Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

If you self cater on holidays - what sort of meals do you make?

163 replies

NewShoesForSpring · 18/06/2025 12:17

Just curious about this.

When dc were small we always stayed in apartments on city breaks / holidays so we had more space in the evenings when they'd gone to bed. Plus we could use the fridge for milk / juice / water / wine / beer

We'd stock up on cereal & bread for toast for them & fruit & snacks etc but I never really did much actual cooking

We'd eat out or if dc had eaten enough one of us would go to pick up a lovely takeout when they were asleep.

As they got older we'd all go out for dinner.

I've found fully self catering hard as whikr it's easy to pick up fish or veg etc in market / supermarket there's none of the other ingredients you need to season/ make a dish & if I'm away for a week I'm def not buying olive oils / spices etc

If you self cater, what sort of things do you make?

OP posts:
doodleschnoodle · 19/06/2025 17:30

Cooking multiple nights on a holiday isn’t really a holiday to me so we try to plan one meal of the day ’eating out’, so lunch or dinner, and then we just have bread, cheese, ham, other meats, salad, all that sort of stuff in that people can sort for themselves. Will happily do a barbecue if we have access, but neither DH or I want to cook proper meals.

If we are in the UK I might do a bit more but if we are abroad I am fully investing in the bread and cheese way of life.

UndermyShoeJoe · 19/06/2025 17:26

Katypp · 19/06/2025 17:22

Sorry, what are you talking about??

I think that poster means cheap convenience foods. Rather than M&S microwave meal a Asda savers frozen 99p cottage pie I guess.

Katypp · 19/06/2025 17:22

Ponoka7 · 19/06/2025 17:20

I think a lot of people on here would be a lot more content if they slummed it (by their standards) and actually had a holiday and realise that health is 70% luck and they need to relax about food.

Sorry, what are you talking about??

Ponoka7 · 19/06/2025 17:20

Katypp · 19/06/2025 06:48

All of which are substantially cheaper than eating out!

I think a lot of people on here would be a lot more content if they slummed it (by their standards) and actually had a holiday and realise that health is 70% luck and they need to relax about food.

drspouse · 19/06/2025 15:14

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 19/06/2025 05:36

SimplyCook are on a mission to fight food boredom and are giving you a SimplyCook trial box for free!
https://www.simplycook.com/invite/0M82VT?via=app

We used to get Simply Cook but found that the recipes were still quite involved, and it was hard to get options that the DCs would try (though they have improved in their tastes to maybe it's worth another try).

Katypp · 19/06/2025 12:55

JassyRadlett · 19/06/2025 12:42

And for us it's partly because eating out every meal doesn't feel like particularly good value for money, when we don't necessarily want a full restaurant meal three times a day. And partly because we really enjoy getting into the food scene of the place we're in outside of restaurants and having the option and flexibility to wander round the markets/delis/supermarkets and pick up whatever takes our fancy that day (and that is relatively easy to prep.)

We tend to be pretty active during the day on holiday so it suits us to breakfast at home, eat out at lunch and then have a lighter meal in the evening in a more relaxed way back in the villa/cottage/apartment and play cards/a board game/watch a film.

Exactly. I am happy to stay in a hotel as a couple but with kids/teens self-catering is so much better.
I dread to think how much we would spend on cold drinks/ice lollies/snacks otherwise.
As you say, it''s not so much about SAVING money, it's more about not wasting money, which I hate doing.
As I said upthread, cooking something easy then shoving everything in the dishwasher is massively more appealing to me than having to regroup and get ready to go back out after a tiring day.

OneTC · 19/06/2025 12:55

Depending on where we're going and how we're getting there we often take a little box with herbs spices oils etc if we're driving there.

When we fly somewhere we just buy some or often the places we choose seem to have stuff like that. The last place we stayed in had a better stocked larder cupboard than I bother keeping at home.

Bamboozledbylife · 19/06/2025 12:46

I think it depends if we're abroad or home, but generally always go SC. More so because I don't want to be tied to that hotels food!
Abroad, we'll almost always eat in for breakfast. We'll have snacky things, sandwiches, salad. We might buy bit from the supermarjet like a cooked chicken etc. in the UK, we'll take some nice ready meals - M&S shop enroute. If it's a cold weather trip, perhaps take a slow cooker with a chilli or slow cooked beef in.

JassyRadlett · 19/06/2025 12:42

Katypp · 19/06/2025 06:48

All of which are substantially cheaper than eating out!

And for us it's partly because eating out every meal doesn't feel like particularly good value for money, when we don't necessarily want a full restaurant meal three times a day. And partly because we really enjoy getting into the food scene of the place we're in outside of restaurants and having the option and flexibility to wander round the markets/delis/supermarkets and pick up whatever takes our fancy that day (and that is relatively easy to prep.)

We tend to be pretty active during the day on holiday so it suits us to breakfast at home, eat out at lunch and then have a lighter meal in the evening in a more relaxed way back in the villa/cottage/apartment and play cards/a board game/watch a film.

annaspanner18 · 19/06/2025 11:35

For uk holidays we order a grocery delivery which usually includes

breakfast stuff plus drinks and snacks
pizzas and garlic bread for first night
bbq stuff (burgers, salmon, rolls, corn, coleslaw, I might bring ketchup, oil, mayo)
pasta & pesto with sausages / halloumi, salad and garlic bread
Ingredients for chilli with jacket potatoes & cheese
Then add a takeaway chippy or curry one night plus a pub meal out… , and that covers us for a week.

