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Fears - what everyday things are people scared of

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FairViewRosie25 · 15/06/2025 22:45

I’ll start - sounds stupid but I am scared of the top stair. As soon as I have started down the stairs I’m fine but it’s just that first step.

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SillyMillie90 · 17/06/2025 07:43

MuffinsAreJustCakesAtBreakfast · 17/06/2025 07:18

Things submerged in deep water. Especially if it's partially submerged.

ships' hulls, oil rigs, the stilts on a pier etc

The grates at the deep end of the pool 😵

Submechanophobia, I have it too

SillyMillie90 · 17/06/2025 07:36

GroovyChick87 · 16/06/2025 15:13

Lifts. I also hate going into unfamiliar buildings and not knowing where I'm going. I'm useless with directions and always think I'm going to get lost and make a tit of myself. Even more so if there's a lift.

I’m with you on this one. When I started a new job I wanted to get to reception on ground from floor 2 but I accidentally pressed the B for Basement as it was the one at the bottom. When it opened it was pitch black it smelt like a cellar and I was bashing the door close so quick, I literally panicked. It was the feeling someone could’ve been stood in the dark right by the door and I wouldn’t know! 😩

MuffinsAreJustCakesAtBreakfast · 17/06/2025 07:18

Things submerged in deep water. Especially if it's partially submerged.

ships' hulls, oil rigs, the stilts on a pier etc

The grates at the deep end of the pool 😵

tiredoflondonbutnotlife · 17/06/2025 07:08

Thank you for your kind words @BooneyBeautifuland @LSTMS30555. It means a lot.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 17/06/2025 06:58

Toads and Spiders

DiscoBeat · 17/06/2025 06:56

Huge industrial pipes on inside walls
Baths or even swimming pools (shudder) filled to the brim

Summerbean · 17/06/2025 06:41

Heights, confined spaces, nasal piercings and wet tea bags- yuck!

GreenMarigold · 17/06/2025 06:37

Many elements of cooking, particularly frying in oil (fire risk) and using noisy appliances like blenders (feel like they will chop my fingers off). Cooking in front of others is a big fear too.

I am so much better than I used to be but I still find everyday cooking so stressful.

BooneyBeautiful · 17/06/2025 06:33

MamaBobo · 17/06/2025 05:54

You wouldn’t have seen me for dust!!! Just the thought is making my skin crawl!

Oh no, apologies. Funny enough, DD was talking about The Globe last night, so that's why feathers were already on my mind.

BooneyBeautiful · 17/06/2025 06:31

Mama2many73 · 17/06/2025 02:31

Our DS had a hamster. Dh would talk to him, feed him etc but couldn't even dream of holding it! It's the thought if 'the little paws '!

I had two or three hamsters as a child (one at a time). One of them bit me quite badly. They have razor-sharp teeth!

MamaBobo · 17/06/2025 05:54

BooneyBeautiful · 17/06/2025 02:07

When I was 17, my friend dragged me off to see Salome at The Globe in London. There were lots of topless women and feathers! The feathers were everywhere! Am pretty sure there were also lots on the floor and seats when we arrived, presumably from the previous performance.

You wouldn’t have seen me for dust!!! Just the thought is making my skin crawl!

Plasticwaste · 17/06/2025 03:17

Small talk. Big talk.

Bit of megalophobia, too.

notmyrealnameok · 17/06/2025 03:03

Murders/rapists/predators
wasps/hornets
Rodents
large swooping birds
taking off/landing on a aeroplane

Mama2many73 · 17/06/2025 02:57

Not so much a fear but an irrational dislike is the digital time 23:23. Or slightly less. 11.23.

Any other 23: time is fine or 11: it happens regular !

Loose wet hair in the bathroom. Can cope if it's dry, can cope with wet in the kitchen etc but in the bathroom makes me wretch!

Black hairy spiders, think its the way /speed they move!! The ones like daddy long legs no issue at all, will pick up and move them.

k1233 · 17/06/2025 02:41

Terrified of frogs/toads and grasshoppers. They make me scream.

Also cannot stand caricatures of people such as puppets eg the punch and judy type, was it thunderbirds from the 60s? In the same vein, clowns, drag queens, upside down mouths/ chin faces. They don't make me scream but really dislike them.

WhistleBlower8 · 17/06/2025 02:32

Heights, spiders, any insects really with the exception of lady birds and moths.

Dark doorways.

Mama2many73 · 17/06/2025 02:31

TokyoSushi · 15/06/2025 22:51

DD has a tiny hamster, he is lovely, I absolutely cannot pick him up, no way, gives me the absolute heebie jeebies!

