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MPs vote to decriminalise abortion

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AirborneElephant · 17/06/2025 19:34

AIBU to be thrilled! Sorry if there’s already a thread, couldn’t see one.

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Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 20:45

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 20:15

Nothing is being overridden, the law is unchanged.

One law is unchanged - that doctors cannot organise an abortion past 24 weeks unless in exceptional circumstances - but another law IS changed in that by removing the risk of prosecution, women can carry out a diy job at home.

How ridiculous. How dangerous for these highly vulnerable women.

With proper abortion services you get counselling. These women will be popping pills often with no clue what is going to happen next.

It is going to be a disaster.

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 20:41

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 20:31

And all this happened in countries that have already decriminalised abortion?

You must have some data on that.

The point I was making is that this situation isn’t clear cut. No one on here really knows if ending a baby’s life during labour would now be decriminalised, or if the law will need to be made more complex to keep this an offence in some situations.

It is definitely a possibility so would need to be covered under legislation one way or the other.

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 20:31

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 20:28

Certainly a possibility yes. Women who end their baby’s life soon after they’re born (which does happen, so not just a wild hypothetical situation) can face criminal charges.

This could allow them to do so even a hour or less before birth but guarantee no criminal investigation, regardless of circumstances. Or if that’s not the case, the law might get even more confusing in terms of it only being decriminalised in certain circumstances (eg certain backstreet abortion methods only, only after a certain amount of weeks past 24 but not complete full term).

And all this happened in countries that have already decriminalised abortion?

You must have some data on that.

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 20:28

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 20:17

Your interpretation seems to be that women are now going to end their pregnancy during labour, again seriously?

Certainly a possibility yes. Women who end their baby’s life soon after they’re born (which does happen, so not just a wild hypothetical situation) can face criminal charges.

This could allow them to do so even a hour or less before birth but guarantee no criminal investigation, regardless of circumstances. Or if that’s not the case, the law might get even more confusing in terms of it only being decriminalised in certain circumstances (eg certain backstreet abortion methods only, only after a certain amount of weeks past 24 but not complete full term).

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 20:17

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 20:12

So your interpretation is that anyone purposefully ending their baby’s life during childbirth is no longer classed as an offence.

I feel that this will be controversial to many and not something I agree with overall. We will have to see what the guidance actually says but this could lead to more confusion and backlash.

Your interpretation seems to be that women are now going to end their pregnancy during labour, again seriously?

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 20:15

Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 20:07

Why are you thrilled? Why should we override Parliament's 24 week limit? It wasn't in any party's manifesto. It apparently is designed to help a small number of women, but it is potentially going to impact a larger number of completely viable babies, who can now be legally aborted. Of course no doctor can be involved so it all sounds highly risky. And what happens to the baby/foetus? There has been no debate. I am appalled.

Nothing is being overridden, the law is unchanged.

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 20:12

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 19:59

I’m not sure if you are being deliberately obtuse or not grasping it but abortion is legal under strict guidelines in England

so termination of pregnancy outside of those guidelines is not legal

that hasn’t changed

the woman just wouldn’t face a criminal prosecution - there would still be an investigation and if , say, abortion medication had been used the supplier might face prosecution

So your interpretation is that anyone purposefully ending their baby’s life during childbirth is no longer classed as an offence.

I feel that this will be controversial to many and not something I agree with overall. We will have to see what the guidance actually says but this could lead to more confusion and backlash.

Arran2024 · 18/06/2025 20:07

AirborneElephant · 17/06/2025 19:34

AIBU to be thrilled! Sorry if there’s already a thread, couldn’t see one.

Why are you thrilled? Why should we override Parliament's 24 week limit? It wasn't in any party's manifesto. It apparently is designed to help a small number of women, but it is potentially going to impact a larger number of completely viable babies, who can now be legally aborted. Of course no doctor can be involved so it all sounds highly risky. And what happens to the baby/foetus? There has been no debate. I am appalled.

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 19:59

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:55

It could be classed as ending a pregnancy and therefore a late abortion (so decriminalised in all circumstances), as the baby isn’t physically born.

We don’t know yet but it just shows how all of this may not be clear cut.

I’m not sure if you are being deliberately obtuse or not grasping it but abortion is legal under strict guidelines in England

so termination of pregnancy outside of those guidelines is not legal

that hasn’t changed

the woman just wouldn’t face a criminal prosecution - there would still be an investigation and if , say, abortion medication had been used the supplier might face prosecution

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 19:56

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:46

Using potential high profile cases of women ending pregnancies at full term to say things have gone too far and make legislation even stricter (eg wanting no abortions after 24 weeks, whereas currently this is allowed for serious health reasons).

Not saying this is right, but I think it’s a real possibility.

Do you seriously think more women will end pregnancies full term?

All these what if scenarios are getting rather silly.

The law has not changed, women will now receive care and support instead of handcuffs.

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:55

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 19:47

But that’s NOT abortion so what does it have to do with abortion rights?

It could be classed as ending a pregnancy and therefore a late abortion (so decriminalised in all circumstances), as the baby isn’t physically born.

