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If you self cater on holidays - what sort of meals do you make?

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NewShoesForSpring · 18/06/2025 12:17

Just curious about this.

When dc were small we always stayed in apartments on city breaks / holidays so we had more space in the evenings when they'd gone to bed. Plus we could use the fridge for milk / juice / water / wine / beer

We'd stock up on cereal & bread for toast for them & fruit & snacks etc but I never really did much actual cooking

We'd eat out or if dc had eaten enough one of us would go to pick up a lovely takeout when they were asleep.

As they got older we'd all go out for dinner.

I've found fully self catering hard as whikr it's easy to pick up fish or veg etc in market / supermarket there's none of the other ingredients you need to season/ make a dish & if I'm away for a week I'm def not buying olive oils / spices etc

If you self cater, what sort of things do you make?

OP posts:
Katypp · 29/06/2025 17:47

It seems that unless we follow @NewShoesForSpring 's superior example, we are all tv-watching slobs.

Doteycat · 29/06/2025 10:31

NewShoesForSpring · 20/06/2025 13:00

Are you actually making this every night on holidays?

As i said earlier i'm an excellent cook & we eat really nice food all the time at home but im just not prepared to spend my days / evenings in the kitchen.

We've been on some longer trips of a month in Europe / Australia & that's different. It's more similar to living there so first days we'll stock from the supermarket & i would cook simple, fresh stuff there. We'd also eat out a lot to try out new restaurants etc too

But if I'm away for a few days to a week I have zero interest in making lasagne from scratch. It's a total waste of my valuable time imo.

Also on a side note I see a lot of people saying they come home to make dinner & that's it - into pj's to watch TV for the night. Again that's an alien concept for us on holidays!

We love city breaks & we book an apartment rigbt in the heart of the city (usually in the old town if there is one)

We always have specific stuff we want to do & see & i love doing all the research & planning.

A typical day would include getting up & dh loves to go out early to get fresh bakery goods- croissants in paris, churros in Spain etc with coffee & juice & he brings it back & I'll of often have mine in bed with book or on a balcony overlooking the city if we have one

Up & ready then to head out to explore for the morning. If we're heading to a specific place like a museum or gallery I'll research nice lunch places in that location.

After lunch we'll wander, sight see, stop for coffee/ wine / beer / aperol etc watch the world go by.

Perhaps go visit something else we want to do or see particularly if it's an area of a city - we'll wander around & stop as we please.

We usually head back to accommodation around 4 /5pm & have some snacks- local crisps, olives, salami, wine / beer & a relax that usually involves a little lie down on the bed. Then a shower & get changed for the evening.

We go out for a drink & then I'll either have a booking in a restaurant or we'll have scouted one earlier in the day.

I'll look up places to eat under a range of criteria - sometimes best traditional food or best pizza or best tapas, best seafood etc

We're not really into fine dining too much but we will have a range of experiences

We absolutely love visiting the 'grand cafes' in Europe & make a point of researching of them & we go & have coffee & cake their & soak up the atmosphere

We go out every night. If we've eaten a big lunch we will have lighter smaller dishes at night or vice versa

We love a stroll around to find a gorgeous wine bar & sit for a few hours.

Often I'll book tickets to an event- music (we love jazz) & we've also gone to opera houses etc or we might be there to attend an event (exhibition opening etc) if we've friends living in that city we'll have dinner & drinks with them.

Our dc are young adults now & love coming with us. Often dc might have a friend with them & they'll be gone doing their own thing & we meet for lunch or dinner or a drink etc

When dc was a baby we brought her out with us for dinners) & when a toddler we tried to make our main meal at lunchtime as she needed to be in bed early enough

I didn't enjoy those hemmed in days as much though we always got nice food in & wine etc

Once she got big enough she came with us again. She's v adventurous with food & we all love going out

On longer trips we'd buy nice food in a deli or supermarket to just heat up. Or we'd order in & about every 3rd or 4th night we'd be out

But even if we'd eaten in we'd go out got a walk / drink after

I just could not sit around the apartment all night watching TV- i can do that at home any night. I'd hate to do it in an exciting busy new place!!!

Whats your point?
I did all of the above on our holidays, including the swanky cafes and fabulous places for our dds to be "advenurous" with food.
We still manage to cook lovely food on our SC holidays, DH does most of it in fairness, its his love language, cooking for us. Its how he spends his valuable time, caring for us. He works a lot, so cooking up a storm for us on hols is something he loves to do. Ive yet to eat better in a restaurant and its just the best time ever sitting around a table chatting all evenign after a day out and about, we dont need to go out every night
Dont think we ever watched tv.

