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To hate We’re Going On A Bear Hunt

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Shabbalabadingdong · 19/06/2025 22:35

Just that really, I HATE it. I know it’s a children’s classic but whenever DD picks it to read my heart sinks. It’s so repetitive (which I get is the point) and annoying. It’s a metaphor for something, god knows what. The dad is just massively irresponsible, I’m surprised he doesn’t take them trudging across railway lines and MOD firing ranges. It’s just bollocks.

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ballroompink · 20/06/2025 07:12

Actually didn't mind Bear Hunt - when I first read it I hated the metre but DC2 in particular loved the mild peril aspect where they have to run back home and shut the door.

+1 for Thomas the Tank Engine being a dick - I hated those and used to dread being asked for them. So boring and all the trains were annoying.

spoonbillstretford · 20/06/2025 07:09

Yes, it was nice the first time I read it but not for the 150,000th time. I did get really fed up with it.

Pinches · 20/06/2025 07:07

It is a bit repetitive, but now my dc are older I use it as a metaphor for life - going through the hard bits to get to the other side of said obstacle. Not perfect but seems to work

BendingSpoons · 20/06/2025 07:05

Canthelpmyselffromjoiningin · 19/06/2025 22:43

I dont mind it. Much better than the tiger who came to tea where poor Sophie and her mummy are totally clueless what to do until the heroic man comes home from his Big Important Job and declelares they can all go to the cafe for tea because the silly females gave away all the food and drink. I know its not as bad as im saying but the casual misogyny makes my blood boil 🤣

I hated the Tiger who Came to Tea. Then someone suggested reading it as a story mummy made up to daddy because she couldn't be bothered to cook or clean and I found it more tolerable.

Neemie · 20/06/2025 07:03

It is a great book and has a lovely rhythm to it.

Sherararara · 20/06/2025 07:03

I love it. I often read it to myself just for pleasure. Sometimes I sit in bed with DH and we read it together and how we laugh.

Krakinou · 20/06/2025 07:03

garlictwist · 20/06/2025 03:06

See, I don’t think Michael Rosen wrote it yet no one talks about it. According to Google it was published in 1989. Yet before that I had a cassette of children’s songs and rhymes and bear hunt was on it. Is he claiming he made it up?

I read something by him where he recognizes it’s a folk song and apparently the inside cover of the paperback says “words adapted by Michael Rosen” or something, but that wasn’t printed in the board book for some reason.

RabbitsRock · 20/06/2025 07:01

Shenmen · 19/06/2025 22:50

Come back to me after your 3rd child ina row decides that Thomas the fucking boring tank engine has to be read every night.
Bear Hunt is what 7 mins tops.
Mine now are all teens and won't sit next to for more than 10 minutes unless pizza or beers are involved. I would do anything to have a bit more their attention apart from reading those dull books.

Shenmen you did make me chuckle with “Thomas the fucking boring tank engine” 🤣🤣🤣

user1476613140 · 20/06/2025 07:00

Got four chances to read this to each of my children as they all grew up. Absolutely loved it😍

susisihsbebsb · 20/06/2025 06:58

Luckily bear hunt is one of my husbands favourites so I am rarely asked to read it to them 😂 especially as "Daddy does the noises better than you". Too right he does.

They also think the bear looks sad on the last page so he said he's going home for his vegetarian pizza and they think that's hilarious for some reason 🤣

Krakinou · 20/06/2025 06:58

Both Bear Hunt and Tiger take me back to being 6 years old inventing adventures in the park… the little patch of hilly grass becomes a mountain, the stream is a torrid river, a teddy bear is an actual bear, the local ginger cat who’s always begging is a real tiger, and going to a cafe at 5pm is basically the Oscars.

I’ve lost that imagination as an adult, it’s nice to be able to use those stories when I’m playing with my toddler. Taking her on a bear hunt around the garden and so on.

Also the illustrations are lovely.

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/06/2025 06:38

As s retired Early Years teacher who read Bear Hunt thousands of times over 30 years I still love it. You have to put some energy and rythmn into it and the children join in. Mild peril has always been part of children's storiesthey used to shriek IT'S A BEAR and go back through the cave, the mud etc. as quickly as they could.

