i recently went on a holiday of a lifetime and it was touch and go if we went due to fil illness and on the way up to the airport I texted my best friend of 35 years to ask if I had upset her as she had been one word answers to my text and she said yes she was p**d off with me as I didn’t attend her daughters birthday party in a local pub and I could have gone on my own if my husband didn’t want to go. The reason I didn’t go was because my husband had had a phone call two days previous to say his father only had a short time left but he pulled through but was still very ill and my husband couldn’t face going to the party and I didn’t want to leave him at home. I am absolutely furious with my friend as it ruined the enjoyment to the start of my long awaited holiday. Since coming home I have cut her out of my life as I am so upset with the lack of consideration towards me there was no thought at all. Am I r being unreasonable?