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Parents starting an air raid shelter

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PanicStations2025 · 18/06/2025 17:37

I've called my parents tonight and they’ve been telling me all about the shelter that they’re building in case Russia attacks. I feel like this is crazy! They do live near an army base (within 10 miles) so they’ve been packing food, water, games, bedding etc to survive a week! Is it me or is that insane? Are we really at that level of risk now? Should I be starting a pack? What do I even put in it?

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notimagain · 18/06/2025 19:42

Winterwonders24 · 18/06/2025 19:28

Iron Dome is cutting edge,and as we have seen is not comprehensive: have we got something better than that?

No.

..and to answer a previous question: does the UK have the ability/capability shoot down a ballistic missile?,

The answer again is pretty much no, though there is a missile system on a few of our naval vessels which may have a limited anti-ballistic missile capability...

We certainly have nothing close to the Israeli multi layered system of which Iron Dome is one component.

As for us instantly firing back....would the PM authorise the use of Trident if he believed the incoming from Russia was conventionally tipped - the sort of thing Russia has been firing at Ukraine .....???

Winterwonders24 · 18/06/2025 19:28

AngryBird6122 · 18/06/2025 18:56

We have technology that an detect and counter fire immediately. We have submarines and aircraft and god knows else watching all the time. It's nuts you think this would happen

Iron Dome is cutting edge,and as we have seen is not comprehensive: have we got something better than that?

LlynTegid · 18/06/2025 19:28

Thanks for the detail OP. Some level of preparation for an attack or a cyber attack is reasonable, whether this is too much only time will tell.

Natsku · 18/06/2025 19:27

MyDreamyRoseOrca · 18/06/2025 19:00

Exactly. We are in Europe right now for my husband’s work. I don’t really get the whole banter about it on here. Especially Finland must be so scary right now! I mean if we get hit by a nuclear bomb that’s the end anyway. But that is clearly not what governments are concerned about right now. Frankly I’m surprised that clearly this is not well known in the UK where it’s pretty common in Europe to know that you have to be prepared to last 72 hours with water, a radio, food and cash. Seems not then!

Nuclear attack is the least likely, hybrid attacks are the most likely as they are already happening, and after that attack with conventional weapons is more likely than nuclear so yeah, preparing for a few days in case something happens is wise, because for a few days you won't have access to anything.

Though I'm not really too worried, at least not for the next few years. After that, maybe its time to worry.

Tessiebear2023 · 18/06/2025 19:27

I vividly remember my neighbours in the 80s building a shelter in their dining room with "fall-out blankets" (whatever they are) covering the windows and doorways, tins of food and supplies, camping stove, etc. They were far from the only ones as well.

It may seem silly or futile to some people, but when you're worried it can make you feel better to be doing something rather than nothing at all. AT the end of the day, they're not doing anything that could end badly, and having some extra supplies could be a good thing if rising prices cause a run on the shops one day.

PanicStations2025 · 18/06/2025 19:15

For those asking- yes it’s a legitimate post, I’ve been around for years but name changed for obvious reasons :)

They’re not crazy and usually very calm, for example I was much more concerned about covid before they did. They’re not preppers or paranoid.

I don’t think they’re worried about nuclear war, more of a targeted attack on the local base. It’s close enough that they might be collateral damage.

@Cesarina they have a basement/cellar that’s mostly just used for storage (and the occasional flood!) At the moment.
@ElleintheWoods - yeah that’s what they said. People are being warned to get a weeks supplies so they’re doing that basically

@WilfredsPies - no nothing that crazy luckily! They have the cellar already so they’re just sorting it out and starting to get things stored in it

@Youlikepotatoesyes - at the moment there’s cards, dominos and monopoly. It’s a good idea for birthday presents though!

@Falconfield no, they’re just filling the cellar that they already own

I’ve definitely worded it badly since so many think they’re somehow building the shelter themselves, sorry! I just meant they’re building a pack of supplies for the cellar they already have.

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oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 18/06/2025 19:14

Get a copy of "When the Wind Blows" by Raymond Briggs & give it to them.
The radio version with Peter Sallis is brilliant.

abracadabra1980 · 18/06/2025 19:10

ElleintheWoods · 18/06/2025 18:16

Seems sensible.