We don’t know yet but it just shows how all of this may not be clear cut.

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 19:47

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:09

Personally I feel a woman who purposefully ends her full term baby’s life during childbirth would need investigating at the least.

I believe saying otherwise would only push abortion rights back the other way further down the line.

But that’s NOT abortion so what does it have to do with abortion rights?

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:46

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 19:42

What future abortion rights?

Using potential high profile cases of women ending pregnancies at full term to say things have gone too far and make legislation even stricter (eg wanting no abortions after 24 weeks, whereas currently this is allowed for serious health reasons).

Not saying this is right, but I think it’s a real possibility.

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 19:42

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:28

It may well be that no legal action is taken, but completely removing the option to do so if deemed necessary could also be problematic and cause a backlash affecting abortion rights in the future.

What future abortion rights?

SouthLondonMum22 · 18/06/2025 19:33

Agenoria · 18/06/2025 18:48

If it's a choice between the life of the mother or the life of the 25 week old foetus, clearly the mother comes first.

If it's a choice between the life of a healthy 25 week foetus and the mother's wish not to spend another 15 weeks being pregnant, the answer is less clear-cut.

Not for me.

The woman always comes first because it is her body and she should have bodily autonomy.

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:28

AirborneElephant · 18/06/2025 19:17

Personally I feel that a woman who purposefully ends her full term baby’s life during actual childbirth at the exact point they are emerging from the birth canal almost certainly needs sectioning for serious mental health support rather than a police investigation. You’re really stretching for emotive examples here, and as others have said it would be very doubtful that such a situation would be considered an abortion in any case.

It may well be that no legal action is taken, but completely removing the option to do so if deemed necessary could also be problematic and cause a backlash affecting abortion rights in the future.

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/06/2025 19:21

By the time of the next election, most people won't care. Just like most people don't care about gay marriage now, despite the consternation at the time.🤷‍♀️

Notsuchafattynow · 18/06/2025 19:17

BeachLife2 · 17/06/2025 20:17

This is excellent news if you want to roll back abortion rights.

My prediction is that Reform will now use this as a campaign issue. Especially once there is a case where a baby has been aborted after 24 weeks and suffered significant pain.

There will be no more abortion once Reform gain power in 2029.

I hate to say it, but those who have pushed what was a settled issue into a culture war battle will only have themselves to blame.

Out of all the things wrong with this country, late abortion is not one of them.

However, it would be great if Reform have it high on it's manifesto so we all get to make informed choices when we don't vote for them.

AirborneElephant · 18/06/2025 19:17

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:09

Personally I feel a woman who purposefully ends her full term baby’s life during childbirth would need investigating at the least.

I believe saying otherwise would only push abortion rights back the other way further down the line.

Personally I feel that a woman who purposefully ends her full term baby’s life during actual childbirth at the exact point they are emerging from the birth canal almost certainly needs sectioning for serious mental health support rather than a police investigation. You’re really stretching for emotive examples here, and as others have said it would be very doubtful that such a situation would be considered an abortion in any case.

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BeachLife2 · 18/06/2025 19:16

@Meadowfinch

The majority of the public support the current position. Only 8% wanted to see the legal limits on abortion reduced.

On your main point though, the majority of men under 25 do not support abortion.

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 19:09

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 19:04

A legal abortion is one that happens under the existing abortion legislation so no

would the woman be investigated, arrested and charged also no

Personally I feel a woman who purposefully ends her full term baby’s life during childbirth would need investigating at the least.

I believe saying otherwise would only push abortion rights back the other way further down the line.

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 19:08

Couldn’t it now be considered a late legal abortion as the baby is not actually born yet?

I think you are tying yourself up in knots a little and confusing things

A legal abortion post 24 weeks is carried out by medical professionals under existing law

A woman (extremely hypothetically) ending a babies life during labour would therefore never be legal

the woman would no longer be criminalised though but treated medically

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 19:04

A legal abortion is one that happens under the existing abortion legislation so no

would the woman be investigated, arrested and charged also no

Lilac90 · 18/06/2025 18:58

ghostyslovesheets · 18/06/2025 18:34

Because killing a baby during labour isn’t abortion so not decriminalised and killing a baby post birth is illegal

do you not think these things are medically investigated?

Couldn’t it now be considered a late legal abortion as the baby is not actually born yet?

Meadowfinch · 18/06/2025 18:54

BeachLife2 · 17/06/2025 20:17

This is excellent news if you want to roll back abortion rights.

My prediction is that Reform will now use this as a campaign issue. Especially once there is a case where a baby has been aborted after 24 weeks and suffered significant pain.

There will be no more abortion once Reform gain power in 2029.

I hate to say it, but those who have pushed what was a settled issue into a culture war battle will only have themselves to blame.

Most men I know support the right to abortion because they want to avoid the expense of an unplanned baby. In my experience they are keener on abortion than women.

So who do you think will vote for a change to the law? Not the majority of men or the majority of women. If Reform are elected and try to pull that stunt, they'll be chucked back out again as soon as humanly possible.

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