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People are just vile

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holymoly56 · 13/06/2025 16:25

Numerous stories about the tragic air India crash all over my socials at the moment. The comments sections are fucking grim. Racist jokes, racist comments, conspiracy theories about the sole survivor, not to mention the gutter press posting photos and names presumably before passengers have been formally identified and families informed.

It’s as though people have become so detached from reality they just don’t care. The fact so many people actually died in such a horrible way seems to be lost on them. No sympathy, not even a respectful silence…they all just want to stick their two penneth in. It’s really bothered me today.

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LBFseBrom · 13/06/2025 17:57

I haven't seen that but it doesn't surprise me one bit, it's always the way I am afraid.

JHound · 13/06/2025 17:57

Jonny234 · 13/06/2025 17:28

The point to note is the tolerant left is anything but. Woke lefty channels and platforms like the BBC, Sky, Ch4 news, Facebook spew out propoganda rather than news and attracts the worst. This is why they are all slowly dying.

X is circa 50/50 left and right and people can have a genuine discussion and if necessary agree to disagree.

X is the most toxic of them all.

JHound · 13/06/2025 17:56

WallaceinAnderland · 13/06/2025 17:21

Your algorithms will decide what you see.

This is false.

Everybody gets the same comments on news articles.

nautys · 13/06/2025 17:54

Yes I agree OP. One of my colleagues was on the plane and I’ve seen multiple posts sharing his ‘story’ which is completely fake information. A fair few colleagues learnt of his passing via Facebook and The Daily Mail articles. The local news has even gone and interviewed a neighbour about him. Absolute gutter press. Hundreds of disgusting racist comments on Facebook posts. It’s been very distressing for people who had friends/family/colleagues on the flight.

JHound · 13/06/2025 17:54

This is the online world.

Racism is the norm especially on comments on news articles

Icecreamhelps · 13/06/2025 17:52

I deleted my Facebook account last year never had Instagram, twitter x whatever it is. I left because I couldn't cope the utter vitriol I was seeing. I think it's horrible how some people behave online.

Radiatorvalves · 13/06/2025 17:52

Jonny234 · 13/06/2025 17:28

The point to note is the tolerant left is anything but. Woke lefty channels and platforms like the BBC, Sky, Ch4 news, Facebook spew out propoganda rather than news and attracts the worst. This is why they are all slowly dying.

X is circa 50/50 left and right and people can have a genuine discussion and if necessary agree to disagree.

Never heard such rubbish!

holymoly56 · 13/06/2025 17:51

Ddakji · 13/06/2025 17:29

Yes, people are vile but it sounds like your feed needs addressing.

Why? There are news stories everywhere understandably. My feed or algorithms don’t dictate what people comment.

If I had infinite time and resources I would try to alert the employers of these people and see how funny they think it is then.

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ExquisiteSocialSkills · 13/06/2025 17:49

GCDPAF · 13/06/2025 17:32

I haven’t seen that because I’m not on socials, but the thing that has disgusted me are the photos of the poor family members who have lost people crying with grief and some fucking vulture photographer has captured that moment. Just WHY???

Absolutely this. The lack of respect is appalling.

hattie43 · 13/06/2025 17:48

I’m on FB and haven’t seen anything disrespectful. The thing I didn’t like was the publishing of the photo of the sole survivor in his hospital bed , where’s the dignity / privacy .

JumpingDizzy · 13/06/2025 17:48

Totally agree.
Some bitch put 'good' under a post. They should get done for that and any other racist or nasty remarks. Vile specimens 😡

GCDPAF · 13/06/2025 17:46

LivelyMintViper · 13/06/2025 17:37

Don't know if it's true but I overheard someone saying the survivor opened the emergency door causing the crash. Of course that should not have been possible ..

The May Day call was because of lack of thrust and power failure, an open door wouldn’t cause that. I saw a video of a guy who was allegedly on the same plane on its last successful flight directly before the doomed flight and he said nothing was working on it - lights, steward call button, tvs, which would confirm it was struggling with power already!

WhereAreMyKids · 13/06/2025 17:46

I've seen them and they are vile, puns about curries and side dishes, conspiracy theories but mainly shouting he's not British he's brown. Fucking disgraceful.

Lindajonesjustcantlivemylife · 13/06/2025 17:42

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 13/06/2025 17:14

You don't have to look further than the comments on any SKY news post

Or Daily mail comment section,no matter the subject matter there is always racist comments shoehorned in.
I don't understand how out and out racist comments are allowed to stand.

lnks · 13/06/2025 17:41

LivelyMintViper · 13/06/2025 17:37

Don't know if it's true but I overheard someone saying the survivor opened the emergency door causing the crash. Of course that should not have been possible ..

Of course that's not true. The plane was still very low, an open door would not make it crash.

LivelyMintViper · 13/06/2025 17:37

Don't know if it's true but I overheard someone saying the survivor opened the emergency door causing the crash. Of course that should not have been possible ..

ninjahamster · 13/06/2025 17:37

It’s absolutely awful. I’ve been totally disgusted by some of the comments.

Dappy777 · 13/06/2025 17:34

I often wonder what goes on in the minds of people who laugh at these jokes. Take rape jokes, for example. Is it that, deep down, they are repressing an urge to rape and abuse and the joke releases the tension?

What really sickens me is the way people like Jimmy Carr are willing to pander to such people. He made a joke about Jimmy Saville having “f*cked more minors than Thatcher.” Notice how Carr is cunning enough to get in a dig at Thatcher. You see, I’m attacking Thatcher, so I’m cool and beyond criticism. One of my pet hates is left-wing comedians who are vicious and hate-filled and cruel but get away with it because they’re on the ‘right side’. Frankie Boyle is a good example. Or look at Jo Brand, calling for battery acid to be thrown in a conservative politician’s face.

This is why I so admire P. G. Wodehouse. He manages to be hilarious without being cruel.

Ponoka7 · 13/06/2025 17:33

ContraryNoodle · 13/06/2025 17:31

How weird! I have not seen any bad comments at all. In fact, all I have seen an outpouring of sympathy.

Have you read the comments on FB etc?
They are there, unbelievably people are liking them etc and they have their work details on their FB page and are pictured with children.

KenAdams · 13/06/2025 17:32

Leicestershire Live Facebook page is where they all congregate.

This is why it makes me laugh when people think there's no problem with racism these days. This was always there, its how people always felt. They're just brave enough to say it out loud now.

GCDPAF · 13/06/2025 17:32

I haven’t seen that because I’m not on socials, but the thing that has disgusted me are the photos of the poor family members who have lost people crying with grief and some fucking vulture photographer has captured that moment. Just WHY???

ContraryNoodle · 13/06/2025 17:31

How weird! I have not seen any bad comments at all. In fact, all I have seen an outpouring of sympathy.

Ddakji · 13/06/2025 17:29

Yes, people are vile but it sounds like your feed needs addressing.

Lenovogriffle · 13/06/2025 17:29

I saw some on an Instagram post. I couldn’t believe it.

Jonny234 · 13/06/2025 17:28

The point to note is the tolerant left is anything but. Woke lefty channels and platforms like the BBC, Sky, Ch4 news, Facebook spew out propoganda rather than news and attracts the worst. This is why they are all slowly dying.

X is circa 50/50 left and right and people can have a genuine discussion and if necessary agree to disagree.