I mean, maybe not actually a full-on shelter (are they just assembling things in the cellar, basically?), but generally almost everyone across Scandinavia and Eastern Europe has been told, and will have about a week's supplies, and know how to take shelter. Streets have signs on where the shelters are etc (tunnels, tube stations etc used for that purpose).

Mum's all set and if that gives her peace of mind, I'm pleased for her.

A UK military base is a very legit target.

We just haven't had war in Western Europe for so long that we all think it's insanity but looks at all the countries amassing artillery and generally gearing up for war, regular Russian cyber attacks, transport networks being taken down etc.

Even if they were to lose power and water for a few days, why not have that.

Everyone did this in Covid, it might be more relevant now.

If they're happy, hey, good for them.

Absolutely agree with all of this and I'm no prepper. But I'm going to start to have a few back up systems in place with a household power bank and wind up radio coming soon.

thesnailandthewhale · 18/06/2025 19:05

What is their plan after the 7 days? 🫤

AsterLaVista · 18/06/2025 19:04

It's worth just thinking what you'd do if your local water company had to shut off the water due to a threat of it being contaminated by a terrorist, or due to a cyberattack on water systems.

OK the local council might well start dishing out bottled water in a day or so but what about until then? Have you got some 2l bottles of supermarket water just to see you through a couple of days, at least?

The same goes for power, it's worth keeping a couple of power banks charged up for phones, and having a few tins and packets of ready to eat food to get you through a couple of days of not having power to cook with.

If every UK household had only that most basic level of preparedness, we'd instantly be way more resilient as a nation.

Govt and army would be able to focus more on fixing the results of an attack and less on doling out rations to totally unprepared citizens.

gamerchick · 18/06/2025 19:04

Oatshakenespresso · 18/06/2025 18:36

I bet everyone said the same about the people who prepped for things ahead of Covid. They wernt the idiots running to supermarkets fighting over eggs and toilet roll 🤣

if you have children especially, you should always be prepared for things to go south be it a war or power outage or anything else. I mean building an air raid shelter does seem ott unless it’s built properly. You should have supplies etc.
we aren’t “preppers” but we always have 3-4 weeks stock of food and essentials in our pantry. Served us well during Covid

Heh yep and then it was all our fault nobody could get their home deliveries Grin seems few people have learned their lesson, want to mock and stick their head in the sand.

Everyone should be prepared for disruption anyway. Not so much bombs, but cyber attacks. Even our local rag is pointing out portable generators. Other countries are advising to have some stores in.

But no, your average mumsnetter would prefer to scoff and blame everyone else when the SHTF.

This stuff makes you feel out of control, if anyone wants to make themselves feel better by feeling a bit prepared then let them.

PanicStations2025 · 18/06/2025 19:03

SerendipityJane · 18/06/2025 17:55

A snarky response could be that it's a shame they didn't put that much effort into their community instead.

They’re massively involved in the community, part of the local committee, do litter picks, clean the church, volunteer for the local search and rescue :)

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businessflop25 · 18/06/2025 19:03

It’s highly unlikely we would be physically attacked anytime soon. As PP have said we are a long way from Russia (or Iran for that matter) and anything pointed in our direction would be shot down.
I do think there is a more real chance of cyber attacks. Particularly aimed at taking down the banking system, internet or the national grid.
so I don’t think it would be unwise to have a few solar power banks, cash and some non perishable food about for if something were to happen. Look at how successfully hackers have crippled M&S.

NotPerfectlyAdverage · 18/06/2025 19:03

I'm sure if Russia wanted to take us out they could do so easily. But having stayed with my friends on a RAF Base I'm not sure a home made bunker would stand up to much. If it makes them feel less anxious I'm all for that. Where's the harm.

MyDreamyRoseOrca · 18/06/2025 19:00

Natsku · 18/06/2025 18:55

Yup, I'm in Finland and we're told to have 72 hours worth of supplies at home, in case of any emergency like extended power cuts (which could be due to sabotage) or cyber attacks affecting banking and shop systems, and other things like that. 72 hours is to allow for the government to be able to organise other help.

