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Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:40

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:39

Please for the love of god : can someone explain to me how I've stated I wish to silence people ? I can't even engage with this poster anymore.

I asked you a question now have the balls to answer.

What tune am I meant to be singing?

Spit it out.

miraxxx · 18/06/2025 19:40

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:37

I can't reason with you. I just can't. You're impossible. I'm sorry to say this : but I'm finding you to be manipulative. You're twisting my words and firing them back at me in fragments that don't reflect the context they were put in

Ever thought about politics as a career ? You're extremely prudent at obfuscating, denying, blaming, switching roles of victim and perpetrator, I could go on... Or journalist? Sensationalism is proving to be a strong point.

She was like this from page 1. You were too kind. I don't give a flying fuck.

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:39

miraxxx · 18/06/2025 19:38

I feel sorry for anyone whom you claim to have helped.

Because you don't want them to get help? Figures!

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:39

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:34

Glad you admit you want to silence voices.

When those muslim voices are heard it won't be me who will be pissed.

Thank you.

Singing what tune? What tune do you think I am singing?

Edited

Please for the love of god : can someone explain to me how I've stated I wish to silence people ? I can't even engage with this poster anymore.

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:39

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:37

I can't reason with you. I just can't. You're impossible. I'm sorry to say this : but I'm finding you to be manipulative. You're twisting my words and firing them back at me in fragments that don't reflect the context they were put in

Ever thought about politics as a career ? You're extremely prudent at obfuscating, denying, blaming, switching roles of victim and perpetrator, I could go on... Or journalist? Sensationalism is proving to be a strong point.

Nope you are the one doing that. You are misreading things and pretending they are about me saying you are racist when they are not.

I asked for a discussion on one thing and you got pissy.

Ever thought of a job as a social worker?

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 18/06/2025 19:38

I've gifted this article so anyone who wants to read this aren't paywalled out

www.telegraph.co.uk/gift/6434bc8f95c2a6c2

miraxxx · 18/06/2025 19:38

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:36

I have helped more victims than you will ever know. Sorry to piss on your parade.

I feel sorry for anyone whom you claim to have helped.

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:37

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:22

Nope absolutely not I am not saying that. I am talking about how no one can talk about certain gangs and when I bring up certain gangs you tell me I cannot talk about it.

I asked for your thoughts on the black gangs. You said you didn't want to talk about them. Nothing about that implied you are racist.

Yes you are the reason why we're in the mess. Telling certain groups they are only allowed to talk about certain things and trying to silence anyone who wants to talk about other elements. Just like the press did.

Edited

I can't reason with you. I just can't. You're impossible. I'm sorry to say this : but I'm finding you to be manipulative. You're twisting my words and firing them back at me in fragments that don't reflect the context they were put in

Ever thought about politics as a career ? You're extremely prudent at obfuscating, denying, blaming, switching roles of victim and perpetrator, I could go on... Or journalist? Sensationalism is proving to be a strong point.

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:36

miraxxx · 18/06/2025 19:34

Which is why I don't engage but only mock these characters. I dont for a second believe that any of them actually cares for any victim of sexual violence at all. There is a better thread on FWR on this topic. I bet none of these characters will dare go on that one.

I have helped more victims than you will ever know. Sorry to piss on your parade.

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:34

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:27

I agree with one thing you've said there : "voices you wish to silence will be heard"

Perhaps you can come back when indeed, those voices are heard. See if you're still singing the same tune.

Glad you admit you want to silence voices.

When those muslim voices are heard it won't be me who will be pissed.

Thank you.

Singing what tune? What tune do you think I am singing?

miraxxx · 18/06/2025 19:34

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 18/06/2025 19:32

Gosh, this is depressingly accurate. It gives the ten rules of misogyny a run for its money.

Which is why I don't engage but only mock these characters. I dont for a second believe that any of them actually cares for any victim of sexual violence at all. There is a better thread on FWR on this topic. I bet none of these characters will dare go on that one.