I also like The Tiger Who Came to Tea and, although Sophie's Mummy was a bit pathetic, I always asked children what their Mum would have done. They came up with some great ideas.

StampOnTheGround · 20/06/2025 06:36

This thread appeared for me approximately 20 seconds after reading this book 😂 I don’t hate it, but I am so bored of it and the repetitiveness!

Danikm151 · 20/06/2025 06:33

My son likes to ac we’re going on a bear hunt out… at the park.
I used to read it to him when he was 1-3 and I thought he’d forgotten about it.
Nope they started reading it at school so now it’s back in rotation at bed time

LostMySocks · 20/06/2025 06:32

rogerthat45 · 19/06/2025 22:48

My dd feels sorry for the bear at the end because on the final page he’s walking away looking sad. She’s very concerned about his wellbeing and said he only wanted to be friends with the people.

My DS was the same. We had to have lots of chats about how maybe he would play with his bear friends tomorrow. Was a nice lead in to how sad it was to be left out

stayathomer · 20/06/2025 06:27

I thought we’re going on a bear hunt and the tiger who came to tea were a huge disappointment compared to so many other much loved books such as the the very hungry caterpillar, owl babies, the gruffalo, can you sleep little bear, guess how much I love you, dear zoo, the day the crayons quit (nearly crying here thinking of them, eldest has final exam today, it’s like a different world- miss it!!!)

MaxJLHardy · 20/06/2025 04:03

No word for the Brambly Hedge series which was my favourite as a child and which I’m trying to pass on to my children.

707girl · 20/06/2025 03:37

It came in handy on the walks home from school when everyone starts to whine a bit. I was grateful that I could remember the whole thing! But there is always too much of a good thing - also you can change up the words (or sound effects) to amuse yourself if it's that awful for you. Story time doesn't actually last that long, then you'll find yourself reading kids books in the store for fun.

Swimminginthedeepbluesky · 20/06/2025 03:24

AmelieSummer25 · 19/06/2025 23:24

Yes, I think you've hit the nail on the head!! It's whiney & definitely 'make it stop'

its been quite a few years since I've had to read it now, but just the title being mentioned and I get all angst & noooooooo

I think we read it about 3 times and my DD was so unimpressed and bored -it "disappeared "

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 20/06/2025 03:18

Dislike Bear Hunt, luckily only my youngest was young enough.
ASD son loved Thomas and Mr bastard Men. God forbid you deviate.
My hatred is reserved for the emotionally manipulative Nut Brown Hare. Wanker.

Mmmcheese89 · 20/06/2025 03:17

I didn't know it was a book until recently. I remember it being a game at rainbows. You'd do all the actions of the different terrains on your bear hunt. Then a leader would shout 'oh no, a bear' and you have to scream and quickly do all the actions and noises in reverse to run away. Fun for a child if I remember rightly.

I then used it briefly as an adult as part of a primary school science workshop teaching children to use microscopes to look for water bears/tardigrades.

garlictwist · 20/06/2025 03:06

mynameiscalypso · 19/06/2025 23:05

Isn’t there also some controversy about Bear Hunt because Michael Rosen didn’t acknowledge for a long time that he was based on an old American folk song?

See, I don’t think Michael Rosen wrote it yet no one talks about it. According to Google it was published in 1989. Yet before that I had a cassette of children’s songs and rhymes and bear hunt was on it. Is he claiming he made it up?

elozabet · 20/06/2025 03:01

Beamur · 19/06/2025 23:12

I quite like the non rhyming bits, it keeps you a bit off kilter.
The hungry caterpillar was not a favourite.
I loved some of the Julia Donaldson ones but not all. Loved Tiddler. Hated Zog.
Shirley Williams was sublime. Dogger is one of a kind.

Dogger was our favourite too

Angelil · 20/06/2025 02:52

Big fans of ‘Peace at Last’ and other books by the same author as well.

the other thing with Bear Hunt is that apparently he sold the rights? So there are tons of frightful spinoffs by other authors too…”We’re Going on an Egg Hunt” etc (at least that one has flaps!!). Blech.

Angelil · 20/06/2025 02:48

My kids also love Avocado Baby (Burningham…lovely CBeebies Bedtime Story version too), and the Ahlberg books. Eldest (6) so into Famous Five right now as well.