Exactly. We are in Europe right now for my husband’s work. I don’t really get the whole banter about it on here. Especially Finland must be so scary right now! I mean if we get hit by a nuclear bomb that’s the end anyway. But that is clearly not what governments are concerned about right now. Frankly I’m surprised that clearly this is not well known in the UK where it’s pretty common in Europe to know that you have to be prepared to last 72 hours with water, a radio, food and cash. Seems not then!

justkeepswimingswiming · 18/06/2025 18:57

Tell them they need to build a nuclear bunker not a bomb shetler!

TheNoonBell · 18/06/2025 18:56

Show them this map, set it for hitting the army base and go for a 750kt warhead with ground burst and radiation on. Then point the wind direction towards them.

Hopefully they will see the futility of the shelter. If they want to stockpile potassium iodide they will need a lot if they plan on staying in the area.

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AngryBird6122 · 18/06/2025 18:56

Winterwonders24 · 18/06/2025 18:50

Wow: not saying they're going to,but they really fo have the capability. Do you think it comes in a tree top level over Europe?!

We have technology that an detect and counter fire immediately. We have submarines and aircraft and god knows else watching all the time. It's nuts you think this would happen

Pollqueen · 18/06/2025 18:56

feellikeanalien · 18/06/2025 18:33

My granny used to have an old air raid shelter at the bottom of her garden. I never understood how it would be any use as it wasn't underground.

It was made of bricks with a tin roof so I don't know if maybe during the war it also had earth or something round it. We used to play in it as kids.

An old Anderson shelter? My GP's and their neighbours in Birmingham all had these back in the 60's. We used to play in them. Happy memories

Natsku · 18/06/2025 18:55

MyDreamyRoseOrca · 18/06/2025 18:44

Ehm I’m not saying I’m a prepper but all over Europe governments warn you to prepare. Not because of a possible bomb. But because (and it seems quite a few posters have missed this) for over two years Russia has been trying to sabotage cables in the seas and it’s also in case they are able to hack say the energy supplies etc. There’s a real worry they’re going to try and attack a country not with arms but by hacking systems (which they already do on a regular basis) and try and create chaos that way.. So whilst I’m not sitting here in my bunker, a little preparation doesn’t quite deserve the vitriol it gets on here.

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Yup, I'm in Finland and we're told to have 72 hours worth of supplies at home, in case of any emergency like extended power cuts (which could be due to sabotage) or cyber attacks affecting banking and shop systems, and other things like that. 72 hours is to allow for the government to be able to organise other help.

Poppish · 18/06/2025 18:54

In Sweden, where I grew up, recently every single household was sent a leaflet on how to prepare for war. This included advice on food, communication, water and shelter. Most housing blocks (in cities the majority of people live in blocks) have cellars that double as bomb shelters with huge steel doors. The Swedish government expects their population to be able to look after itself at least for a short while until services can resume.

Maybe building a bomb shelter is a bit overboard, but having basic things prepped isn’t completely left field

mutinyonthetwix · 18/06/2025 18:53

HonestOpalHelper · 18/06/2025 18:49

I have a working and calibrated ratemeter (geiger counter) which I use normally for work, but in a nuclear strike its just what you need to determine whether you are buggered or not.

Surely you are pretty much guaranteed to be buggered one way or another once the nuclear strike Rubicon is crossed.

Winterwonders24 · 18/06/2025 18:50

Poopeepoopee · 18/06/2025 18:12

Yeah, but they'd be shot down over Europe before they reach the UK 😅 - go ahead and terrorise everyone though. Pretty sure if Russia couldda done it, they wouldda done it already.

Wow: not saying they're going to,but they really fo have the capability. Do you think it comes in a tree top level over Europe?!

Sharptonguedwoman · 18/06/2025 18:49

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 18/06/2025 17:40

Are they just enthusiastic peppers who like a doom ridden narrative to justify their hobby or is this something they are actually worried about?

Edit; Preppers not peppers 🤣

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Love and enthusiastic pepper. Made me laugh. Your parents, if they are my age (Mid-late 60s) will have lived through some mad times with threats of nuclear war and all sorts. If it brings them peace of mind, why not?

HonestOpalHelper · 18/06/2025 18:49

I have a working and calibrated ratemeter (geiger counter) which I use normally for work, but in a nuclear strike its just what you need to determine whether you are buggered or not.

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