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Abortion decriminalisation - how the far right will use it?

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Movingdream · 18/06/2025 08:35

I think the parliament made the right decision yesterday to decriminalise abortion. This means women won’t be investigated for late miscarriages and stillbirths, which must just feel like one trauma after another.

The 24 week limit remains in place and you would still only see doctors performing later abortions due to medical issues. As people on here know, the vast majority of abortions take place before 12 weeks and the few that don’t, normally are performed due to a medical issue for mother or baby. After 24 weeks, a woman would have to self induce an abortion for non medical reasons as doctors wouldn’t perform it, which would pretty much be labour, how would a woman even do this?

But ‘the UK has legalised abortion up until birth’ is the soundbite I keep seeing from the fundamentalist right wing types. This isn’t true. It worries me though because they’ll run with it and I’m concerned things swing the other way.

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SameOldSongs · 18/06/2025 11:04

PandoraSocks · 18/06/2025 10:57

I despair a little reading some of these posts.

Do women really think so little of their fellow women that they imagine there will suddenly be loads of women casually lying to get abortion pills and aborting at at a late stage?

No-one has said there will be loads of such cases. Clearly there are some though as recent court cases have shown. We have laws about lots of things which don’t happen often, don’t we?

MyHouseInThePrairie · 18/06/2025 11:02

What was missing is a big campaign on how many women are getting under investigation each year for ‘illegal abortion’, are arrested whilst in hospital, have their (living) children taken away and out in foster care for what is actually a miscarriage.
The impact in those children, the fact mothers then struggle to get their children back etc…..

When you know the reality - that those arrests were usually done following ‘tip offs’ with all that’s coming with it - then you realise how much that was needed.

PandoraSocks · 18/06/2025 10:57

I despair a little reading some of these posts.

Do women really think so little of their fellow women that they imagine there will suddenly be loads of women casually lying to get abortion pills and aborting at at a late stage?

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 10:54

Hedgehogbrown · 18/06/2025 10:44

Even if that baby is 34 weeks?

Yes. Because to me, that’s what being pro-choice means. It doesn’t mean I like the reasoning or the choice of the woman who made it, nor that I’d make that choice for myself, but I believe that it should be there. And beyond being pro-choice, I don’t believe the world needs more unwanted children. I don’t believe unwanted children fare very well in life. I don’t believe that the apocryphal woman who might choose late termination because she wants to go on a reality TV show is likely to parent her unwanted child well if forced to have it. I don’t believe it’s to anybody’s benefit that we force a life of being unwanted, and all the repercussions of that, onto a child, purely because of some arbitrary point in gestation, nor for some vague idea of what morality is. I think it’s far less moral to insist that unwanted babies are born to women who don’t want them.

In reality, if we fully legalised abortion to term, there would be a significant amount of debate about what we do with near-term foetuses whose mothers want to end their pregnancies, and it would very likely end up being live induction of birth and adoption. But we aren’t legalising abortion to term; we’re simply removing a criminal penalty.

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 10:49

Sorry I meant they don’t happen in the sense you can’t go to a clinic or doctors and get pills or surgery over 24 weeks unless medically required

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Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/06/2025 10:46

Hedgehogbrown · 18/06/2025 10:39

You keep saying they are not happening but they have happened. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-65581850.amp
This woman took abortion pills when her baby was between 32 and 34 weeks, the labour took hours. Anyone who has had a pre term baby would be really sad for this baby who might have survived if she had called an ambulance. It would have suffered as well.

Exactly. A viable baby suffered and died all because she wanted to get away with cheating on her partner.

Hedgehogbrown · 18/06/2025 10:44

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 10:06

This woman sold her living, sentient child. I think her seeking a late term medical abortion so she could sell a non-living child’s body parts would have probably been the “better”, for want of another word, outcome.

I believe the only reason a woman needs to have an abortion is that she doesn’t want to be pregnant. My view doesn’t change because she specifically doesn’t want to be pregnant with a boy or a girl, or pregnant with a disabled baby, or pregnant with a baby whose father is a particular man, or pregnant because she wants to go on Love Island, or whatever.

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Even if that baby is 34 weeks?

