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What is wrong with Granny?

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Jane958 · 14/06/2025 20:05

Both my grannies were Granny.
My mother was Granny.
My sister has chosen Nana, why?
Is this an indication of how far we are plummeting towards the bottom?

OP posts:
Strokethefurrywall · 14/06/2025 23:42

CuarloDeFonza · 14/06/2025 22:40

Yes, we have different names for uncles, aunties, again mother's and fathers siblings will have different names AND other pre-faces of (big/small) based on whether siblings are older or younger than you.

Mum: (Siblings-uncles/auntie's)
Mum's Brother: Mamma (Budda-bigger/older)
(Shorta-Smaller/Younger)
Mum's Sister: Massi
Older Sister Massi
Dad's siblings:
Sister (Phuah)
Brother (Chacha)

And their parents also have other names. Gets very complicated.

I had an Auntie Buddie and Uncle Buddha on my mums paternal side. I didn’t know their actual names until I was in my teens!

21ZIGGY · 14/06/2025 23:28

Jane958 · 14/06/2025 21:22

Well, if Granny was good enough for the Queen?
I will leave it there.
I did ask my sister why she didn't go for "Nonna" the Italian version of granny and she thought for a minute and said she had forgotten it was an option.
She is one of those inverted snobs, though :-)

Whereas youre just a plain snob?

Nothing wrong with nana, nanna, nan, gran, granny, granma, grandma, or whatever else

Jumpingthruhoops · 14/06/2025 23:13

Ketzele · 14/06/2025 20:13

I have a Nanny, partly because my great gran had already taken Granny. IME nannies are either posh people's hired help, or working class grandparents with their own parents still around. This is rather supported by your 'race to the bottom' comment.

Agree. Such a snobby comment.

Shetlands · 14/06/2025 23:08

Sassparilla · 14/06/2025 22:37

Queen Elizabeth II was known as "Gan-Gan" to her grandchildren. This affectionate nickname was used by Prince William, Prince Harry, and her other grandchildren when they were young.

The nickname reportedly came about naturally when the grandchildren were learning to speak, as "Gan-Gan" was easier for them to say than "Grandmama" or other formal titles. Even as adults, some of her grandchildren continued to use this endearing name for her in private family settings.

No they all called her Granny, although Prince William called the Queen 'Gary' when he was very little and she explained that he wasn't yet able to say Granny, although he did master it of course.

When the Queen died, Prince William put out a statement, referring to her as Granny. "I knew this day would come, but it will be some time before the reality of life without Granny will truly feel real."

Princess Beatrice referred to the Queen as Granny on several public occasions as have other grandchildren of the Queen.

LittleMissLateForWorkAgain · 14/06/2025 23:07

My mum and dad were 47 and 46 when my ds was born and always grandma and grandad, I also had grandma and grandad and grandma surname.

I haven't got grandchildren yet but when I do they will be half Finnish so they can call me Mummo which is nice and reminds me of Moominmumma. Mummo is Finnish for grandma and I m only in my 50s so granny seems old.

DontTouchRoach · 14/06/2025 23:03

Jane958 · 14/06/2025 21:22

Well, if Granny was good enough for the Queen?
I will leave it there.
I did ask my sister why she didn't go for "Nonna" the Italian version of granny and she thought for a minute and said she had forgotten it was an option.
She is one of those inverted snobs, though :-)

You are a snob.

She isn’t an inverted one.

Daisy62 · 14/06/2025 22:59

I’m Scottish and I’m Granny - it sounds natural to me. I had a granny and my mum is granny to my kids. Two of my great aunts were called Nanny, ie that was their actual name (though they were christened Ann), which was not uncommon in Scotland - so Nanny always sounds weird to me for a grandmother. Granny doesn’t sound particularly old to me - and even if it did, I’m so happy to be one that I wouldn’t care!

maggiesleapp · 14/06/2025 22:57

Mine all call me nana and the first syllable of my name as one word. So say my name was Melissa it would be nanamel. They tend to drop the 2nd A too. I love they call me this and had thought theyd probably drop the name as they’ve gotten older but no, still nanamel.

Hoooray · 14/06/2025 22:50

My MIL was going to be granny but my son chose nana. Sometimes you can't control the outcome!

WeCouldDoBetter · 14/06/2025 22:49

Eh? Really? OP, maybe you need to educate yourself about the origin of 'Nana'...I've always kinda assumed it evolved from the Italian word for Grandmother 'Nona'.

