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Make up on the train: get up ten mins earlier

259 replies

Trainarmrestfairy · 17/06/2025 07:01

Just get up ten minutes earlier!! It’s not hard.

You’re taking up two seats. Your elbows are jabbing the person next to you. Your setting spray just hit me in the bloody face. And, even worse, you’ve painted your eyebrows on wonky because you’re on a moving bloody train!!!!

Why do people not get up earlier?!

OP posts:
Allergycream · 17/06/2025 15:51

It wouldn't bother me one bit.
I really dont care if people put makeup on when on a train or what they wear or where they are going.
I was colouring in a book today on the train would i be judged.
Yes it was a kids colouring book.

Orangeandpurpletulips · 17/06/2025 15:28

BootsTheOptitians · 17/06/2025 13:34

Jesus Fecking Christ.

'Not rational' is quite the miracle of understatement.

Beautifulhaiku · 17/06/2025 15:28

GinnyandGeorgia · 17/06/2025 10:10

It's lazy, and a bit pathetic to do your grooming in the train, but some people lack complete self-awareness.

I do love their mindset: could not possibly live without make-up, as must be spending 10mn to paint their face on public transport, but is ok for the world to see the process 😂
It usually end up with "all that for THAT? 😂😂"
Make-up is not a magical filter, in real life, it doesn't hide or transform as much as they think it does.

Reminds me of these tv shows were people are too "embarrassed" to do something in real life (medical, or clutter or what-have-you) but are happy to go on national tv to discuss it in details. Brilliant.

I’m not sure you realise how much this post says about you and the way you judge other women?

BootsTheOptitians · 17/06/2025 13:34

JamieCannister · 17/06/2025 09:13

I know it's not rational, but I regard doing make-up as similar to picking one's nose or cutting one's toe-nails... not to be done in public. I also regard it as a bit of a personal slight, in other words "you want to present to the world in your made-up, more glamourous way, but you don't respect me (and the other people on the train) enough to do it before you see us. We're the irrelevant people for whom you don't make an effort. Thanks."

Not saying its rational but that is how it makes me feel.

Not a big issue.

Jesus Fecking Christ.

luckylavender · 17/06/2025 13:04

Trainarmrestfairy · 17/06/2025 07:01

Just get up ten minutes earlier!! It’s not hard.

You’re taking up two seats. Your elbows are jabbing the person next to you. Your setting spray just hit me in the bloody face. And, even worse, you’ve painted your eyebrows on wonky because you’re on a moving bloody train!!!!

Why do people not get up earlier?!

100% this

KaleQueen · 17/06/2025 13:02

PopeJoan2 · 17/06/2025 11:56

You were resourceful enough to find time for a run. But you don’t think getting yourself presentable for work is a priority?

Ha. I was indeed resourceful enough to go for a run, correct! It was perfectly fine for me to decide to pop some make up on, on the bus. I imagine you’re the kind of person who’d plonk your judgy self down next to me, tut, then adopt the cats bum face when I called you out on your rude comments to me? Some people need to get a life. Or go for a run! Would highly recommend a dawn run. Keeps one wonderfully calm and mentally balanced 👍

Sofiewoo · 17/06/2025 12:23

JamieCannister · 17/06/2025 12:13

What makes you think that I think strangers should dress up for me?

When you took it as a “personal slight” and a sign that a stranger didn’t respect you enough to appear more glamorously??

Livpool · 17/06/2025 12:20

I hate this too and a couple of years ago ended up with foundation on my top when the woman next to me spilt some on me. Ruined the top as the stain wouldn’t come out. The train table was covered in foundation and powders

Trainarmrestfairy · 17/06/2025 12:20

Orangeandpurpletulips · 17/06/2025 12:15

Objecting to spray, being elbowed and things with smells- NBU.

Wonky eyebrows or other aspects of make up application that do not affect you-BU

True. Her wonky eyebrows did not have any impact on me (although the application of it certainly did).

But it was wonky enough that she would have been better placed doing it at home…

OP posts:
ThatLilacTiger · 17/06/2025 12:17

JamieCannister · 17/06/2025 12:13

What makes you think that I think strangers should dress up for me?

The words you said.

Branleuse · 17/06/2025 12:16

sweetpickle2 · 17/06/2025 09:41

I like it- I enjoy seeing how other people do their makeup.

Sooner a woman taking up space putting on mascara than being squashed between two manspreading guys in suits.

I quite like it too.

Its one of those things, like eating in public while walking that I had no idea was seen negatively.

Orangeandpurpletulips · 17/06/2025 12:15

Objecting to spray, being elbowed and things with smells- NBU.

Wonky eyebrows or other aspects of make up application that do not affect you-BU

JamieCannister · 17/06/2025 12:13

ThatLilacTiger · 17/06/2025 09:45

That is literally how it is though. You are the irrelevant people for whom I don't make an effort. What kind of crippling self importance would you need to have to think strangers should dress up for you? That's honestly fucking creepy.

What makes you think that I think strangers should dress up for me?