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:39

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 10:26

@Zebedee999 it worries me because I’m a woman who wants access to abortion. It worries me because as the law is, abortions are available, but nobody is forced to have an abortion (excluding medical). Whereas if the pro lifers used this as ammunition and got their way, then women wouldn’t have the access they currently have to abortion. Do you see how having abortion as an option doesn’t force pro lifers (or anyone) to have an abortion but taking it away, forces pregnancy on millions of women?

This won’t happen imo but there may be concern over access and I don’t think the public would be blasé about cases. It could put the debate back in the spotlight when it’s been largely left alone until telephone access due to Covid.

user101101 · 18/06/2025 10:39

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 09:51

On balance, I think that if a baby is otherwise going to be born to parents who so desperately don’t want it to be of a particular sex that they would consider a near-term abortion, it’s probably best for the child they don’t have that baby in the first place.

Though I don’t think it’s a particularly pressing argument anymore anyway, now that antenatal testing has advanced so much. Parents can find out the sex of their baby from well before 24 weeks already and abort if it’s the “wrong” one.

I really agree with this. A baby needs so much more than just being born. A healthy, sane mother who will give the baby love and is capable of taking care of it is crucial.

Hedgehogbrown · 18/06/2025 10:39

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 09:31

Oh yeah @Slothtoes i know, it’s just there’s an immediate emotional response to statements like ‘35 week abortions’, even when they’re not happening (it’s still a 24 week limit).

You keep saying they are not happening but they have happened. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-65581850.amp
This woman took abortion pills when her baby was between 32 and 34 weeks, the labour took hours. Anyone who has had a pre term baby would be really sad for this baby who might have survived if she had called an ambulance. It would have suffered as well.

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EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:34

JHound · 18/06/2025 10:28

I mean if you cannot tell the difference between a woman exhibiting autonomy over her womb (in a late abortion scenario) or smothering a baby that is independent of its mothers body, I don’t know what to say.

But once again this will be a tiny minority of cases which a woman will have good
reason for.

Do you think there should be no controls on access to the medication? As currently seems to be the case.

Dangermoo · 18/06/2025 10:32

JHound · 18/06/2025 10:28

I mean if you cannot tell the difference between a woman exhibiting autonomy over her womb (in a late abortion scenario) or smothering a baby that is independent of its mothers body, I don’t know what to say.

But once again this will be a tiny minority of cases which a woman will have good
reason for.

We don't always agree, but a brilliant post 👏

PandoraSocks · 18/06/2025 10:31

RobinStrike · 18/06/2025 09:59

I don’t think things will swing to the right on this, but I do think if people believe it removes protections from women and children because of being given abortion pills by phone that it will produce an anti government backlash. The first time there is a case in the papers of a woman using pills at say 35 weeks to abort a viable healthy foetus there will be uproar in the papers. It will happen. There are always rare cases of things that are listed as “it will never happen”. Support for mothers should mean this can’t be done without an in person interviews-I think this could be done in a pharmacy.

There was uproar over the case of Carla Foster, who received a prison sentence for using abortion pills at between 32-34 weeks. The uproar was not against Foster but against her prison sentence. The sentence was suspended on appeal.

If that happened now, there would be no uproar because there would be no court case and so nothing to report and rightly so.

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 10:31

I hope you are right @Dangermoo

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Dangermoo · 18/06/2025 10:29

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 10:26

@Zebedee999 it worries me because I’m a woman who wants access to abortion. It worries me because as the law is, abortions are available, but nobody is forced to have an abortion (excluding medical). Whereas if the pro lifers used this as ammunition and got their way, then women wouldn’t have the access they currently have to abortion. Do you see how having abortion as an option doesn’t force pro lifers (or anyone) to have an abortion but taking it away, forces pregnancy on millions of women?

I think your worrying is taking us to a backward country, which the UK is not.

JHound · 18/06/2025 10:28

Autumn38 · 18/06/2025 09:17

I am actually not convinced that this is a far right issue. I think most people are horrified by the thought of a late term abortion and the government has basically now made it seem like there is no legal distinction between an early abortion of a fetus and and the abortion of a late-term fully formed baby. I think it may make people question the morality of the whole issue to be honest. If the government is really suggesting that aborting a baby of 35 weeks is not a criminal act (however unlikely this scenario actually is) then surely we have to question the whole moral basis. How on earth can it be justified that to abort a late term baby is not a crime but if it was born and then smothered to death, it would be a crime. I think it’s asking people to bend their minds just a bit too far, to be honest.