TheNuthatch · 18/06/2025 19:33

inkognitha · 18/06/2025 19:28

@ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera @OpheliaWasntMad @SquashedMallow
I am in awe of your patience in front of the shapeless absurdity that is been thrown at you

I second this

OpheliaWasntMad · 18/06/2025 19:33

TheNuthatch · 18/06/2025 19:10

So start your own thread instead of hijacking this one.

🙌

Usernamenotavailable19 · 18/06/2025 19:32

OrdinaryMagicOfAcorns · 14/06/2025 19:28

But what will they actually do?

Our prisons are full, they’re releasing violent offenders now. One of the reasons why they won’t tackle male harassment of women - apart from being mostly men themselves - is the sheer numbers involved.

Maybe the government needs to deport where necessary then

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:32

inkognitha · 18/06/2025 19:28

@ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera @OpheliaWasntMad @SquashedMallow
I am in awe of your patience in front of the shapeless absurdity that is been thrown at you

Thanks very much OP. You really have to stick your heels in and fight the resistance with some die hard manipulative liberals. It's so exhausting how they're so eager to manipulate and obfuscate to try and bring this back to "white people = racist" (and these posters will be white themselves) dying on someone else's hill, speaking for ethnic minorities hoping for a big old pat on the back.

TheNuthatch · 18/06/2025 19:32

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:25

Nope I will not be silenced. Telling me not to talk about victims and perpetrators on this thread because it isn't what you want to hear is not right.

I'm glad we will have an investigation and then voices you wish to silence will be heard. Talk of victims and perpetrators will not be silenced by you because you do not want to hear the scale of the issue.

If you want to start a 'only talk about muslim gang' thread then crack on. I will talk about all. No wonder muslim girls said they felt unheard.

Edited

Again, I can't be bothered reading another of your very long winded ramblings, but your first sentence made me laugh.

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:32

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:24

I know. Honestly, I'm now being accused of having no regard for black people because I'm not bringing them into the thread. That poster said because I was happy to bring Muslims up ! Yes to counteract your catholic whatabouttery.

I think we can all see why we're in this mess. Conclusion: you still can't point out the heritage of perpetrators from an ethnic minority. White girls are not allowed to be labelled as the main victims in this, chosen precisely for their race and what it translated to for those men .

But come on, let's all admit we're racist, get trapped in all the sticky spiders webs being shot off by certain posters and accept white rough girls don't matter. Must keep protecting the multiculturalism at all costs.

Edited

Nope I didn't say you had no regard for black people at all. I was on about the irony when you were crying about wanting to speak so I said lets speak and you said you didn't want to. I've said time and time again I do not think you are racist but you won't be told as you want to play the victim.

You have a reading issue matey or trying to play the victim. Or both.

Yes you can point to the heritage of SOME of the perpetrators and you get pissed when I even speak about it. I welcomed a discussion from someone who fucked off after one line who was adamant she wanted to talk to me about brown gangs. I said i welcomed that talk. She didn't like it so ran away as it didn't fit the narrative she wanted to paint about me. Same narrative you are trying to paint.

I welcome discussion of muslim gangs but I do not welcome being told I can only talk about muslim gangs and they are the only problem and that these gangs did not rape kids in their community at all as that ignores victims.

Must keep on pretending you are the victim at all costs you mean!

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 18/06/2025 19:32

miraxxx · 18/06/2025 19:30

  1. You didnt mention the Sikh/Hindu victims. How dare you!
  2. You didnt mention the muslim/mirpuri victims. How dare you!
  3. You didnt mention the black victims. How dare you!
  4. You didnt mention the white gangs. How dare you!
  5. You didnt mention the black gangs. How dare you!
  6. You didnt mention the catholic church abuse. How dare you!
  7. You didnt mention the anglican church abuse. How dare you!
  8. You didn't mention the white pedos who go to Thailand to buy sex.How dare you?
  9. You didnt condemn the white racists/gammons rioting. How dare you!
  10. You risk retraumatising the victims. How dare you!
  11. You didnt talk enough about VAWG. How dare you!
  12. It is all misogyny anyway. Go away.