BiddyPopthe2nd · 29/06/2025 09:55

Even if we fly when we SC, I bring a couple of important kitchen tools (a small sharp knife, peeler, corkscrew, 1 wooden spoon) and a couple of seasonings (paprika, salt/pepper, maybe a couple of packets of mixes or a jar of Italian seasoning, 100ml bottle of balsamic vinegar, a few ziplocs and a few icecube bags). When I get there, I do a food shop including a small bottle of olive oil. Maybe some fresh herbs.

I use ziplocs to marinade and mix things, or to store leftovers.

we do a combination of salad-y meals, BBQs (if possible), throw easy things in the oven (chicken joints either with feta/thyme leaves under the skin or marinated in lemon juice/garlic, lamb chops, both of which can be on a bed of veggies and potatoes, shop bought lasagna, pizza we make with shop-bought bases and local ingredients, etc). I might make chicken fajitas one night but using a kit for ease. Some nights we just have cured meats/salamis, cheese, olives, cherry tomatoes and crusty bread.

Basically easy cooking but nice meals. I don’t feel guilty about using kits or readymade a few days. I don’t feel guilty eating out a few days. I like to see what’s local when I do my food shop and use those.

If we are driving rather than flying, I bring more bits in the car (tools and ingredients) - I have an 11 litre tub from Ikea with all my bits for SC and camping. The car also often includes more mixes/seasonings and possibly a frozen HM made for night 1 (a good curry, spaghetti Bol, chilli etc) and nice sides. It always tends to be easy cooking (which can involve a few steps some days but in a “do something and leave it for a while, then throw it somewhere to cook that doesn’t need constant stirring” way). For us, it started as saving money, but it’s also about saving time and managing our time and getting nice food that we like - mooching in the kitchen with a glass of wine in hand and nibbling olives while dinner cooks and DD used to enjoy playing and spending time with us and having our attention.

Natsku · 29/06/2025 09:36

We're on holiday right now and so far we've cooked ready-marinated pork chops so no need for seasoning, sausages over the fire (that's our most common holiday meal as we always stay somewhere we can light a fire for cooking on), fried fish that we caught, mincemeat sauce and boiled potatoes. Breakfast and lunch has been bread and cheese and cold cuts. Salad for vegetables.

Will go fishing for more dinner food this evening Grin

hopeishere · 29/06/2025 09:27

SheSpeaks · 19/06/2025 23:49

Roast dinner, always - some kind of curry night usually with more than one type of curry and rice, homemade naan, bought in poppadoms but I make the chutneys and dips. Some kind of pasta night usually with a big lasagna and some other pasta dishes, salads and garlic bread. Fajitas, build your own burritos, roast ducks with hoi sin and pancakes, chow mein, pho, and so on. Crowd pleasers. Lunches - I make soups in bulk, make sausage rolls although I buy the puff pastry, cheese straws, seed breads with fritattas, salads and salsas, jacket potato bar with multiple toppings.

ObViously dessert is needed every day, so sticky toffee pudding, bread and butter pudding, pavlova, fruit salads, fruit crumbles, treacle sponge, profiteroles, the type of things everyone likes.

Just basic crowd pleaser to make sure everyone is fed and full

I cannot believe you do this on holiday! When do you have time to just chill and read a book or go sightseeing?!

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 20/06/2025 17:25

cereal / toast / fruit etc for breakfast

lunch out

snacky bits for tea.

Maybe eat out one or two evenings, generally if we’ve had a quiet day or we’ve had a late breakfast out.

Katypp · 20/06/2025 16:27

NewShoesForSpring · 20/06/2025 13:00

Are you actually making this every night on holidays?

As i said earlier i'm an excellent cook & we eat really nice food all the time at home but im just not prepared to spend my days / evenings in the kitchen.

We've been on some longer trips of a month in Europe / Australia & that's different. It's more similar to living there so first days we'll stock from the supermarket & i would cook simple, fresh stuff there. We'd also eat out a lot to try out new restaurants etc too

But if I'm away for a few days to a week I have zero interest in making lasagne from scratch. It's a total waste of my valuable time imo.

Also on a side note I see a lot of people saying they come home to make dinner & that's it - into pj's to watch TV for the night. Again that's an alien concept for us on holidays!