I mean if you cannot tell the difference between a woman exhibiting autonomy over her womb (in a late abortion scenario) or smothering a baby that is independent of its mothers body, I don’t know what to say.

But once again this will be a tiny minority of cases which a woman will have good
reason for.

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 10:28

I mean that women could feel forced into an abortion if the pregnancy was a danger to their life, not that a medical professional would literally ever force an abortion btw!

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Movingdream · 18/06/2025 10:26

@Zebedee999 it worries me because I’m a woman who wants access to abortion. It worries me because as the law is, abortions are available, but nobody is forced to have an abortion (excluding medical). Whereas if the pro lifers used this as ammunition and got their way, then women wouldn’t have the access they currently have to abortion. Do you see how having abortion as an option doesn’t force pro lifers (or anyone) to have an abortion but taking it away, forces pregnancy on millions of women?

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JHound · 18/06/2025 10:24

I am ashamed of my ignorance as I had no idea women were being / could be investigated for late miscarriages or stillbirths.

That’s horrifying.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:24

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:23

In that case it's anecdotal and really a bit irresponsible.

Agree with you

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:23

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/06/2025 10:19

Perfectly worded and its horrifying and shocking that anyone sees anything any differently.

Termination is a serious procedure and needs to be undertaken in a medical setting for the exact reasons discussed.

I cant even buy more than 2 packets of fucking paracetamol at once but someone can have a fraudulent phone call and order pills to kill a viable baby, potentially under coercion of partner or under a moment of madness / desperation which if they had actually been seen by a HCP they could have received the help and support they need.

Yes there’s no guardrails, it’s just access to medication that I assume shouldn’t be accessed at that term.

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:23

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 10:20

His personal, professional experience over many years.

In that case it's anecdotal and really a bit irresponsible.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/06/2025 10:22

No3392 · 18/06/2025 10:11

So you believe a very minute few should be the reason to keep investigating women going through one of the most harrowing things a woman can go through?

'oh, sorry, I know your baby just died, but I have to arrest you, because there is a minute chance that XYZ down the road might kill her baby for organs'

30 million women deserve protection.

Well a really simple way to prevent this is ensure all terminations are undertaken in a medical setting with a full audit trail.
Not basically condone a wild west environment.

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 10:20

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:03

I'd like to know where he gets those statistics from, and what the extent of those investigations are. I suspect that in the vast majority of cases if there is no evidence beyond the fact of a late miscarriage or stillbirth nothing happens beyond a few questions to clinicians, and the woman never even gets to know about the investigation.

His personal, professional experience over many years.

NoSuchBass · 18/06/2025 10:20

HeyThereDelila · 18/06/2025 09:56

YABVU. It’s not the far right who will go to town on this - it’ll be the general public being outraged.

I’m a left wing pro choice feminist and I’m appalled at what parliament has done. There’ll be a huge backlash which will undermine the abortion rights we do have- and killing a baby past 24 weeks is killing a baby. It’s unacceptable.

Why do none of you know what the root cause of this is? Abortion pills by post being kept after Covid, without needing an in person appointment to assess length of gestation. The late term investigations by police directly correlate to when Labour MPs voted to keep abortion pills by post - it’s their screw up. Before 2020 late term abortions and investigations didn’t happen.

Now, a woman could call up BPAS at 30 weeks, pretend she’s only 8 weeks, take mifepristone and kill a near full term baby. But now there’s nothing that can be done about it and no mechanism for the state to even record that it’s happening.

Absolute bloody clowns.

This is put really well.

So if you phone up and say you're 8 weeks, there are no checks, that you're actually 8 weeks?

Demonstrates HeadbandUnited point that not all women are gentle and virtuous: as much as any human.

And the govt appears to have just removed the protection for tiny babies, from those few who meet that point. I'm not sure why. The resulting perils don't appear to be worth the gains.