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Hotel rooms should have internal lock?

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TheNavygravy · 16/06/2025 16:12

My newly turned 18 year old has just went to Rome with her best friend for a holiday. When they arrived they were greeted by a male Asian receptionist who had very little English or Italian. They checked in and discovered their bathroom was dirty (used soap, towels etc). On highlighting this 5 male cleaners arrived to clean the room. Then they discovered the internal lock to the hotel door doesn’t work (just turns around without engaging the bolt). The receptionist/manager is insisting there is no problem as you can only enter with an electronic key. They don’t feel safe but finding somewhere else will be expensive. They are exhausted and planning to stay at least tonight but my spidey senses aren’t happy. They have seen no female staff and no other guests. Am I unreasonable for thinking all hotel rooms should have working internal locks/deadbolts/chain?

Should I interfere in their first solo trip and bite the bullet with paying over the odds for new last minute accommodation?

OP posts:
englishandelegant · 16/06/2025 16:40

As a mum I’d pay the extra for my child’s safety. Doesn’t seem a risk worth taking.

MauriceTheMussel · 16/06/2025 16:36

TallulahBetty · 16/06/2025 16:24

There's always one. OP explained how he didn't speak much Italian or English

Edited

Then just say that instead of superfluously including his ethnicity.

fiorentina · 16/06/2025 16:34

They could go out and buy a cheap doorstop to block the door and put furniture behind the door if they are nervous. When I was younger I stayed at a hostel/hotel where the door looked like it could be kicked in super easily and remember I couldn’t sleep well.

TheNavygravy · 16/06/2025 16:31

User2454664 · 16/06/2025 16:27

How many stars and how much did the hotel cost?

7.3 on Booking.com, no mention of security issues. Close to train station so central-ish. Paid about £80 per night so definitely economy but not the cheapest place.

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mrsjoyfulprizeforraffiawork · 16/06/2025 16:28

She and her friend need to travel with a rubber doorstop. Old backpacker here.

QuickFawn · 16/06/2025 16:27

not being able to lock their door would concern me, id pay for them to move somewhere else

for future trips they can buy alarmed door wedges which would stop someone being able to get into their room
and make a hell of racket when they tried

User2454664 · 16/06/2025 16:27

How many stars and how much did the hotel cost?

TheNavygravy · 16/06/2025 16:25

rwalker · 16/06/2025 16:22

Probably to old lock on the door they have disabled when replacing electronic locks

Thanks, that makes sense and makes me feel a little better.

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TheNavygravy · 16/06/2025 16:25

LettingyougoMovingOn · 16/06/2025 16:14

Yes i agree about the lock
but I'm not sure why you said he was Asian

To explain he has little English or Italian so communication is difficult. He just keeps saying “no problem” to all our concerns.

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TallulahBetty · 16/06/2025 16:24

LettingyougoMovingOn · 16/06/2025 16:14

Yes i agree about the lock
but I'm not sure why you said he was Asian

There's always one. OP explained how he didn't speak much Italian or English

rwalker · 16/06/2025 16:22

Probably to old lock on the door they have disabled when replacing electronic locks

Backtoreality1 · 16/06/2025 16:18

Defintitely - pay for a hotel....this doesn't sound safe

LettingyougoMovingOn · 16/06/2025 16:14

Yes i agree about the lock
but I'm not sure why you said he was Asian

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