Talipesmum · 19/06/2025 10:56

FurForksSake · 18/06/2025 13:30

Oh and I also if abroad would pack some basic herbs and spices, the refill boxes are handy. I’m happy to buy some nice oil etc and good ingredients and don’t mind things not being finished. It’s not worth being frugal and then not enjoying the meals.

This is what we do - we’ll take some basics, it doesn’t take up much room. Not the full spice cupboard, but maybe 5-10 little pots? If it’s in the UK and we’re driving I’ll have a whole bag with bits and pieces, oil, a few condiments, silver foil, decent large baking tray / pot / knife in case the ones there are rubbish. Abroad we will likely plan a mix of eating out, and making food ourselves with ingredients bought from lovely markets. Will probably take some photos of recipes we’d like to try too. It’s a bit harder to manage than at home and sometimes we have to chuck something nice at the end - eg we’d bought some fish stock from fishmongers and there was unavoidably far more than we needed for the meal we were making, so it had to go down the sink which was a big shame. But worth it overall!

330ml · 19/06/2025 10:40

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 19/06/2025 05:36

SimplyCook are on a mission to fight food boredom and are giving you a SimplyCook trial box for free!
https://www.simplycook.com/invite/0M82VT?via=app

And, for everybody that orders using that link, you get a free box too.

Katypp · 19/06/2025 06:48

Ponoka7 · 18/06/2025 23:57

Not when they are chatting Hello Fresh boxes, Waitrose/M&S, fancy chickens. As well as the places they are staying in.

All of which are substantially cheaper than eating out!

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 19/06/2025 05:36

SimplyCook are on a mission to fight food boredom and are giving you a SimplyCook trial box for free!
https://www.simplycook.com/invite/0M82VT?via=app

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 19/06/2025 05:35

simply cook!

RawBloomers · 19/06/2025 05:24

Per PP posh ready meals are our go to if not eating out. If somewhere hot might do a lot of salad and cheese/meats (esp in a villa with a pool - this just sort of fits). Then we’d buy a small bottle of good olive oil and wine or balsamic vinegar for the dressing. And meat to BBQ if one is available. But also we do love to cook so sometimes, if not abroad, will plan a special meal that we bring the extra ingredients for like spices.

BarBellBarbie · 19/06/2025 04:42

I don't self cater for financial reasons, it's because I like it. I enjoy the flexibility, can eat in if I want or eat out if I prefer. There's no rush to breakfast in the morning. I can shop in local supermarkets and markets which I love. I don't really like hotels, the rooms are too small and confined, and it's too restrictive.

Ponoka7 · 18/06/2025 23:57

crackofdoom · 18/06/2025 16:51

I would imagine that most of us are self catering because we can't afford to eat out all the time, and the choice is either cook or don't go on holiday.

Not when they are chatting Hello Fresh boxes, Waitrose/M&S, fancy chickens. As well as the places they are staying in.

Motheranddaughter · 18/06/2025 19:31

We normally do hotels
If we go self catering we eat out

No way we are cooking on holiday

Musicaltheatremum · 18/06/2025 19:10

We often take a cottage on the west coast of Scotland miles from anywhere. when I cook I usually make extra so the meals are in the freezer...eg chilli or a casserole so I take all these meals in a big freezer box along with all my other food and having made sure there's a freezer at the property I fill it up and we eat it all over the week. Works really well. There are just 2 of us though!

RandomUsernameHere · 18/06/2025 19:09

Easy stuff and I book a Tesco delivery for the first afternoon/evening for UK holidays. I check the kitchen set up beforehand, eg some places don’t have a freezer or just have a tiny freezer box, so I know not to order frozen stuff.

CuriousKangaroo · 18/06/2025 18:47

I’m with you OP. I enjoy cooking but I have no desire to do it on holiday. Otherwise it’s basically the same chores in a different location. And importantly, food is a big part of travelling to me. I want to eat the local food. So on the rare occasions we have been self catering abroad, breakfast tends to be cereals/yoghurt/toast (or pastries if there is a nearby cafe) and then we eat out for most meals. Though sometimes buy local cheese, salad and fruit if we want a light lunch. I would never stay somewhere that didn’t have several eateries nearby.

Edited to add - we know we are lucky to be able to do this, not just financially but because we only have one DD and she is a good eater and will try new things.

Tulipssndturkeys · 18/06/2025 18:17

Pretty much the same stuff we eat at home.

chilli , spaghetti Bol, curry - just in a different kitchen!!

Mt563 · 18/06/2025 18:11

Self catered last month, hob only. Pasta/tortellini and nice premade sauces, steak/schnitzel and new pots, burgers and chips (pots fried in frying pan), all with lots of salad and nice dressing.

FlatStanley50 · 18/06/2025 18:04

TreeDudette · 18/06/2025 16:21

The same stuff I make at home. If SC in the UK I bring bags of ingredients from home. If we are abroad I end up having to buy what we need to make bolognese ort burgers or other "normal" food. My DD as ASD and won't eat new things. No point telling me she needs to try them or she will eat if she gets hungry enough - she won't, we've tried it!. So DP and I eat out or eat exotic and I cook the same old stuff for DD. Luckily she likes steak and potatoes so that's almost ubiquetous.

Same as this for us. We often s/c in France and got to the bakery every morning and get croissants and pains au chocolate for breakfast and baguette for lunch. Then we'll have cheese and salad with the baguette for lunch (minus the salad for DD). In the evenings, we make pasta and tomato sauce or pasta and pesto for DD, DH and I will have salad/ a takeaway/ grilled fish/ sometimes eat out but rarely as it is difficult with DD.

We recently had a week in Italy which was a bit better as most restaurants would make her pasta with just tomato sauce (solo pomodoro!) if we asked so we got a few meals out.