We love city breaks & we book an apartment rigbt in the heart of the city (usually in the old town if there is one)

We always have specific stuff we want to do & see & i love doing all the research & planning.

A typical day would include getting up & dh loves to go out early to get fresh bakery goods- croissants in paris, churros in Spain etc with coffee & juice & he brings it back & I'll of often have mine in bed with book or on a balcony overlooking the city if we have one

Up & ready then to head out to explore for the morning. If we're heading to a specific place like a museum or gallery I'll research nice lunch places in that location.

After lunch we'll wander, sight see, stop for coffee/ wine / beer / aperol etc watch the world go by.

Perhaps go visit something else we want to do or see particularly if it's an area of a city - we'll wander around & stop as we please.

We usually head back to accommodation around 4 /5pm & have some snacks- local crisps, olives, salami, wine / beer & a relax that usually involves a little lie down on the bed. Then a shower & get changed for the evening.

We go out for a drink & then I'll either have a booking in a restaurant or we'll have scouted one earlier in the day.

I'll look up places to eat under a range of criteria - sometimes best traditional food or best pizza or best tapas, best seafood etc

We're not really into fine dining too much but we will have a range of experiences

We absolutely love visiting the 'grand cafes' in Europe & make a point of researching of them & we go & have coffee & cake their & soak up the atmosphere

We go out every night. If we've eaten a big lunch we will have lighter smaller dishes at night or vice versa

We love a stroll around to find a gorgeous wine bar & sit for a few hours.

Often I'll book tickets to an event- music (we love jazz) & we've also gone to opera houses etc or we might be there to attend an event (exhibition opening etc) if we've friends living in that city we'll have dinner & drinks with them.

Our dc are young adults now & love coming with us. Often dc might have a friend with them & they'll be gone doing their own thing & we meet for lunch or dinner or a drink etc

When dc was a baby we brought her out with us for dinners) & when a toddler we tried to make our main meal at lunchtime as she needed to be in bed early enough

I didn't enjoy those hemmed in days as much though we always got nice food in & wine etc

Once she got big enough she came with us again. She's v adventurous with food & we all love going out

On longer trips we'd buy nice food in a deli or supermarket to just heat up. Or we'd order in & about every 3rd or 4th night we'd be out

But even if we'd eaten in we'd go out got a walk / drink after

I just could not sit around the apartment all night watching TV- i can do that at home any night. I'd hate to do it in an exciting busy new place!!!

Who said anything about watching TV?

NewShoesForSpring · 20/06/2025 13:00

SheSpeaks · 19/06/2025 23:49

Roast dinner, always - some kind of curry night usually with more than one type of curry and rice, homemade naan, bought in poppadoms but I make the chutneys and dips. Some kind of pasta night usually with a big lasagna and some other pasta dishes, salads and garlic bread. Fajitas, build your own burritos, roast ducks with hoi sin and pancakes, chow mein, pho, and so on. Crowd pleasers. Lunches - I make soups in bulk, make sausage rolls although I buy the puff pastry, cheese straws, seed breads with fritattas, salads and salsas, jacket potato bar with multiple toppings.

ObViously dessert is needed every day, so sticky toffee pudding, bread and butter pudding, pavlova, fruit salads, fruit crumbles, treacle sponge, profiteroles, the type of things everyone likes.

Just basic crowd pleaser to make sure everyone is fed and full

Are you actually making this every night on holidays?

As i said earlier i'm an excellent cook & we eat really nice food all the time at home but im just not prepared to spend my days / evenings in the kitchen.

We've been on some longer trips of a month in Europe / Australia & that's different. It's more similar to living there so first days we'll stock from the supermarket & i would cook simple, fresh stuff there. We'd also eat out a lot to try out new restaurants etc too

But if I'm away for a few days to a week I have zero interest in making lasagne from scratch. It's a total waste of my valuable time imo.

Also on a side note I see a lot of people saying they come home to make dinner & that's it - into pj's to watch TV for the night. Again that's an alien concept for us on holidays!

We love city breaks & we book an apartment rigbt in the heart of the city (usually in the old town if there is one)

We always have specific stuff we want to do & see & i love doing all the research & planning.

