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Men pissing on toilet seat, why?

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BrickHare · 15/06/2025 23:16

Just why? Why can’t they wipe it up? We have a communal toilet at work which everyone uses, however piss is always on the seat after a male has been. I know this because there’s only one toilet in the staffroom and everyone can see who uses it. This never happens after a woman has used the loo. It’s disgusting that other people are having to clean it up. Suggestions at what to do?

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BrickHare · 15/06/2025 23:37

EllyRoff · 15/06/2025 23:28

It’s like dogs pissing up a lamppost - it’s a power thing. They like other people to see it

Fucking grim. I don’t know what else to do as we’ve talked to management yet it’s still happening. There’s also snots flicked on the wall… sorry TMI. But 🤢

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TranceNation · 15/06/2025 23:35

Yeah mixed sex toilets are not ideal but let's be honest more often than not in the ladies the toilet lid is left up so everything is getting covered in germs anyway when the toilet is flushed.

rwalker · 15/06/2025 23:34

Always leave the seat up

hellohellooo · 15/06/2025 23:33

I had a male relative stay for two weeks

When I tell you the toliet and the surrounds was covered in his piss

No lie

I ended up being so angry every time he did it I left spray and wipes on the seat and it still made no difference

Just vile

One morning I stood on his pee it was literally EVERYWHERE ON THE FLOOR aghhhhhhhj

hardtocare · 15/06/2025 23:30

It’s revolting. Cba to lift the seat or clear up after themselves

RentalWoesNotFun · 15/06/2025 23:29

It’s absolutely vile that some men think it’s ok to shake the drips off their dick. Those drops could go anywhere. Use some toilet roll ffs.

Nevertrustacop · 15/06/2025 23:29

I guess they don't wipe it up because they are never going to have to sit in it.

EllyRoff · 15/06/2025 23:28

BrickHare · 15/06/2025 23:16

Just why? Why can’t they wipe it up? We have a communal toilet at work which everyone uses, however piss is always on the seat after a male has been. I know this because there’s only one toilet in the staffroom and everyone can see who uses it. This never happens after a woman has used the loo. It’s disgusting that other people are having to clean it up. Suggestions at what to do?

It’s like dogs pissing up a lamppost - it’s a power thing. They like other people to see it