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People need to think more outside the box with eating in hot weather

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Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 07:31

Worked at a supermarket. When we had warm weather like we are forecast for the next week, the salad section- more so with lettuce, we ran out. Customers were moaning about no lettuce/bags of salad leaves. “You can’t have salad without lettuce”. You can! The dictionary definition of salad is a “dish mainly of cold and raw vegetables usually with hot and cold protein or carbs”. Where is the lettuce featured? Plus I had salad when eating out. On a few occasions, I had no lettuce. Various tomatoes, onions etc.

Then overhead people say “I’m sick of salads” by day 5 of the warm weather. Do people who live where hot summers are the norm, eat salads all the time? No! I know that their homes are better to deal with hot weather as our homes are designed to keep warm in the winter.

You can cook food. Ideally not in the oven or hob. But can cook in microwave or air fryer/multicooker (on options where lid is closed). Kitchen doesn’t get that hot that way

Or get some nice bread, cheeses, tomatoes, anti pasti.

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menopausalfart · 16/06/2025 14:02

My favourite sandwich is chicken, lettuce, and mayo. I eat salad a lot, even during the cold months. I always have iceberg lettuce with it. It's my fave bit.

Blarn · 16/06/2025 13:57

I think people are just trying to make small talk in a supermarket.

Viviennemary · 16/06/2025 13:55

RampantIvy · 16/06/2025 07:35

Why on earth does anyone think YABU?

I agree with you.

YABU. Folk can eat what they choose. I'm lazy so I buy bags of leaves or salad. I can't be bothered preparing a whole lettuce. All the outer leaves aren't even edible in a lot of cases..

outerspacepotato · 16/06/2025 13:52

LadyLucyWells · 16/06/2025 13:37

You don't win friends with salad.

You do if you know about and use the Salad Matrix.

Samin Nosmat's Salt Fat Acid Heat will take your salads to the next level.

BangersAndGnash · 16/06/2025 13:47

Lucky those who can afford leaves that are not lettuce. It takes probably £5 or more to replace the weight of a double pack of romaine, little gem or iceberg with rocket or watercress etc.

Lettuce is a good base for tastier stuff.

But yes, you can make good salads from finely shredded white cabbage, red cabbage, carrots etc and it doesn’t have to be drenched in mayo as coleslaw.

greencartbluecart · 16/06/2025 13:41

I bet they do have more on June than February

but one week in June demand might double and you can’t predict or buy your way out of that

Allseeingallknowing · 16/06/2025 13:40

Iceberg lettuce is tasteless, a round or butterfield one has a nice flavour.

LadyLucyWells · 16/06/2025 13:37

You don't win friends with salad.

People need to think more outside the box with eating in hot weather
DontReplyIWillLie · 16/06/2025 13:36

Since weather can’t be accurately predicted months in advance there is only so much shops can do if a sudden good weather spell leads to a run on the lettuces

But it can’t be that great a leap of faith to realise you’ll sell more lettuces in June than in February.

MargotTenenbaumscoat · 16/06/2025 13:33

Not accepting abuse is different to campaigning against poor defenceless lettuces.

Abuse is not acceptable. Lettuce is.

greencartbluecart · 16/06/2025 13:21

Since weather can’t be accurately predicted months in advance there is only so much shops can do if a sudden good weather spell leads to a run on the lettuces

and if people fancy lettuce it’s irrelevant that other options are available

justone of those things that can never be solved

DontReplyIWillLie · 16/06/2025 10:39

Nickynicks · 16/06/2025 09:29

Should see the abuse that customers give us when something is out of stock. It’s not acceptable.

If people stop being samey with their food, they will get more out of life. Budget is not an excuse as I had limited income and managed to do different meals each day

Of course abuse isn’t acceptable. Although I wonder how much of it is genuine abuse, rather than people just complaining because an item is out of stock at a time when a supermarket should be able to anticipate high demand. Your employer’s failure to provide sufficient stock is not the customer’s fault.

I used to work in an office with an in-house cafe. The most popular item was jacket potatoes, but try to get one after 12.30 and you’d almost certainly be out of luck. I asked once, more in hope than anticipation, at 1 and was told “Ooh, no; they always sell out early. They’re really popular”. Apparently it never occurred to anyone to just buy more fucking potatoes.

isthismylifenow · 16/06/2025 10:18

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 16/06/2025 10:14

Same. We eat what we fancy, when we fancy. We spent years living in a hot country, and still ate things like curry and burgers when we wanted them.