A typical day would include getting up & dh loves to go out early to get fresh bakery goods- croissants in paris, churros in Spain etc with coffee & juice & he brings it back & I'll of often have mine in bed with book or on a balcony overlooking the city if we have one

Up & ready then to head out to explore for the morning. If we're heading to a specific place like a museum or gallery I'll research nice lunch places in that location.

After lunch we'll wander, sight see, stop for coffee/ wine / beer / aperol etc watch the world go by.

Perhaps go visit something else we want to do or see particularly if it's an area of a city - we'll wander around & stop as we please.

We usually head back to accommodation around 4 /5pm & have some snacks- local crisps, olives, salami, wine / beer & a relax that usually involves a little lie down on the bed. Then a shower & get changed for the evening.

We go out for a drink & then I'll either have a booking in a restaurant or we'll have scouted one earlier in the day.

I'll look up places to eat under a range of criteria - sometimes best traditional food or best pizza or best tapas, best seafood etc

We're not really into fine dining too much but we will have a range of experiences

We absolutely love visiting the 'grand cafes' in Europe & make a point of researching of them & we go & have coffee & cake their & soak up the atmosphere

We go out every night. If we've eaten a big lunch we will have lighter smaller dishes at night or vice versa

We love a stroll around to find a gorgeous wine bar & sit for a few hours.

Often I'll book tickets to an event- music (we love jazz) & we've also gone to opera houses etc or we might be there to attend an event (exhibition opening etc) if we've friends living in that city we'll have dinner & drinks with them.

Our dc are young adults now & love coming with us. Often dc might have a friend with them & they'll be gone doing their own thing & we meet for lunch or dinner or a drink etc

When dc was a baby we brought her out with us for dinners) & when a toddler we tried to make our main meal at lunchtime as she needed to be in bed early enough

I didn't enjoy those hemmed in days as much though we always got nice food in & wine etc

Once she got big enough she came with us again. She's v adventurous with food & we all love going out

On longer trips we'd buy nice food in a deli or supermarket to just heat up. Or we'd order in & about every 3rd or 4th night we'd be out

But even if we'd eaten in we'd go out got a walk / drink after

I just could not sit around the apartment all night watching TV- i can do that at home any night. I'd hate to do it in an exciting busy new place!!!

OP posts:
monkeysox · 20/06/2025 12:38

If self catering abroad we go out for evening meal. Im not cooking on holiday.

Sahara123 · 20/06/2025 12:20

Sounds amazing by the way, can I come ‘

Sahara123 · 20/06/2025 12:19

SeaToSki · 20/06/2025 11:51

I should have been more descriptive! We mostly only do this when we fly to the Caribbean to sail a boat around the islands, it is the most fantastic holiday, but the catering can be tricky if you dont want to anchor in a bay with a restaurant on the beach every night. The cooking space and appliances are quite limited on the boat, and the availability of food in the supermarkets can vary a lot as it depends on what shipments have come in that week. I also struggle to trust some of the food handling for the frozen and chilled foods since I have seen loads sitting on the docks for hours clearly going above food safe temps. So we take down our meat, frozen and some select ham/salami/cheddar options for sandwiches. It works really well, but you have to check the bag, there is no way TSA would let it through in hand luggage 🤣

I had visions of x ray machines picking up images of legs of lamb🤣

SeaToSki · 20/06/2025 11:51

Sahara123 · 18/06/2025 14:14

You take meat abroad on a plane ?!
Is that even allowed, I’ve had a yoghurt confiscated before now , we needed it as daughter takes her medication in it.
They do have meat abroad, part of the pleasure for me is discovering new things in markets , or even supermarkets, a huge French supermarket is a wondrous thing. !

I should have been more descriptive! We mostly only do this when we fly to the Caribbean to sail a boat around the islands, it is the most fantastic holiday, but the catering can be tricky if you dont want to anchor in a bay with a restaurant on the beach every night. The cooking space and appliances are quite limited on the boat, and the availability of food in the supermarkets can vary a lot as it depends on what shipments have come in that week. I also struggle to trust some of the food handling for the frozen and chilled foods since I have seen loads sitting on the docks for hours clearly going above food safe temps. So we take down our meat, frozen and some select ham/salami/cheddar options for sandwiches. It works really well, but you have to check the bag, there is no way TSA would let it through in hand luggage 🤣

onlymethen · 20/06/2025 08:32

If in the uk I take all the frozen leftovers that are in the freezer, or I will cook extras on the run up to the holiday and freeze portions. If abroad lunch out and bbq local fish and meat with lovely salads and bread.

