are smoking or obese paying more taxes as they are costing a hell of a lot more money than the odd dodgy botox

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:47

Where did I say it was private health insurance as that term is understood in the UK? It isn’t. And I agree you have to look at the entire tax system!

You didn't, however once you remove the private insurance bit to help reduce additional costs I don't see that much distinction between NI here and Social Security there. Of course there are differences in how much is raised & what it is actually spent on hence my point about the whole tax system.

JustMyView13 · 21/06/2025 09:42

The problem with injectables is the lack of regulation and training. Anyone can do a 1 day course and become an injector. They should tighten the regulation, to ensure only qualified medical professionals carry out this kind of cosmetic work, which would in turn reduce the number of times it goes wrong, and therefore the burden on the NHS.

If you start refusing treatment for things like this, where do you stop? Sports players who break bones? Smokers with cancer? Alcoholics who need their stomachs pumped? Women who chose to get pregnant? There has to be a line drawn somewhere - how do you pick where?

Onescoopofmashplease · 21/06/2025 09:42

AbzMoz · 21/06/2025 09:01

Because the Londoner who earns £500k will have contributed £225k in tax (I had to look that up on a tax calculator, I am very very far off this as a personal experience, mores the pity!)

Of course they should get A&E care and whatever other NHS or public services the same as everyone else. The alternative for the £500k earner is presumably private a la America - and would you rather the two tier system of Medicaid and medical insurance extortion?

People always quote the American system as the only alternative and this is not the case at all; the USA system bears no relation whatsoever to what happens in many countries in some EU countries in which people without exception have obligatory medical insurance and the government regulates the not-for-profit insurance companies, very assiduously.

The insurance companies are based on Christian mutual society principles, they are not intended to create massive profits. And the drug companies are regulated too which means that the price of prescription drugs is often quite modest.

TheignT · 21/06/2025 09:42

JLou08 · 20/06/2025 23:39

Where do you draw the line? Drugs? Alcohol? Rugby injury? Injury from running? Obesity? Hiking accident?

Pregnancy?

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 21/06/2025 09:41

Yeah, lets just leave her to suffer, eh🙄

Onescoopofmashplease · 21/06/2025 09:37

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:03

Yes I stand by my post. It’s what happens in many countries in Europe and it works well.

Which countries? And there aren't really any private A&E departments so how does that work?

Luxembourg, Germany, Belgium and Switzerland.

What do you mean about private A&E; they take down your mandatory insurance number as you are wheeled in. All of your health history is immediately accessed on line within about 3 mins. It’s very efficient.

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:36

No, simply pointed out that you have moved your argument to a particular instance of an unknown substance being injected when I have been referring to botched botox in general.

Err the article linked in the OP is about fake botox...

Your gleeful response it like when the Americans declared victory in Vietnam....and then left.

This clearly sounded much better in your head 🤣🤣

Onescoopofmashplease · 21/06/2025 09:32

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:06

Everyone has obligatory health insurance and are reimbursed according to individual means.

Everybody in France doesn't have private health insurance. Plus you have to look at the whole tax system.

Where did I say it was private health insurance as that term is understood in the UK? It isn’t. And I agree you have to look at the entire tax system!

logicisall · 21/06/2025 09:31

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:26

You have moved from the general to the particular.

So you don't have an answer 👍🏾

No, simply pointed out that you have moved your argument to a particular instance of an unknown substance being injected when I have been referring to botched botox in general.

Your gleeful response it like when the Americans declared victory in Vietnam....and then left.🙄

Whatwouldscullydo · 21/06/2025 09:29

The nhs is its own worst enemy. Drs wont see u so a&e gets flooded.

Missed appointments because letters and texts arrive AFTER the appointment people didn't know about

Unable to leave without prescriptions even though you just had refills you ordered and will order again when necessary.

Medicine you dont need continually added to prescriptions despite constantly asking to have them removed. Paracetamol can be bought cheaply anywhere stop giving it to me.

Refusal to look at the big picture so constantly treating symptoms rather than causes must add up more long term with constant appointments etc.

There's not much that could not be considered self inflicted. Its an extremly slippery slope to start a list of ehats acceptable stupidity/risk taking/exposure and what isn't

Looploop · 21/06/2025 09:28

The whole thread sums up the problem of a system free to all at the point of access. Either it’s free to all or a lot of unfair judgements are made. Or everyone needs insurance. Maybe something called National Insurance? Except that doesn’t cover the cost of course!

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:26

You have moved from the general to the particular.

So you don't have an answer 👍🏾

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:26

Plus you can ski in England (Lake District) & then there are dry slopes.

logicisall · 21/06/2025 09:26

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:19

@logicisall but why is someone who skis deserving of health treatment but someone injected unknowingly with a substance not? What is the difference?

You have moved from the general to the particular.

Looploop · 21/06/2025 09:24

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:22

The appointment system is a joke. I had one rescheduled to a date I was on holiday, phoned asap to reschedule. Then get a letter saying I have been removed for failed attendance, took a long phone call for them to see that I actually had rescheduled. I also was sent about 4 texts saying "Do not come to the hospital, this is a phone appointment". Get a call from the consultant asking where I am. I don't understand how it's so shit.

Yes it’s amazing how the rest of the world functions perfectly well with appointments, email, text etc but not the NHS. Considering this is the system we are hoping will save our lives!!!

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:23

Lots of my friends have had ski accidents abroad with multiple appointments and treatments once home.

Looploop · 21/06/2025 09:23

Actually won’t the skiers be treated wherever the mountains are? So only a problem in the Cairngorms. But I suppose there’s a follow-up for fractures when they are home.

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:22

The appointment system is a joke. I had one rescheduled to a date I was on holiday, phoned asap to reschedule. Then get a letter saying I have been removed for failed attendance, took a long phone call for them to see that I actually had rescheduled. I also was sent about 4 texts saying "Do not come to the hospital, this is a phone appointment". Get a call from the consultant asking where I am. I don't understand how it's so shit.

ittersbitters · 21/06/2025 09:19

@logicisall but why is someone who skis deserving of health treatment but someone injected unknowingly with a substance not? What is the difference?

Lzzyisgod · 21/06/2025 09:19

Looploop · 21/06/2025 08:57

I’m not worried about the high earners! They are putting in a lot more than they cost. Usually they will have insurance too but then A&E is still the place for emergencies.

Fine to charge for missed appointments but first the NHS will have to be organised enough to send out the correct appointment letters. There are still cases of people being told about their appointment after the event.

I’m not sure either about blaming people for their illnesses. Pregnancy is self-inflicted. Should we not treat that?

I agree about the appointments.

We missed one the other week because the letter arrived 20 mins before the appointment then you cant get through to tell them. Local trust only uses 2nd class post saying text reminders are sent except the text system is erratic and doesnt always work and as its a central booking system it's not anyone's responsibility to think "that letter wont ever get there in time maybe I'll phone them to let them know "

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