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Parents starting an air raid shelter

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PanicStations2025 · 18/06/2025 17:37

I've called my parents tonight and they’ve been telling me all about the shelter that they’re building in case Russia attacks. I feel like this is crazy! They do live near an army base (within 10 miles) so they’ve been packing food, water, games, bedding etc to survive a week! Is it me or is that insane? Are we really at that level of risk now? Should I be starting a pack? What do I even put in it?

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IsthataYes · 22/06/2025 23:40
  • we got a little camping stove and gas a while ago and I do feel more independent with the thought that we could have hot water bottle in winter if heating was cut off and tea, cups of tea and we can cook!!
IsthataYes · 22/06/2025 23:38

@user746016 agree l remember during covid we the UK were poorly prepared and it was said in places like Germany they were asked to keep s few weeks supply as a matter of course

IsthataYes · 22/06/2025 23:36

@PanicStations2025 me too how can we get it back!! §

Unfortunately literal joy suckers seem to rule here.

Anyway I think it's sweet of your parents and something to keep them occupied, s little project.

Who knows maybe they could make a few bob and sell their story.

tinytorch · 22/06/2025 23:34

PanicStations2025 · 22/06/2025 23:24

im so annoyed that mumsnet has taken away the laughing react option

That says quite a lot about you.

Have a good chuckle at this thread:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5359517-the-us-has-bombed-fordow-and-other-sites?reply=145169439

PanicStations2025 · 22/06/2025 23:24

im so annoyed that mumsnet has taken away the laughing react option

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user746016 · 22/06/2025 07:09

and now we are really under threat. The US bombing of Iran overnight means the risk level has just sky rocketed.

user746016 · 21/06/2025 21:51

I went to a very interesting lecture on cybersecurity recently. Those who think there is no need to prep in some form are incredibly naive. We are under attack every single week at a fairly steady low level. Things like targeted attacks on our power systems or even just on banking systems (no cash coming out of the machines, no shops open, no deliveries available) would mean that those who have been realistic and have prepped to be reasonably comfortable staying at home for a few weeks would be in a far far better position than those who live day to day and don't have food water medicine power and heat for their family.

Those talking about threads and mocking the OPs parents might be better watching "blackout". I think it's available on channel 4. The UK one is better than the US one but they are both worth watching and I'd put money on some of those who who haven't ever thought about putting some key stores aside deciding that it might in fact be a good idea after watching.

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 19:28

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 18:02

No. We really aren't.

How so?

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 18:02

vodkaredbullgirl · 21/06/2025 09:44

Best to get our ducks in a row then 😆

Well no point in bothering living anyway I guess!

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 18:02

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:11

Yes. We are.

No. We really aren't.

vodkaredbullgirl · 21/06/2025 09:44

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 09:09

Ok. I guess we are just sitting ducks then

Best to get our ducks in a row then 😆

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:28

tinytorch · 21/06/2025 09:23

But they don't need to be worried about nuclear bombs - Russian missiles are a threat, given their location close to an army base.

The UK could be hit with Russian cruise missiles from land, sea and air in just 90 minutes, travelling at 600mph, General Sir Richard Barrons warned.

The former Joint Forces Commander said the UK air defence system could not stop a Russian missile offensive.

Putin's missiles could reach London from Russia in just 90 minutes | News UK | Metro News

Yup and these aren’t even the nukes (though they could be). We are massively vulnerable to Russian attack in this country.

tinytorch · 21/06/2025 09:23

But they don't need to be worried about nuclear bombs - Russian missiles are a threat, given their location close to an army base.

The UK could be hit with Russian cruise missiles from land, sea and air in just 90 minutes, travelling at 600mph, General Sir Richard Barrons warned.

The former Joint Forces Commander said the UK air defence system could not stop a Russian missile offensive.

