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Dogs barking all day long - how to approach neighbours

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ToClimb · 20/06/2025 13:40

Our next door but one neighbours garden is a dog leg around our property so their dogs are able to roam on two sides. They are lovely people, but keep themselves very much to themselves. I know from Facebook that her mum died a few weeks ago so I'm wary of not upsetting her too much.

Anyway, about 3 months ago they got a pair of mastiff puppies. They let them in the garden all day everyday and all they do is bark. The bark is really deep and is destroying our own use of our garden as you can't hear yourself think.

They work shifts and sometimes it's 4am and the dogs are off. They bark at every voice they hear, every car that goes past.

Council won't do anything unless we a) talk to them first and b) keep a noise diary. How do you keep a diary for something that is continual.

How do I approach this. I don't want to fall out with them but it's ridiculously ongoing and DH, who is sensitive to noise is about ready to go round all guns blazing.

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Shesellsseashellsnotinmystreet · 20/06/2025 14:11

Do the diary.. Write in every barking session. Write on times you are in and times you are at work. Make it meticulous for the 2 weeks. Add in if anyone takes it in. Or if they don't. Let Gej council know you mean business and expect results. They do have powers. I know a couple who had to rehome their white savage fuckball. I mean fluffball... Lack of ddog ownership should not impact our lives.
But my council wrote to ndn after my initial call. Haven't had to do the diary. Any recent outbursts have had me hose the yappy fucker through the fence. But very rare now. Not 5 times a day @30 mins each.. I have 3 ddogs and they look bemused at the fence at the daft git... Maybe they mean the owner and not the ddog?

ToClimb · 20/06/2025 14:11

I think I might send her a message on Facebook. I've only ever been to their house once so woiluld feel odd knocking. But then I also worry that time can come across wrong on a message. They have, for 7 years been genuinely lovely neighbours and I'd rather not ruin that

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MariLlwyd · 20/06/2025 14:03

I wouldn't give a stuff about upsetting them.
They obviously suffer from the selective deafness and selfishness of many dog owners.
Knock their door, calmly tell them it's unacceptable and that you're entitled to the quiet enjoyment of your own property and if it doesn't stop you'll start taking recordings and keeping a diary with a view to making a complaint to the Council.
Absolute arseholes.
Good luck.