Gosh, this is depressingly accurate. It gives the ten rules of misogyny a run for its money.

ZoeCM · 18/06/2025 19:31

OpheliaWasntMad · 18/06/2025 17:50

https://x.com/cityhalltories/status/1879930688947859780?s=46

Sadiq Khan claiming not to know what a grooming gang is in January 2025

I can't believe I ever respected Sadiq Khan. He's such a weasel, it's absolutely unreal.

miraxxx · 18/06/2025 19:30

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:19

Oh. What are you saying here ? I don't care about black people/black victims ?

And this right here people: is why we're in this mess. Posters like this.

  1. You didnt mention the Sikh/Hindu victims. How dare you!
  2. You didnt mention the muslim/mirpuri victims. How dare you!
  3. You didnt mention the black victims. How dare you!
  4. You didnt mention the white gangs. How dare you!
  5. You didnt mention the black gangs. How dare you!
  6. You didnt mention the catholic church abuse. How dare you!
  7. You didnt mention the anglican church abuse. How dare you!
  8. You didn't mention the white pedos who go to Thailand to buy sex.How dare you?
  9. You didnt condemn the white racists/gammons rioting. How dare you!
  10. You risk retraumatising the victims. How dare you!
  11. You didnt talk enough about VAWG. How dare you!
  12. It is all misogyny anyway. Go away.
Usernamenotavailable19 · 18/06/2025 19:29

I’m happy. I think the noise has got too loud for Keir to ignore it any longer, the victims deserve a proper inquiry.
He previously said anyone wanting an inquiry were jumping on a ‘far right’ bandwagon. This isn’t an issue that’s going to go away.

inkognitha · 18/06/2025 19:28

@ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera @OpheliaWasntMad @SquashedMallow
I am in awe of your patience in front of the shapeless absurdity that is been thrown at you

OP posts:
SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:27

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:25

Nope I will not be silenced. Telling me not to talk about victims and perpetrators on this thread because it isn't what you want to hear is not right.

I'm glad we will have an investigation and then voices you wish to silence will be heard. Talk of victims and perpetrators will not be silenced by you because you do not want to hear the scale of the issue.

If you want to start a 'only talk about muslim gang' thread then crack on. I will talk about all. No wonder muslim girls said they felt unheard.

Edited

I agree with one thing you've said there : "voices you wish to silence will be heard"

Perhaps you can come back when indeed, those voices are heard. See if you're still singing the same tune.

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:25

TheNuthatch · 18/06/2025 19:22

Honestly, I haven't even read your reply and I'm not going to. Your posts on this thread tell us all we need to know. Your typing fingers must be exhausted.
As I said, start your own thread.

Nope I will not be silenced. Telling me not to talk about victims and perpetrators on this thread because it isn't what you want to hear is not right.

I'm glad we will have an investigation and then voices you wish to silence will be heard. Talk of victims and perpetrators will not be silenced by you because you do not want to hear the scale of the issue.

If you want to start a 'only talk about muslim gang' thread then crack on. I will talk about all. No wonder muslim girls said they felt unheard.

SquashedMallow · 18/06/2025 19:24

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 18/06/2025 19:18

Same. It must be like trying to shovel snow in a blizzard making your reasonable points plain amongst the barrage of faux stupidity and misdirection.

I know. Honestly, I'm now being accused of having no regard for black people because I'm not bringing them into the thread. That poster said because I was happy to bring Muslims up ! Yes to counteract your catholic whatabouttery.

I think we can all see why we're in this mess. Conclusion: you still can't point out the heritage of perpetrators from an ethnic minority. White girls are not allowed to be labelled as the main victims in this, chosen precisely for their race and what it translated to for those men .

But come on, let's all admit we're racist, get trapped in all the sticky spiders webs being shot off by certain posters and accept white rough girls don't matter. Must keep protecting the multiculturalism at all costs.