Called Unsociable 10 year old a fat c*nt

If you seem him again just apologise for calling him a fat cunt

Then call him a stupid cunt

Don’t be ridiculous. Having said she was being unreasonable I think it’s fair to acknowledge her follow up. A lot of these threads end up with loads of people piling on with abuse long after the OP has acknowledged their mistake. I think it’s nice for them to get a few posts actually recognising that they’ve conceded the point. AIBU can be an awful experience if you post something honest that doesn’t paint you in a good light, people can turn really nasty.

You just do not use language like that to a child. Even if they are behaving like a complete arsehole.

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The fact that his dad didn’t believe him says a lot.

Same. Are all the good people in bed?

Maybe a little unreasonable but this has been my favourite thread for ages. Special mention to @wobblyewobbly for their comments and the resulting discussion 😂🤣

I know it’s terrible but I’m reading these comments pissing myself laughing at the thought of a grown woman sneakily calling a boy on a mobility bike a fat cunt, then letting the boy be told he’s lying over it from his dad.

No you shouldn’t have called him a “fat cnt”. It’s so outrageous, it’s hilarious. Reminds me of that Ricky Gervais scene in ‘Afterlife’.

Honestly if you'd just called him a cunt i wouldn't be judging you - he was behaving like a cunt, fully aware he was and doing so deliberately, so spade a spade. It's not like a 3 year old, 11 is old enough to know how to behave.

Fat cunt is a bit unnecessary and random because it has nothing to with his behaviour.

I mean yes, obviously you should try and take the high road and not sink to a child's level but at the end of the day, the easiest way to avoid being called a cunt is not to act like one. I might be joining you in hell but I must admit I thought it was quite funny and served him right that his dad didn't believe him!

Sometimes people out up with abuse. Sometimes people don't. I don't think it's the end of the world, it's a lesson for him, never know what you're going to come up against.

There you go OP, you’ve been officially sanctified.

Only a cunt with cuntish parents is allowed to whizz about a supermarket terrorising shoppers, so yeah... Do your next best 🙄.

This kid was acting like a fool and you called him out on it, that's fine but you could have gone about it a different way. We all react in the moment and that's understandable, I may have reacted the same way but mayb just have a think about how you could have dealt with it more appropriately for future reference. I work in a school and I've found that if I treat the kids with politeness and respect then it's mostly reciprocated, the staff that respond with anger and belittling language just get it in return and so a cycle ensues. It's not a failsafe method but works on the whole if you're consistent, obviously if it's a one off encounter this approach probably won't make a difference but I just wanted to share my experience to counter some of the other views of unruly kids, show 'em who's boss.

They probably respected your boundaries though, to come and apologise.

I wonder if the child in the OP would think to apologise to you?

As annoying as this kid sounds, I can’t lie to you OP, If you called my kid a fat cunt, you wouldn’t have to worry about going to marks and Spencer’s again.

Rocky Balboa has entered the chat 😂🙄

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"Ok, am I the worst person ever??"

or maybe the best person ever

I think the fat bit for me is the issue. Don't care much about swearing. Not sure why. I think that tbh.

Well I’m one of the people who told you you were in the wrong so I will now say well done for reflecting on your mistake. Now try not to dwell on this particular incident excessively and stress yourself out about it. You’re unlikely to ever see them again, and we’ve all done things we’re not proud of.

Well done OP. :)

I once lost it and called a group of teens a ‘bunch of rude little scrotes’.

Not my finest hour either. I felt like I’d let myself down.

Two of them actually came back later and apologised though.

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😂🤣😂 this was the first thing that came to mind when I read this post!

OP, as PP said… not ideal but don’t lose sleep over it!

The (utterly ghastly) kid antagonised you and you responded. He had obviously really upset you so you acted a little out of character. I totally get it and am not sure why you are being painted as the one in the wrong here. The issue isn't you, it's out of control kids and their useless parents

Hopefully it will make him think twice about his actions in the future.