Putin's missiles could reach London from Russia in just 90 minutes | News UK | Metro News

Putin's 600mph missiles could reach Britain in just 90 minutes, warns ex-general

Russia could hit London with missiles in less than two hours.

https://metro.co.uk/2024/05/21/putins-missiles-reach-london-russia-just-90-minutes-20877520/#:~:text=The%20UK%20could%20be%20hit%20with%20Russian%20cruise,system%20could%20not%20stop%20a%20Russian%20missile%20offensive.

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:11

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 09:09

Ok. I guess we are just sitting ducks then

Yes. We are.

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 09:11

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:07

Detect and counter fire our own nukes yes. We have nothing that can take down an incoming nuke before it lands (actually they don’t land they explode over their target for maximum destruction). If Russia were to fire their nukes there is nothing we can do to stop them striking.

I never said take it down. I said counter fire. Which is what you have reiterated. That would put them off doing it. That’s the whole point of everyone having nukes. MAD

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:10

MoominUnderWater · 21/06/2025 09:00

Are they going to go all in like this guy?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-lincolnshire-34846264

Colin Furze is really cool but his “bunker” isn’t a bunker. He readily admits it’s just a buried room and doesn’t have filtered air or independent power for example to function as a proper nuclear bunker would need to. He moved on to building a car lift that comes up out of his driveway so has more important things to worry about.

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 09:09

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:07

Detect and counter fire our own nukes yes. We have nothing that can take down an incoming nuke before it lands (actually they don’t land they explode over their target for maximum destruction). If Russia were to fire their nukes there is nothing we can do to stop them striking.

Ok. I guess we are just sitting ducks then

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:07

AngryBird6122 · 18/06/2025 18:56

We have technology that an detect and counter fire immediately. We have submarines and aircraft and god knows else watching all the time. It's nuts you think this would happen

Detect and counter fire our own nukes yes. We have nothing that can take down an incoming nuke before it lands (actually they don’t land they explode over their target for maximum destruction). If Russia were to fire their nukes there is nothing we can do to stop them striking.

Sherararara · 21/06/2025 09:01

Poopeepoopee · 18/06/2025 18:00

Have you explained to your parents that we aren't actually in range of Russias bombs? Do they actually think a bomb is going be fired from Russia and reach the UK?

You might want to educate yourself a bit…

AngryBird6122 · 21/06/2025 08:58

mumda · 21/06/2025 00:05

LOL
They can't see Brize Norton safe.

Oh ok sorry yes you’re right. Russia could and probably will take us out extremely easily, in seconds actually. We are so helpless we have no defence. They are the all powerful let’s all cower in terror. Russia took out its neighbour Ukraine in a second so us over here should be even easier. Oh wait….ffs I think some of you just want drama.

Hollyhobbi · 21/06/2025 08:41

mumda · 21/06/2025 00:07

They give them out when there's unexplained radiation usually.

In Ireland? We only ever got one pack, years ago!

MyLov · 21/06/2025 05:07

PanicStations2025 · 18/06/2025 19:15

For those asking- yes it’s a legitimate post, I’ve been around for years but name changed for obvious reasons :)

They’re not crazy and usually very calm, for example I was much more concerned about covid before they did. They’re not preppers or paranoid.

I don’t think they’re worried about nuclear war, more of a targeted attack on the local base. It’s close enough that they might be collateral damage.

@Cesarina they have a basement/cellar that’s mostly just used for storage (and the occasional flood!) At the moment.
@ElleintheWoods - yeah that’s what they said. People are being warned to get a weeks supplies so they’re doing that basically

@WilfredsPies - no nothing that crazy luckily! They have the cellar already so they’re just sorting it out and starting to get things stored in it

@Youlikepotatoesyes - at the moment there’s cards, dominos and monopoly. It’s a good idea for birthday presents though!

@Falconfield no, they’re just filling the cellar that they already own

I’ve definitely worded it badly since so many think they’re somehow building the shelter themselves, sorry! I just meant they’re building a pack of supplies for the cellar they already have.

Well that just sounds very sensible. Most countries now give their populations prepping advice, including the U.K. They are lucky to have a basement which lends itself well to this. Good on them but hopefully it won’t be needed 🤞

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