Our DS had a hamster. Dh would talk to him, feed him etc but couldn't even dream of holding it! It's the thought if 'the little paws '!

BooneyBeautiful · 17/06/2025 02:15

tiredoflondonbutnotlife · 16/06/2025 19:01

Brucha tiheyi @DeSoleil . Thank you.
The other thing that terrifies me is most people's silence about it.
(We all know how that ended up in the '30s, don't we?) 🙄

This is so sad. I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. My maiden name is Jewish, but not obviously so. So much hate in this world.

BooneyBeautiful · 17/06/2025 02:07

MamaBobo · 16/06/2025 16:04

@slowlydecaying I’m terrified of feathers too. My Mum used to have to go out to the garden and check for them before I would go out to play. The sight of them gives me the creeps. I’m pretty scared of seagulls too…all those massive feathers!

The mirror/reflections in windows in the dark thing creeps me out as well…I hate going into our en-suite at night because of the full length mirror in there.

When I was 17, my friend dragged me off to see Salome at The Globe in London. There were lots of topless women and feathers! The feathers were everywhere! Am pretty sure there were also lots on the floor and seats when we arrived, presumably from the previous performance.

BooneyBeautiful · 17/06/2025 02:03

Fernticket · 16/06/2025 15:56

Huge white,man made structures, like wind turbines and lighthouses . Caused by being taken up a lighthouse one day when I was very small. I can still remember being carried up this tall white building.
Heights, Wish I wasn't . I would love to go up in a hot air balloon, but I am too scared.
Bats. They scare seven shades out of me. I would be really frightened if one ever got into the house. I think it's the fact that they carry Lyssa Virus which makes it worse.

Yes, I am not keen on bats. They seem to have no sense of direction. One summer many years ago, my cousin came to stay and one got into the back bedroom where he was sleeping. He had to chase it out with a broom!

shreddednips · 17/06/2025 01:44

Birds, but only birds of a certain size and type. Robin or bluetit size is fine and find them very cute. Blackbird size or larger fills me with absolute revulsion and horror, especially if the eyes are ‘beady’. I think it goes back to seeing a dead bird of this size as a child- it had been eviscerated by something, and I can remember being absolutely horrified by its innards. Poor thing.

I also think that they have an oily, sort of ‘crunchy’ look about them which I dislike. I have a recurring nightmare that a goose or albatross breaks into my house and smothers me with its horrid, greasy body (I have no idea if they are actually greasy). I’m aware this is totally irrational.

I’m also horrified by anything with a torpedo-like, tapered shape that moves in a ‘gliding’ manner through any medium. Sharks, submarines and large ships for example. But particularly jumbo jets, there’s this horrendous video of a jet coming in to land and it swoops low over a beach, and it makes me feel ill. I went to an air show once (god knows why given my particular fear) and there was a Boeing manoeuvring around low in the sky, I went all faint with fear and had to leave. Airports are a problem, I don’t like being inside planes or in close proximity to them from the outside either. I’ll avoid driving routes that take me near airports because the planes fly too low for comfort. It’s completely irrational, but they cause me to feel absolute terror. Small, Spitfire-size planes and helicopters are fine!

DiscoBob · 17/06/2025 00:51

I'm scared of the tube. Especially in rush hour. In fact any mode of public transport when it's very busy.

I used to be scared of fire extinguishers when I was a child. And toilet brushes. I'm not crazy about either of them to this day!

I'm scared of having my body or face waxed by a stranger. In fact most beauty treatment bar hair colour, cut and style I don't enjoy the process of at all.

I'm scared of financial products like pensions, mortgages, loans etc and I don't understand taxes and things like that at all. It's just completely alien and intimidating to me.

TaupeMember · 17/06/2025 00:50

Toilets

Bits

LSTMS30555 · 17/06/2025 00:46

tiredoflondonbutnotlife · 15/06/2025 23:43

I’m Jewish and I’m genuinely scared how many people hate Jews. I’ve been in a state of constant anxiety since Oct 7. Sometimes I’ll be reading comments on social media about seemingly innocuous things and then, bam!, someone blames the Jews for something bad.

I’m also scared of spiders but they seem like a walk in the park for me at the moment in comparison!

So sorry you feel that way. Please try to ignore the negativity/anti semetics 🇬🇧 🇮🇱

TheCoralMoose · 17/06/2025 00:19

Zips. I only like coats with buttons or press studs.

Escalators.

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