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It’s a parking one….

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Peaceandquietandacuppa · 13/06/2025 22:30

Wanted to share a bonkers parking situation and get some perspectives!

Live on a narrow terraced street with parking restrictions/ resident permits.

Diagram has: black cars parked up both sides. Colourful cars are the ones in the road. Road has a dead end marked at the bottom so only one way to exit.

Blue car neighbour’s daughter decides to leave car in the road because they are fed up of not finding a space. There is a local landmark where people visit every week and neighbour is pissed off about it.

Green car neighbour is trying to go and pick up her son (goes to a special school which is a drive away). Is going NUTS as I would be! I thought she was going to hit the neighbour who was laughing at her, so I was trying to protect her from getting arrested and talk reason to them.

Red car is someone in my house trying to park (we have one car, I don’t drive) , ends up giving up and parking 2 streets away. My relative turns up and also start shouting when they realise why they couldn’t park 🤣

Other colour cars are waiting around bemused. There were also people parked up who ironically couldn’t get out and would have freed up about 4 spaces.

I was trying to calm green down as she was panicking, trying to plead with the blue neighbour, why are you punishing your neighbours who hold permits for other people’s actions. I called the police who weren’t interested sadly. The neighbour and his daughter were standing there laughing and saying “we’re making a stand”

So we just had to knock around and find some people parked to move their cars, eventually got Green out of there to pick up her kid..

Im still so shocked and angry! After a few people managed to get out and some spaces freed up, we shouted through their window, “you can move your Fucking car now idiots” and they came out and moved it.

Note there were spaces further up the road near the dead end (hard to show on diagram), but my relative couldn’t get through to get to them. And blue were deciding not to use the spaces further up out of principle…

Any tips if it happens again?

and the YABU:

YABU - they should make a stand about people parking on our street, even if it massively inconveniences their neighbours as well

YANBU - they’re selfish idiots and should use the proper channels

It’s a parking one….
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Peaceandquietandacuppa · 13/06/2025 23:07

We do have a resident permit scheme and visitor badges. Just a lot of cars come for about an hour on a Friday and then go again. Some of them park without permits, taking a risk, some of them maybe get given visitor passes. But neighbours daughter knows this and could either adjust her timings to arrive later or park a few houses down the road. But they are just throwing their toys out, affecting us who actually live here too!

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Peaceandquietandacuppa · 13/06/2025 23:04

Marble10 · 13/06/2025 22:52

The only person who is in the wrong is the blue car, I couldn’t live with that. On my street, there would have been fights breaking out if someone did that.

We were getting very close to a riot 😅

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nocoolnamesleft · 13/06/2025 22:54

I feel really sorry for green car neighbour. She must have been pretty desperate to get to pick up her kid.

Marble10 · 13/06/2025 22:52

The only person who is in the wrong is the blue car, I couldn’t live with that. On my street, there would have been fights breaking out if someone did that.

gamerchick · 13/06/2025 22:39

Sterling diagram that.

I think give a taste of own medicine should do it but maybe someone else has a better idea.

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