I know! Imagine only have curry in 3 months of the year. 😂

isthismylifenow · 16/06/2025 10:16

If I eat out, I'm not ordering a salad as a main.

Because lettuce is the cheapest part of the meal and if it's a lettuce based salad, most of the bowl are filled lettuce leaves with way less of the exciting ingredients on the top.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 16/06/2025 10:14

isthismylifenow · 16/06/2025 10:11

We eat burgers in the summer.
And curry.
And anything else that we fancy.

It's only weird to you.

Same. We eat what we fancy, when we fancy. We spent years living in a hot country, and still ate things like curry and burgers when we wanted them.

MageQueen · 16/06/2025 10:13

As someone who loves a salad, I find it odd how many people don't seem to understand that a good salad can be many things. I always offer to bring salads to BBQs, mostly because otherwise we'll be eating some iceberg lettuce with chopped tomato and cucumber only! Grin But YABU nonetheless to have a moan about others - people eat what they like, know how to cook etc. Not everyone has learnt the art of a good salad, or appreciates it.

Westfacing · 16/06/2025 10:12

I think many/most people have fixed ideas of what to have in warm/cold weather e.g. salads in summer and casseroles in winter - and it's hard to shake the habit.

I read that places like M&S pay weather consultants so they can place orders with their suppliers for increased prawn sandwiches which are the summer bestseller!

isthismylifenow · 16/06/2025 10:11

CoffeeCantata · 16/06/2025 09:28

These people are weird!

Fresh, crunchy salads with a mixture of flavours and textures (no 2 the same) are my favourite meals. And I like to add nuts and seeds too. Mmmm....Why anyone would fancy say, a burger, in blistering heat is beyond me.

What are these people eating in the summer then?

We eat burgers in the summer.
And curry.
And anything else that we fancy.

It's only weird to you.

isthismylifenow · 16/06/2025 10:09

I hate to break it to you. I live where it's hot 9 months of the year. And we, gasp, can't get lettuce sometimes.

Same with avocado's. They are seasonal though, so what do people do? Pay ridiculous amounts for an out of season one, or have something else.

And in those 9 months we just eat normal food. The options are limitless for what else can be eaten apart from salad

amicisimma · 16/06/2025 10:07

I think you've misunderstood the relationship between shop and customer.

The shop offers goods. The customer chooses what s/he wants to buy or buys nothing if the shop doesn't offer what s/he wants. It's a good idea for the shop to offer goods the customer is likely to want, bearing in mind the season. Eg. in December getting in lots of Christmas stuff would be a good idea, in June the weather is likely to be warm so people will want to buy what they fancy in warm weather, eg salad, including lettuce. So, again, the shop would be wise to offer such things.

It's probably not hugely reasonable for customers to grumble rather than simply taking their custom elsewhere, but you could be grateful to them for letting you know what your customers want to buy if you want to keep their custom.

The idea is not that the shop stocks what it feels like and then decrees that customers should buy what the shop chooses to stock and complains when they don't.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 16/06/2025 10:06

UltraProcessedLifeGoals · 16/06/2025 09:42

Most people purchase lettuce when the weather warms up because they think they ought to. Most people are sleepwalking through life.

This could be the beginning of the Great Lettuce Shortage of 2025, so have some empathy. What else can they pair with soggy, oversized tomatoes and salad cream?
Perhaps they think olives are woke?

Tapas and anti pasti are for the aspirational working class only. Not quite 'bougie candles',but close.

😂

UltraProcessedLifeGoals · 16/06/2025 10:01

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 10:00

i did take woke olives seriously Blush
and ignored the bougie candles comment

Don't worry, the internet has done a number on us all Flowers If we can't laugh we will cry Grin

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 10:01

what about Liz Truss?

UltraProcessedLifeGoals · 16/06/2025 10:00

I suggest we all go out and panic buy lettuce!

I noticed only 1 pack of romaine left in stock at Ocado this week Shock

Lettuce pray we are not too late..

EleanorReally · 16/06/2025 10:00

UltraProcessedLifeGoals · 16/06/2025 09:58

Not your particular flavour of humour I take it?

You take a comment seriously that calls olives woke and mentions bougie candles Grin

i did take woke olives seriously Blush
and ignored the bougie candles comment