20 year old son, studying and at home. He's a lovely, gentle and sociable lad.
He's been with his current gf for 18 months. We've welcomed her with open arms, she stays over, has meals with us and has been on holiday with us.
On holiday we noticed how lazy and demanding she was. Never wanted to do anything other than come out for dinner, moaned about it being hot and moaned when DS wanted to go out or do some activities with us. One night they went out for dinner they came back to the villa an hour later as a waiter dripped something on her top. She was so worried about it staining but left it lying for me to wash and hang out!
DS was quite active. Goes for walks, camping with friends but hasn't done or planned anything as she isn't into that. When she comes over they spend 2 days in his room ordering food and playing games. He's putting on weight.
I feel his spark is being dulled, he's always the one compromising. She's a fussy eater (pizza and chicken nuggets) and he is quote adventurous but now only eats out at whetherspoons. He isn't seeing his friends as much.
I do like her and am happy he's happy but don't want him being downtrodden like this.