Maddy70 · 17/06/2025 12:09

It's a good use of time. Why not?

BIossomtoes · 17/06/2025 12:03

Make-up is not a magical filter, in real life, it doesn't hide or transform as much as they think it does.

Really? I watched a woman do her face on the train once and it completely transformed her. She was incredibly skilled, I subsequently copied a couple of her techniques.

JudgeJ · 17/06/2025 11:58

I once worked with a younger teacher who lived in roughly the same direction as me and I'd often see him at the traffic lights having a shave and once he had his shaver in one hand and a slice of toast in the other hand!

PopeJoan2 · 17/06/2025 11:56

KaleQueen · 17/06/2025 08:29

I was once discreetly doing make up
on a bus. I’d chosen a double seat miles away from anyone. A woman came and sat next to me. Fair enough. She squashed me a bit (I’m tiny she wasn’t) but fair enough. She then started tutting at me doing my make up. I ignored her. I then accidentally dropped something so I apologised and politely asked sorry can I just get that.
She snapped at me “oh for gods sake there is such a thing as getting up earlier to do your make up you know!!!”
I was so shocked.
I calmly replied.
”thanks for that advice. I’ve been up since 5.30. I’ve been for a run, I’ve got two children ready including a baby, I’ve dropped one a school one at nursery and I’m now on my way, slightly late, to my full time job. So I got up early but not quite early enough apparently. But yeah, I’ll bear that in mind for next time’
she adopted a face like a cats bum. When I got off (politely saying excuse me this is my stop) I told her ‘I hope you have a lovely day’
you never know why someone is applying make up on a train so mind your own business.

Edited

You were resourceful enough to find time for a run. But you don’t think getting yourself presentable for work is a priority?

sweetpickle2 · 17/06/2025 11:33

There was a thread on here recently about someone moaning that she couldn't freely poo in her work toilets because there were people in there doing their makeup, and a lot of the comments were berating them for not just doing it on the train (their make up, not their poo!)

Starlight1984 · 17/06/2025 10:56

Trainarmrestfairy · 17/06/2025 07:01

Just get up ten minutes earlier!! It’s not hard.

You’re taking up two seats. Your elbows are jabbing the person next to you. Your setting spray just hit me in the bloody face. And, even worse, you’ve painted your eyebrows on wonky because you’re on a moving bloody train!!!!

Why do people not get up earlier?!

What a load of rubbish.

How was she "taking up two seats" if you were sat next to her? How could you tell her eyebrows were "wonky"? Seriously you'd have to look pretty closely (and turn your head completely to face her) to notice that? You said in your other post it took her 15 minutes to do her mascara? Bullshit.
@
As for people saying why don't you do it in the toilets at work - well because I assume when you get to work you arrive either just before or at the time you start and can't exactly nip off to the loo for an hour to put your makeup on! You're not doing anything else on the train so that's why people do it.

eyeses · 17/06/2025 10:13

I thought you were BU till you said they used a spray. That's not ok. That can be done later in the open if really needed.
It is never ok to spray other people without either informed consent or as self defence reasonable force.
I'm not sure having wonky eyebrows is worse than any of the other things, that's not your problem.

GinnyandGeorgia · 17/06/2025 10:10

It's lazy, and a bit pathetic to do your grooming in the train, but some people lack complete self-awareness.

I do love their mindset: could not possibly live without make-up, as must be spending 10mn to paint their face on public transport, but is ok for the world to see the process 😂
It usually end up with "all that for THAT? 😂😂"
Make-up is not a magical filter, in real life, it doesn't hide or transform as much as they think it does.

Reminds me of these tv shows were people are too "embarrassed" to do something in real life (medical, or clutter or what-have-you) but are happy to go on national tv to discuss it in details. Brilliant.

ScupperedbytheSea · 17/06/2025 10:04

I do this, even though I know it gets disapproval.

I get up at 5.50am on a work day and have a long train ride. I'm a very compact operator. No elbows, spritzing or anything else.

As a now middle-aged women, I'm so over this type of judgy bullshit. Lots of reasons why people can be annoying or inconsiderate in general life. No point listing them all here. But women doing makeup is an easy target.

Itiswhysofew · 17/06/2025 10:04

Took an hour😲

I love watching people apply their make-up.

ruethewhirl · 17/06/2025 10:04

Well, it isn’t all that straightforward for some of us to ‘just’ get up ten minutes earlier, but I agree they shouldn’t be inconveniencing other passengers. Refreshing lippie is one thing, but a full-on makeup job not so much. They should probably just leave the makeup off if they’ve not had time.

HogBrush · 17/06/2025 10:03

It’s more the jabbing of elbows and the spray getting on me, now that would annoy me, but if it’s just putting on make up and it’s not in my personal space, I couldn’t give 2 hoots. I’ve done it before.

I’ve been on the tube a few times where people have been clipping their finger nails and the nails are flying EVERYWHERE. No man bashing, but it was always men! Also seen few people eating greasy food after a night out and wiping their hands on the seats🤮

Honestly, there are some real rotters about.

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