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Help me with a RAGE

37 replies

BucketHatWoes · 19/06/2025 14:22

My mother has pissed me right off and I'm fuming

ASD son, benefits, decorating, overstepping, gaslighting, abuse....
Long boring list but whatever

Join me in a rage

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Original poster
BucketHatWoes · 19/06/2025 15:47

Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 15:13

Entirely self inflicted

your mother doesn’t live close to you anymore so why have someone you despise in your life involved in your son and even decorating!!

well this is where it gets bizarre

my mental sister has pretty much locked my mother up,

she did the same with her daughter

and I'm the mental one ?

oh well

anyone else raging?

I'm doing some great rage weeding in my garden

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Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 15:13

Entirely self inflicted

your mother doesn’t live close to you anymore so why have someone you despise in your life involved in your son and even decorating!!

Original poster
BucketHatWoes · 19/06/2025 15:05

Cool , you can spell longer words than me

Yes it was a depressing thread and ho hum it hasnt got a happy ending,

so anyone else with the RAGE?

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Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 14:57

BucketHatWoes · 19/06/2025 14:56

I have only ever said narc mother and narc exh (because I cant spell it fully) but will have said my sister has issues and she stalks me online lol couldnt care less :)

Still fuming

I never said you did say your sister was a “narc”

no stalking here. I was on your very depressing thread about your son and you liberally mention your narc mum and narc ex

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BucketHatWoes · 19/06/2025 14:56

I have only ever said narc mother and narc exh (because I cant spell it fully) but will have said my sister has issues and she stalks me online lol couldnt care less :)

Still fuming

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Icecreamhelps · 19/06/2025 14:43

Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 14:39

Op you talk about your “narcissistic ex” your “narcissistic mum” your “messed up sister”

I mean you do realise that you really aren’t forced to have these people in your life don’t you?

Are you stalking OP's post's?

Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 14:39

Op you talk about your “narcissistic ex” your “narcissistic mum” your “messed up sister”

I mean you do realise that you really aren’t forced to have these people in your life don’t you?

AnneLovesGilbert · 19/06/2025 14:36

Decorating?

It’s hot, everyone’s grumpy, why choose to rage. Sounds exhausting.

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BucketHatWoes · 19/06/2025 14:34

Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 14:24

Let me guess

you live around the corner from her
use her or used to use her for childcare
holiday together

but basically despise one another?

Edited

Lol she did do some childcare and lived around the corner

but hes 27 now and shes moved

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Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 14:25

And one of you doesn’t drive and you live rurally

Icecreamhelps · 19/06/2025 14:25

I feel your rage. I've been there. I got a text off my mum this morning 'are you working today?' pissed me off. Long story too.

Blinkagain · 19/06/2025 14:24

Let me guess

you live around the corner from her
use her or used to use her for childcare
holiday together

but basically despise one another?