I had an amazing Nanna and that is most likely what I'd choose to be. Or just Nan maybe 🤔

AutumnLeaves91 · 14/06/2025 22:46

Each to their own! I personally hate Granny

Whatwouldnanado · 14/06/2025 22:46

I am a proud Nanna, had a Nan and a Nana. My grandmother’s mother was Welsh and I understand there’s a connection with Nan there? I know two far from WC old money families where the grandmother is Nanna.

NattyTurtle59 · 14/06/2025 22:44

I had a Gran and a Nana (don't see how that is plummeting towards the bottom, other than that you are a snob).

Granny sounds like a far older woman to me.

CuarloDeFonza · 14/06/2025 22:40

WearyAuldWumman · 14/06/2025 22:15

In my dad's culture, there's differentiation between paternal and maternal uncles. Maternal and paternal aunts are the same, but there's further differentiation for aunts and uncle through marriage.

Yes, we have different names for uncles, aunties, again mother's and fathers siblings will have different names AND other pre-faces of (big/small) based on whether siblings are older or younger than you.

Mum: (Siblings-uncles/auntie's)
Mum's Brother: Mamma (Budda-bigger/older)
(Shorta-Smaller/Younger)
Mum's Sister: Massi
Older Sister Massi
Dad's siblings:
Sister (Phuah)
Brother (Chacha)

And their parents also have other names. Gets very complicated.

Gymnopedie · 14/06/2025 22:38

😁

Cross posted with Sassparilla!

Mermaid64 · 14/06/2025 22:38

Its funny u say ur sister is a snob as u sound like one.
For me granny is a very old grandmother.

Newsenmum · 14/06/2025 22:37

And I suppose in terms of what sounds ‘older’ the order for me would be Granny sounds the oldest and least ‘hip’, then grandma, followed by nanny, nanna and then all the unusual letspretendweresomethingse after

Gymnopedie · 14/06/2025 22:37

Bettysnow · 14/06/2025 20:10

My kids ended up giving my parents really unusual names as they couldn't pronounce granny/ grandad properly as toddlers.
The names stuck and they still called them these names as adults. My adult son got some strange looks when he called my mum gangan!

Is that you Charles?

William was so sweet as a toddler!

Sassparilla · 14/06/2025 22:37

Shetlands · 14/06/2025 22:33

No she wasn't, she was Granny to her Grandchildren.

Her Great-Grandson Prince George apparently called her Gan-Gan.

Queen Elizabeth II was known as "Gan-Gan" to her grandchildren. This affectionate nickname was used by Prince William, Prince Harry, and her other grandchildren when they were young.

The nickname reportedly came about naturally when the grandchildren were learning to speak, as "Gan-Gan" was easier for them to say than "Grandmama" or other formal titles. Even as adults, some of her grandchildren continued to use this endearing name for her in private family settings.

Flossflower · 14/06/2025 22:35

Fiver555 · 14/06/2025 20:47

When we suggested to my mother that she be called Nanny, she said she wasn't a goat.🙄So Granny it is.

I agree with your mother. I don’t want to be called after a goat (Nanny) or a dog (Nana). I am Granny. Yes, it is a name for an old person but so are all the other alternatives.If you are going to be called by an old name go really old.

Newsenmum · 14/06/2025 22:35

Its possible your sister associates the word with her loving Granny and is therefore choosing an alternative. We mix and match too.

MaidOfSteel · 14/06/2025 22:34

I’m Nanna. I wouldn’t like being granny, gran or grandma, but each to their own.

Not quite sure what you meant about plummeting to the bottom. Are you a snob?

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 14/06/2025 22:33

Plummeting towards the bottom?
Inverted snob?

I think the real question is what's wrong with you?

Granny, Nona, Nonna, Gam, Gammie, Grandma... so many options. Does it really matter what other people might prefer that's different to you?

Shetlands · 14/06/2025 22:33

Sassparilla · 14/06/2025 22:19

It wasn't good enough The Queen was Gan-Gan to her grandchildren.

No she wasn't, she was Granny to her Grandchildren.

Her Great-Grandson Prince George apparently called her Gan-Gan.

Youremylobster86 · 14/06/2025 22:29

Isn't it a location thing? In South Wales I don't think many would use Granny and would use Nana instead. I imagine Granny is more common in England.

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