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People need to think more outside the box with eating in hot weather

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Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 07:31

Worked at a supermarket. When we had warm weather like we are forecast for the next week, the salad section- more so with lettuce, we ran out. Customers were moaning about no lettuce/bags of salad leaves. “You can’t have salad without lettuce”. You can! The dictionary definition of salad is a “dish mainly of cold and raw vegetables usually with hot and cold protein or carbs”. Where is the lettuce featured? Plus I had salad when eating out. On a few occasions, I had no lettuce. Various tomatoes, onions etc.

Then overhead people say “I’m sick of salads” by day 5 of the warm weather. Do people who live where hot summers are the norm, eat salads all the time? No! I know that their homes are better to deal with hot weather as our homes are designed to keep warm in the winter.

You can cook food. Ideally not in the oven or hob. But can cook in microwave or air fryer/multicooker (on options where lid is closed). Kitchen doesn’t get that hot that way

Or get some nice bread, cheeses, tomatoes, anti pasti.

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UltraProcessedLifeGoals · 16/06/2025 09:58

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 09:54

@UltraProcessedLifeGoals
people are sleepwalking through life? thinking they ought to buy lettuce?
what sort of remark is that?
do you only buy lettuce because you really want to, not because you ought to?
perhaps they too like a lettuce

Not your particular flavour of humour I take it?

You take a comment seriously that calls olives woke and mentions bougie candles Grin

NattyTurtle59 · 16/06/2025 09:56

CoffeeCantata · 16/06/2025 09:28

These people are weird!

Fresh, crunchy salads with a mixture of flavours and textures (no 2 the same) are my favourite meals. And I like to add nuts and seeds too. Mmmm....Why anyone would fancy say, a burger, in blistering heat is beyond me.

What are these people eating in the summer then?

I eat exactly the same food in summer as I do in winter, and I eat salad at both times of the year (not always lettuce however). What's so weird about that? Restaurants and cafes serve the same type of food all year around.

GnomeDePlume · 16/06/2025 09:55

AhBiscuits · 16/06/2025 09:00

I rarely buy lettuce in the summer because it's so easy to grow. I always have some in a planter in the garden and pick leaves as needed. I buy it the rest of the year though. I enjoy lettuce in my salad, so shoot me.

Another grower here. This is my first year of growing lettuce and managing to get the succession planting almost right.

Also home grown lettuce has been a revelation, much less 'wet' than shop bought lettuce.

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 09:54

@UltraProcessedLifeGoals
people are sleepwalking through life? thinking they ought to buy lettuce?
what sort of remark is that?
do you only buy lettuce because you really want to, not because you ought to?
perhaps they too like a lettuce

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 09:50

i believe that supermarkets rely heavily on weather forecasts, sunshine, they get in the burgers

as regards abusive customers, it is not your shop is it, learn how to step back from the situation, learn de-escalation techniques. or just apologise..

OfficerChurlish · 16/06/2025 09:49

Absolutely, loads of salads do not have lettuce - even a perfectly trad and simple (and perfect for hot weather) Greek salad. However, I still want to have lettuce or some kind of salad-y greens in the house - I DO have salad of some kind almost every day in hot weather, and also use it for sandwiches, wraps, rolls, chilled soups, smoothies, and tacos. I grow my own, and forage, but also have some sympathy if customers feel a little inconvenienced if the shop has literally no lettuce of any kind.

Of course, they should not be abusing the staff, though!

UltraProcessedLifeGoals · 16/06/2025 09:42

Most people purchase lettuce when the weather warms up because they think they ought to. Most people are sleepwalking through life.

This could be the beginning of the Great Lettuce Shortage of 2025, so have some empathy. What else can they pair with soggy, oversized tomatoes and salad cream?
Perhaps they think olives are woke?

Tapas and anti pasti are for the aspirational working class only. Not quite 'bougie candles',but close.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 16/06/2025 09:33

Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 09:29

Should see the abuse that customers give us when something is out of stock. It’s not acceptable.

If people stop being samey with their food, they will get more out of life. Budget is not an excuse as I had limited income and managed to do different meals each day

Abuse is never acceptable, you’re right.
But if supermarkets know there’s going to be a run on lettuce, or strawberries, at particular times of year, why don’t they stock accordingly?
People eat what they like. I’m not a huge fan of lettuce so rarely eat it, and have some growing in a planter in the garden if I do fancy some (far nicer than supermarket stuff). Why should they ‘be imaginative’ just because you think they should be?

Ddakji · 16/06/2025 09:31

Sounds like where the OP works doesn’t understand the basic dictum of “the customer is always right”.

If your customers want lettuce in their salads then that’s what you ensure you have well stocked up in hot weather. If your customers tend to only eat lots of salad in hot weather, again, you ensure you stock up accordingly.

FrankyGoesToBollywood · 16/06/2025 09:30

Currently eating a salad - cous cous, walnuts, bell peppers, spring onions. No lettuce!

Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 09:29

AtomicBlondeRose · 16/06/2025 09:26

But why should people be more imaginative with food? To please you? I don't see what difference it makes if someone eats the same things every day or makes a new exotic recipe for dinner each day. There's no medals for it. Some people don't care about food. Some people have a limited budget and want to make things they already know. Some people are deeply unimaginative and like to live a predictable life, or enjoy small traditions like strawberries in Wimbledon week. Where's the crime in that?

Should see the abuse that customers give us when something is out of stock. It’s not acceptable.

If people stop being samey with their food, they will get more out of life. Budget is not an excuse as I had limited income and managed to do different meals each day

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CoffeeCantata · 16/06/2025 09:28

These people are weird!

Fresh, crunchy salads with a mixture of flavours and textures (no 2 the same) are my favourite meals. And I like to add nuts and seeds too. Mmmm....Why anyone would fancy say, a burger, in blistering heat is beyond me.

What are these people eating in the summer then?

Tortielady · 16/06/2025 09:27

I don't mind lettuce and eat quite a lot of it, but it's a bit boring. However, it gives the impression of a lot on the plate without a lot of calories, so I sprinkle lemon juice or balsamic vinegar on it and dig in. If I couldn't get it, I'd have cabbage instead. I like it more than lettuce, but it doesn't like me (nasty, colicky stomach pain) so I only have it now and then.

I think pps are right. As far as possible, you should eat what you enjoy and as to the strawberries in summer, if that's what people do, they are paying attention to seasonality and surely that's a good thing?

AtomicBlondeRose · 16/06/2025 09:26

But why should people be more imaginative with food? To please you? I don't see what difference it makes if someone eats the same things every day or makes a new exotic recipe for dinner each day. There's no medals for it. Some people don't care about food. Some people have a limited budget and want to make things they already know. Some people are deeply unimaginative and like to live a predictable life, or enjoy small traditions like strawberries in Wimbledon week. Where's the crime in that?

Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 09:22

Toilichte · 16/06/2025 09:11

It’s annoying. Supermarkets purely exist for convenience, otherwise I’ll head to the local butcher or farm shop.

If the supermarket can’t deliver on something as basic as a lettuce, what is the point?

Most people go in with an idea of what they want to buy, they pick up a few items based around a particular meal, if a core component is missing then you need to change the meal and put bits back- it becomes a right faff

Demand outstrips supply. Sometimes supermarkets order more salad stuff but didn’t work out. I remember, the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee weekend. It was cold and raining. Had loads of salad stuff in but customers at my store “don’t eat salad when it’s raining”.

We had to give away salad stuff for free!

Also, when it’s warm weather, check out the ‘cold weather’ foods - stewing steak, mince etc as I remembered reducing lots and took advantage of buying these cheap, both at my my work and other supermarkets.

Another thing, when it rains, people don’t buy the BBQ meat range. Do they think you can only cook these on a BBQ? Grill, air fry etc. I have used the chicken kebabs with peppers, take the bits off the skewers and stir fry them. Serve on a bed of couscous

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Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 09:13

I eat what I fancy, not to the weather. If I fancy a beef casserole, I make it.

Boxing Day, many people including myself have cold cuts with salad.

I have a side salad about 4/5 days per week. Never have iceberg which is boring!

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MostArdently · 16/06/2025 09:11

Because people like different things? I like salads but would always have lettuce in one because I don’t like cucumber at all or raw tomatoes. It’s not because I’m not ‘thinking outside the box’, it’s what I like.

Toilichte · 16/06/2025 09:11

It’s annoying. Supermarkets purely exist for convenience, otherwise I’ll head to the local butcher or farm shop.

If the supermarket can’t deliver on something as basic as a lettuce, what is the point?

Most people go in with an idea of what they want to buy, they pick up a few items based around a particular meal, if a core component is missing then you need to change the meal and put bits back- it becomes a right faff

AhBiscuits · 16/06/2025 09:00

I rarely buy lettuce in the summer because it's so easy to grow. I always have some in a planter in the garden and pick leaves as needed. I buy it the rest of the year though. I enjoy lettuce in my salad, so shoot me.

Isobel201 · 16/06/2025 08:56

I don't like lettuce really, I love cucumber so I do mainly greek style salads with feta and a little bit of patato salad pot mixed in.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 16/06/2025 08:47

MargotTenenbaumscoat · 16/06/2025 08:45

What if people buy lettuce because they like it?

I’m interested in what other things annoy you. Out of season crème eggs?

To be fair I was outraged* to see Mini Eggs in the shop the other day!

*not really, I bought some!

MargotTenenbaumscoat · 16/06/2025 08:45

What if people buy lettuce because they like it?

I’m interested in what other things annoy you. Out of season crème eggs?

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 16/06/2025 08:39

Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 08:16

This!

Why does it bother you though? Eat what you want, let others do the same.

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 08:34

june is strawberry season

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 08:33

people are allowed to complain in the supermarket that the lettuce is all gone
whether they think outside the box is up to them,
what would you use in place of a lettuce leaf?
home made coleslaw? fair enough if people are having to resort to other foods but allow them to complain

when i was at primary school we used to have winter salad,