Auburngal · 20/06/2025 07:50

On UK holidays my parents take a kitchen knife, their salad keeper, clip-its, food bags, kitchen roll (doubles as napkins). Plus reuse the tuppaware type pots from their picnic on the way down and the meal on the first night.

On their holidays to Madeira, clip its, food bags for their coffee and tea bags (decaf)

SheSpeaks · 19/06/2025 23:49

Roast dinner, always - some kind of curry night usually with more than one type of curry and rice, homemade naan, bought in poppadoms but I make the chutneys and dips. Some kind of pasta night usually with a big lasagna and some other pasta dishes, salads and garlic bread. Fajitas, build your own burritos, roast ducks with hoi sin and pancakes, chow mein, pho, and so on. Crowd pleasers. Lunches - I make soups in bulk, make sausage rolls although I buy the puff pastry, cheese straws, seed breads with fritattas, salads and salsas, jacket potato bar with multiple toppings.

ObViously dessert is needed every day, so sticky toffee pudding, bread and butter pudding, pavlova, fruit salads, fruit crumbles, treacle sponge, profiteroles, the type of things everyone likes.

Just basic crowd pleaser to make sure everyone is fed and full

Tiredofwhataboutery · 19/06/2025 23:43

Easy things steak/ pan fried salmon/ roast chicken and salad, lots of anti pasti bread meat, cheese and olives. Posh puddings thst come in little pots ( less washing up) pastries snd berries/fruit for breakfast. I bring the frozen ones defrost overnight then they puff up nicely.

Talipesmum · 19/06/2025 23:36

Kumqwhat · 19/06/2025 17:47

Nobody has mentioned bringing teabags from home. I don’t really care what we eat so long as I’ve got a brew first thing.

You can get a long way on paprika crisps, a baguette and some tomatoes. Ice creams to top up.

We are a cooking-from-scratch household of extreme health food the rest of the year, but I can’t be doing with prep or clearing up in a tiny ill-equipped kitchen on hols.

Totally. Pack of good assam teabags or similar to get us up in the morning. After that I’ll go for coffee or whatever, but morning tea and afternoon tea options just need to be there in case of yellow Lipton doom.

VanCleefArpels · 19/06/2025 17:50

Breakfast - cereal, toast, fruit etc

Lunch- picky bits: bread, cheese, cooked meats, salad or pizza or nuggets etc

Dinner - I take a selection of sachets eg fajita mix, Maggi seasoning bags, Nando’s seasoning etc and just do these with chicken or veggies, salad and bread , or pasta pesto, pizza etc. Nothing special but v easy to prepare

SarfLondonLad · 19/06/2025 17:48

Coffee and toast for breakfast,

All other meals were eaten out. We chose the holiday place solely on the number of decent restaurants in a 10 mile radius,

Kumqwhat · 19/06/2025 17:47

Nobody has mentioned bringing teabags from home. I don’t really care what we eat so long as I’ve got a brew first thing.

You can get a long way on paprika crisps, a baguette and some tomatoes. Ice creams to top up.

We are a cooking-from-scratch household of extreme health food the rest of the year, but I can’t be doing with prep or clearing up in a tiny ill-equipped kitchen on hols.

mambojambodothetango · 19/06/2025 17:46

Barbecue mostly. Buy some nice local meat or fish, make a salad, bingo. But I always take along ingredients for a simple pasta dish and something from the freezer for the first night (assuming not flying). By the time you're there it's defrosted and you have a tasty casserole or chili to reheat. It's also nice to go to local markets and see what they have - you might be inspired. Sometimes self catering places have tons of condiments and stuff previous people have left behind - otherwise you can just take a small jar (those mini jam pots are great) with your favourite spice in and a small olive oil. Flying is harder but we just go to supermarket on day 1 and buy small quantities. There's inevitably some waste but you can usually leave stuff behind and the owner or cleaner can have it.

Words · 19/06/2025 17:41

@languedoc1 . You're right. Just brought back happy memories. I was thinking of UK sc.

UndermyShoeJoe · 19/06/2025 17:40

@Words yes always take your own knife. Holidays knife’s just don’t cut it.

Words · 19/06/2025 17:38

Take good oil, decent s and p and a sharp knife ( or knife sharpener)

Words · 19/06/2025 17:36

Generally what I would eat t home.normally I would roast a chicken the first evening. Helps you get a feel for the stove, then you have lots for the following days.